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Topic: I REALLY need some help here.
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Libreo
Knowflake Posts: 429
From: Australia
Registered: Sep 2011
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posted January 14, 2012 11:22 PM
  
Can somebody please tell me a little about this person's nature in terms of 'the courting stage'? Please? I don't have their TOB so as much as you can give me would be very much appreciated.
Male
Sun Scorp
Moon Aqua
Mercury Scorp
Venus Sag
Mars Aries
Jupiter Aqua
Saturn Cancer
Uranus Libra
Neptune Sag
Pluto LibraIP: Logged |
Libreo
Knowflake Posts: 429
From: Australia
Registered: Sep 2011
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posted January 15, 2012 02:02 AM
Please? My Pisces ASC is making me have anxiety attacks! :-) (And my Leo moon is making be a drama queen about it).IP: Logged |
mintgirl123
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Registered: Nov 2009
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posted January 15, 2012 02:37 AM
Woah! Talk about complicated man lol.At the start, he may seem confident and quite assertive, happy go lucky and direct, but once you start getting closer, there will be this push pull kinda energy. He may be alittle hard to read at times and secretive, while other times, abit of his aquarius mood *may* show by him being alittle detached and indifferent. This guy finds it pretty hard to let down his guard, and it'll be a slow process where he has to slowly warm up to you. You may think he's warming up to you when he initially shows that aries and sag side, but there's another level and layer you can't get past until ages later. It's going to be a somewhat confusing ride! He seems to be kinda wishy washy at times, and might not be the type that always knows exactly what they want. IP: Logged |
Libreo
Knowflake Posts: 429
From: Australia
Registered: Sep 2011
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posted January 15, 2012 03:44 AM
I DO have ESP! I knew you'd reply Mintgirl! Lol. I have posted a bit about this guy on here lately, sorry if it's annoying ppl. I'm just a bit perplexed that's all. I have known this guy all my life and about 3 weeks ago I spent the best night of my life with him. We really connected, we talked for 12 hours, and there was intimacy. I made the mistake of telling him how happy I am being single and want to stay that way for a while. Ever since then he has hardly said a word to me. When I initiate (it's always me) any kind of contact, I get very short responses. All I'm seeing is the Aquarius. Like I'm just like everyone else, very pleasant and friendly but nothing deeper, very aloof and very detached. Iv'e tried to undo my damage (saying I liked being single) by telling him I'm thinking of him but all I get is "I don't want to let you down". I know he liked me a lot and when we were younger he chased me so hard that I bolted! But now the feeling is mutual from me. He hasn't even done a single thing on fb since our night together, (3 weeks) apart from replying to my inbox messages, he hasn't made any statuses or comment on any of our 35 mutual friends things. It's very strange.IP: Logged |
aquaguy91
Knowflake Posts: 85
From: maryville,tn,usa
Registered: Jan 2012
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posted January 15, 2012 03:54 AM
haha so your having this amazing night and out of the blue,you say you are single and want to stay that way,that would definitely reason for pause,no wonder he has distanced himself,i recently had a girl tell me she was in love with me,but then she turns around and said we should just have fun and live our lives,and i have since distanced myself from her and she wonders why ,haha you women are just a giant web of confusionIP: Logged |
Libreo
Knowflake Posts: 429
From: Australia
Registered: Sep 2011
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posted January 15, 2012 03:57 AM
I said so as not to 'scare him off'! Stupid Libran logic. But I HAVE tried to undo it. With things I have since said and the amount of contact Iv'e tried to make he'd have to know I like him! What's with the hiding out from the world?IP: Logged |
RegardesPlatero
Knowflake Posts: 1243
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Registered: Sep 2011
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posted January 15, 2012 05:36 AM
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Originally posted by Libreo:
I said so as not to 'scare him off'! Stupid Libran logic. But I HAVE tried to undo it. With things I have since said and the amount of contact Iv'e tried to make he'd have to know I like him! What's with the hiding out from the world?
Libra sun, Venus in Scorpio here My guess is that he feels very deeply hurt and confused. He might feel like you were dishonest with him or like the intimacy that you experienced was dishonest. On the more positive side, this could be an indication that he's a higher-evolved Scorpio, if all that he is doing is hiding out and not retaliating against you. I just have Venus and Pluto in Scorpio (conjunct, in the 12th). I myself definitely use the silent treatment when I am really upset. I might 'have words' if annoyed, but if I am truly hurt, I don't communicate. I notice that he has Mercury in Scorpio too. Mercury in Scorpio people, in my experience, aren't always communicative with words. His actions might be a better indicator of how he is feeling. Given that he's being low-key, I really do believe that he feels hurt. I don't think that this will be resolved quickly, if it is resolved. Scorpios are very highly sensitive people, and the good ones have a powerful capacity for love. If he feels like he poured himself out to you, only to be rejected, then I don't know if new words will change his mentality. He may need a lot of time to get over things, if he does get over them. He may also feel that your attempts to fix things are "damage control" and not sincere. I definitely feel that you are being sincere, but he might not feel that way. Scorpios tend to be highly suspicious and very slow to trust--I'm that way in relationships (Venus in Scorpio). If a Scorpio lets his/her guard down, and lets you in, and it does not go well, it will be awhile before they are able to trust you again--if they decide to give you another chance. I would say that the best thing to do would be to give it some time and then try speaking to him again. I can't honestly guarantee what he will do, but am wishing both of you the best. Keep us posted! IP: Logged |
aquaguy91
Knowflake Posts: 85
From: maryville,tn,usa
Registered: Jan 2012
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posted January 15, 2012 06:17 AM
haha sorry for giving ya a hard time,i hope everything smooths out for youIP: Logged |
Libreo
Knowflake Posts: 429
From: Australia
Registered: Sep 2011
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posted January 15, 2012 07:27 AM
Thanks Aquaguy :-)
And thankyou Reg for the advice. You were a little unhappy a few weeks ago, are things ok now? I have been thinking of you.
I just messaged him and told him how I feel, I was pretty deep (not too deep, bearing in mind the Aquarius factor) I got "Thanks" I said "for what?" he replied "for the compliments". Aaarrgh!IP: Logged |
RegardesPlatero
Knowflake Posts: 1243
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Registered: Sep 2011
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posted January 15, 2012 07:39 AM
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Originally posted by Libreo:
Thanks Aquaguy :-)
And thankyou Reg for the advice. You were a little unhappy a few weeks ago, are things ok now? I have been thinking of you.
I just messaged him and told him how I feel, I was pretty deep (not too deep, bearing in mind the Aquarius factor) I got "Thanks" I said "for what?" he replied "for the compliments". Aaarrgh!
I am doing better, Libreo, thanks for asking! I really appreciate that :-) And again, I really hope that all works out for the best for you guys :-) IP: Logged |
Randall
Webmaster Posts: 14713
From: Saturn next to Charmainec
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted January 16, 2012 07:17 AM
Moving to Personal Readings.IP: Logged |
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