posted January 15, 2012 02:50 AM            

Obviously after 3 years, you're not just going to bounce back and begin dating. However, all of a sudden this guy seems to be getting close to me emotionally way faster than I'm used to (and maybe comfortable with?) for a guy.

For instance, we always trade epic fail retail stories together, I wrote him on Facebook the other night and I said "Oh I have one for you!" and he told me to message him. When I did, thinking we would just message back and forth about the horror story, he also suggested I could text him and gave me his number. I didn't give him mine mainly because the story was entirely too long to text and I wrote it out anyway.

We were at work a week ago and about to get off for the night, and he asked me if I'd join him for a smoke break after work (I don't smoke.) I said sure, because he's a cool guy to talk to in general. That instance I could see being just friendly, but I'm adding it in case.

Today he mentioned he needed my number so it'd be easier to text me things. He asked what time I got off and we realized it was at the same time. He was able to leave before me but he waited for me afterwards and we talked for a half hour after about how he was doing since his break up. He mentioned about a girl having a huge crush on him in one of his classes whom he might ask out, but this was after I'd expressed interest in our beefy security guard lol. This Libra guy makes me nervous when he looks at me because it's like his entire face is very open and glow-y.

When we were heading our separate ways I still hadn't given him my number (not intentional, I guess I figured I could give it to him whenever since we're Facebook friends) and he asked for it again. We catch each other's eyes quite often but it's annoying to me to do it THAT often so I look away lol.

He has moon in Pisces, which is hilarious because he flat out admitted he's an empath today. I knew he was but I was impressed he actually knew what the eff I was talking about!

His placements:

Libra Sun
Pisces Moon
Virgo Mercury (very literal people by the way.)
Libra Venus
Mars in Gemini

Let me make it clear I see this guy as a friend for right now. I'm not asking for any other reason than to analyze how Libras operate with friends vs. interests.

posted January 15, 2012 05:52 AM            

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Originally posted by aquaguy91:
im the same way as you,i like to get into a relationship right away,and not waste my time flirting and playing games,but yes most people are afraid to commit

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posted January 15, 2012 06:11 AM            

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Originally posted by aquaguy91:
no problem,if i like a girl i want to be exclusive,i dont do the whole casual date multiple ppl thing and see how things go, i am a one woman man

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posted January 15, 2012 06:34 AM            

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Originally posted by hannaramaa:
I met a guy at work whom I've known for the past 6 months. For the first three he was with his girlfriend whom he thought he was going to marry (3 years). The last 3 I've known him, they've been on the rocks and have finalized their break up as of a couple weeks ago.

Obviously after 3 years, you're not just going to bounce back and begin dating. However, all of a sudden this guy seems to be getting close to me emotionally way faster than I'm used to (and maybe comfortable with?) for a guy.

For instance, we always trade epic fail retail stories together, I wrote him on Facebook the other night and I said "Oh I have one for you!" and he told me to message him. When I did, thinking we would just message back and forth about the horror story, he also suggested I could text him and gave me his number. I didn't give him mine mainly because the story was entirely too long to text and I wrote it out anyway.

We were at work a week ago and about to get off for the night, and he asked me if I'd join him for a smoke break after work (I don't smoke.) I said sure, because he's a cool guy to talk to in general. That instance I could see being just friendly, but I'm adding it in case.

Today he mentioned he needed my number so it'd be easier to text me things. He asked what time I got off and we realized it was at the same time. He was able to leave before me but he waited for me afterwards and we talked for a half hour after about how he was doing since his break up. He mentioned about a girl having a huge crush on him in one of his classes whom he might ask out, but this was after I'd expressed interest in our beefy security guard lol. This Libra guy makes me nervous when he looks at me because it's like his entire face is very open and glow-y.

When we were heading our separate ways I still hadn't given him my number (not intentional, I guess I figured I could give it to him whenever since we're Facebook friends) and he asked for it again. We catch each other's eyes quite often but it's annoying to me to do it THAT often so I look away lol.

He has moon in Pisces, which is hilarious because he flat out admitted he's an empath today. I knew he was but I was impressed he actually knew what the eff I was talking about!

His placements:

Libra Sun
Pisces Moon
Virgo Mercury (very literal people by the way.)
Libra Venus
Mars in Gemini

Let me make it clear I see this guy as a friend for right now. I'm not asking for any other reason than to analyze how Libras operate with friends vs. interests.

ETA: Seeing that Mars in Gemini sort of explains it. I have Mars in Gemini too, and him and I have a lot in common - personality wise and probably how we go about getting what we want.

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if you want indcesiciveness, you found the right person. libra sun-veus and-moon piscis? lol

he looks interested, but with piscis mooner the ploblem is that they change their mind way too often.

funny the man i have loved more has this combo libra piscis, but mars in leo instead.

posted January 15, 2012 10:20 AM            

I believe that Men and Women can't be just friends, one party will always want it to be more, for the most part it will be Men because we are driven by different instincts. There are of course cases where a man is not interested in one of his girl friends but they are not very common. Whether it is known conciously or not isn't the issue. If you asked people to actually think about why they are friends or if they found each other attractive in any way i'm sure that 99% of the answers would be yes.

Good luck in deciding what to do in your situation.

posted January 15, 2012 11:57 AM            

I'll post the synastry but I have to warn you it's a "noon" chart. It's annoying when people ask for the synastry, I post it, and then they complain it's worthless because I don't have the right birth time.

RE: The argument between men and women's friendship. In my experience it was difficult for me to make true guy friends because I was not as attractive as my other friends. I mean, they were nice to me in class, we joked, but they never said hi to me in the halls or paid any attention to me outside of class. Then again, that was high school. Now that I'm in college I find I have a plethora of genuine guys whom I would call friends but... they never ask me to hang out or ask for my number at all. We keep in touch via Facebook. I see them hanging out with other girls in my classes though that I know they haven't known before then. Based upon my life experience and such, I'd have to agree with the guy/girl attractiveness = friendship.

posted January 15, 2012 12:00 PM            

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Originally posted by aquaguy91:
I wish I could find a nice girl, I am nice but I'm not shy so much well I am at first but I warm up quick

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