posted January 18, 2012 03:17 PM            

I suppose because I'm dealing with the trine, rather than the square or opposition, it's easier to accept that he won't be a part of my life for much longer. It made me miserable at first, but I'm still hoping for the best.

I don't have the urge to change him at all because I like him the way he is. That's the trine talking. If it were a hard aspect things would be worse. But the trine is more like having the same interest in movies or books and you know of a lot of good ones that the Sun may never have heard of and know that they'll like. That's about as far as the influence goes with me.

posted August 22, 2012 02:30 PM            

My one nagging relationship: I would say he (Pluto) had the upper hand until he surrendered to the relationship and then when we broke up, he regained it. Very passionate and semi-obsessive during, while I was more relaxed and had moments of disinterest.

Currently, I am entertaining a recurrent fling and I just looked him up. We are both natal sun trine plutos, and then sun trine pluto in mutual reception. It's a very interesting dynamic and there has been a power struggle throughout. Each of us will pull a disappearing act if we feel our upper hand has been undermined. But I recently found out, we've both been keeping tabs on the other during the interim. It's extremely frustrating but intriguing at the same time.

posted October 24, 2012 01:26 PM            

I think he does hold the upper hand in many ways. He decides when we can and can not see each other. But I've also experienced the obsessive qualities too, me trying to manipulate until I realized how utterly stupid that was. We’ve had an INTENSE time this past year with lots of sexual, um, exploration. Fun! Also very trying on the emotions, although I think it opened us up to a deeper appreciation for each other.

I am also undergoing/finishing the Pluto conjunct Sun transit this year and we will both be having more Pluto coming up. He will have Pluto opp. Venus about the same time I have Pluto conjunct Venus. The fun just keeps getting…harder to understand. If anyone has gone through those I’d love to hear about it.

It’s true for me anyway about the obsessive qualities (scorpio ascendant here) but also the feeling of finally meeting someone who understands you perfectly and who has a life transforming influence on everything about you. So I’m delighted to read that he (Pluto) has as much feeling about me as I do him.

posted May 31, 2013 04:39 AM            

I have a tight Sun square Pluto in natal and my relationships with my generation often engage in power plays, I have not been able to find a man of my age, maybe partly because of this natal aspect.

I feel very drawn to him, its like obsession, but with cheerful qualities. We dont see often, but the way we interact impacts me tremendously. He has already changed me for better... He sings well... I d like to learn how to play guitar for example, to sing... Im mesmerized by the sparkly way he talks (we have Mercury-Pluto as well).
This attraction seems to be mutual, and Im happy to read that the Pluto person is drawn as well. He tries to fight it because he is in a relationship, so he avoids me now.