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Topic: Venus in Cancer men
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birdy
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From: Sunny
Registered: Dec 2011
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posted January 16, 2012 08:23 PM
  
Well what are your experiences with these men?IP: Logged |
MC2012
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From: Calgary
Registered: Jan 2012
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posted January 16, 2012 08:30 PM
and women  IP: Logged |
MC2012
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From: Calgary
Registered: Jan 2012
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posted January 16, 2012 08:33 PM
as long as he knows you're there and have his back and you are supportive when he comes out of his shell then it'll be fine. apologize too.IP: Logged |
Libreo
Knowflake Posts: 1046
From: Australia
Registered: Sep 2011
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posted January 16, 2012 09:41 PM
Venus in Cancer man? Oh I couldn't think of anything more draining! Sooks! Give him a hanky.IP: Logged |
Libreo
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From: Australia
Registered: Sep 2011
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posted January 16, 2012 09:42 PM
I'm sorry but I have had a lot of exposure to Cancer influenced men and I just wish they'd all go away! They just need to lighten up. Actually don't give him a hanky, give him a glass of cement and tell him to harden up.IP: Logged |
MC2012
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From: Calgary
Registered: Jan 2012
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posted January 16, 2012 09:48 PM
give him some wine with caviar IP: Logged |
Libreo
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From: Australia
Registered: Sep 2011
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posted January 16, 2012 09:58 PM
Reward him for making her upset? Really? Fawn over him so that he thinks playing 'no talkies' is acceptable?IP: Logged |
mintgirl123
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posted January 16, 2012 10:07 PM
Urgh cancer placement men need to calm down. And stop being so whiny and melodramatic.
For me, it might be cos my stellium and rising squares that, but gosh. that's why I go for fire and earth men =). Alot of water men are just so hard to handle at times. Mind games + manipulative and sometimes abusive behaviour + hot and cold + overreaction to trivial things = *shoots self in head*. I got pretty tired of walking on egg shells actually. Just give him space. He'll come around lol. Give it a week. Just know this behaviour ain't going to stop lol. I think they should come with warning labels or something. IP: Logged |
mintgirl123
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posted January 16, 2012 10:07 PM
^ Libreo I think they were being sarcastic lol. IP: Logged |
Libreo
Knowflake Posts: 1046
From: Australia
Registered: Sep 2011
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posted January 16, 2012 10:12 PM
And especially, don't beat yourself up about whatever it was that made him spit the dummy. We all make mistakes, that's what life is. Don't over apologise. Once is plenty.IP: Logged |
MC2012
Knowflake Posts: 579
From: Calgary
Registered: Jan 2012
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posted January 16, 2012 10:15 PM
LOL!!! IP: Logged |
hannaramaa
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Registered: Nov 2011
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posted January 16, 2012 10:17 PM
I have a lot of experience with Cancers. I'm very Taurean because my Taurus moon is strongly aspected, so I think they're attracted to my mothering and solid nature. Cancers are some of the sweetest people you could come across once you've been around them long enough. If you've just met them and are expecting them to latch on - think again. They would rather you show them how much you like them and basically cling to them in which then they'll begin to trust you and be themselves. They put on a big front of being unaffected party animals but they're actually super sensitive and get their feelings hurt easily. In which then you'll see the pouting come out. My best friend is a Cancer Sun, Moon and Venus I think. I was there for him when he needed me most and always there for him and I've tried to "break up" with him so many times but he refuses to let me go. :P (PS. "Why would you "break up" with your best friend?" Oh, just me being a dramatic Aries and also we live in separate states and have for years. It's draining sometimes.) My other Cancer friend has a lot of fire in her chart, so she's not as clingy as the stereotypical Cancer is, however she's still sensitive. Her fire side won't let her admit it, pride and all, but I can feel she is.
Most recently a young man who wanted to bed me was a Cancer sun, Scorpio moon, Cancer Mercury, and Cancer Venus. He was openly pouty, openly aggressive (like sexually, then again he had Mars in Leo. I don't know how it was placed but damn, he didn't waste any time. Which disgusted me.) He's a very "slink away" type. He's very anxious, very selfish, very sensitive. Timid when it comes to actually pursuing a woman but not if she's right there in front of him. I've never tried apologizing to him 'cause I had no reason to but I assume someone with that much water in their chart would make you apologize 1,000 times before they came around.
What's the rest of his chart look like?
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mintgirl123
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posted January 16, 2012 10:18 PM
Sometimes you just want to take them by the shoulders and shake them HARD.
It's like man the hell up -_-. I'm sure the OP didn't say anything that bad. The guy is acting like a girl. Cancer girls are great <3 (I have 2 really close friends that have cancer placements. One's a Cancer sun libra moon, and another that's a Gem sun, but Cancer venus, mercury and rising, and they're not whiny or complainers or 'soft'... It's just some of the men haha. IP: Logged |
Libreo
Knowflake Posts: 1046
From: Australia
Registered: Sep 2011
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posted January 16, 2012 10:22 PM
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Originally posted by mintgirl123:
^ Libreo I think they were being sarcastic lol.
Yeah I know. I just get really peeved with the topic of Cancer men. Got carried away :-DIP: Logged |
Lioness
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Registered: Mar 2010
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posted January 16, 2012 10:48 PM
Im a fire gal, with Cancer venus being a singleton (planet wise) When I pull away or go into hiding, its because something is bothering me... Im not ready to discuss it.. I need to sit on it and think about it.. IP: Logged |
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