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violet7887
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posted January 17, 2012 05:03 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for violet7887     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Delilah
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posted January 17, 2012 07:04 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Delilah     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I have this with someone. I'm Pluto and am drawn to him. It's not a stalker kind of obsessed aspect, but you just want the other person and are happy with the way they are, unlike with hard aspects. If you do try to change them, it's more like introducing them to the same kind of things that you both like, but they didn't know about.

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posted January 18, 2012 02:06 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for violet7887     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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posted January 18, 2012 03:17 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Delilah     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Yeah, I read that a long time ago and didn't really get it until now. I don't feel like I have the upper hand at all, nor do I want to possess him. It's more like knowing that if you could be together it would be better than anything either of you have experienced before.

I suppose because I'm dealing with the trine, rather than the square or opposition, it's easier to accept that he won't be a part of my life for much longer. It made me miserable at first, but I'm still hoping for the best.

I don't have the urge to change him at all because I like him the way he is. That's the trine talking. If it were a hard aspect things would be worse. But the trine is more like having the same interest in movies or books and you know of a lot of good ones that the Sun may never have heard of and know that they'll like. That's about as far as the influence goes with me.

As for who's mesmerized by who, I haven't the slightest clue if he feels anything at all. But I do know that the Sun person is likely to chase the Pluto person in the beginning.

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posted January 18, 2012 07:07 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Delilah     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
No problem. Sharing experiences is the best way to learn about aspects.

I wish there was more I could say about this, but maybe someone else can share their experience with this aspect. One thing that I have a problem with about cafe astrology's interpretation is that I think it's more the Sun person who has the upper hand as Pluto is afraid to lose the other. When hard aspects are involved, Pluto can turn to manipulation to try to hang onto the Sun person. In the end the Sun person will figure out what was going on and leave. But with softer aspects it's not like that. Pluto still doesn't quite have the upper hand, but it's easy to grow in the same direction and love isn't based on control, but something more pure and unblemished.

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posted January 19, 2012 12:29 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for curiouswoman     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
in my opinion the square creates more obsession than the trine

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posted January 19, 2012 02:35 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for woah cakes     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
hey, well my sun trines everyone's pluto who's born the same year as me or thereabouts, and my ex who i'm thinking about again's pluto is in tight orb and i no longer know many ppl born the same year as me. i'm not really sure myself, actually. it FEELS to me like he has the upper hand but sometimes i wonder if i actually am the one who does, and that he actually grips his own pluto power more tightly in defense of this, of feeling usurped or something (he's scorp moon as well), if that makes any sense?

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posted August 22, 2012 02:30 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for theladypatience     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I am a sun trine pluto natally, and my sun also trines most plutos of those born within a few years of me. As I am often the sun, I do feel like that pluto gets the upper hand if I can't maintain my sun/ego in the relationship (codependency issues).

My one nagging relationship: I would say he (Pluto) had the upper hand until he surrendered to the relationship and then when we broke up, he regained it. Very passionate and semi-obsessive during, while I was more relaxed and had moments of disinterest.

Currently, I am entertaining a recurrent fling and I just looked him up. We are both natal sun trine plutos, and then sun trine pluto in mutual reception. It's a very interesting dynamic and there has been a power struggle throughout. Each of us will pull a disappearing act if we feel our upper hand has been undermined. But I recently found out, we've both been keeping tabs on the other during the interim. It's extremely frustrating but intriguing at the same time.

Hope this is helpful somehow

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posted October 24, 2012 01:26 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for libbylee     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hi, long time lurker and reader here just wanted to reply as I share this with my someone. His Pluto trine my Sun 0.25 degrees and my Pluto square his Sun 5 degrees.

I think he does hold the upper hand in many ways. He decides when we can and can not see each other. But I've also experienced the obsessive qualities too, me trying to manipulate until I realized how utterly stupid that was. Weíve had an INTENSE time this past year with lots of sexual, um, exploration. Fun! Also very trying on the emotions, although I think it opened us up to a deeper appreciation for each other.

I am also undergoing/finishing the Pluto conjunct Sun transit this year and we will both be having more Pluto coming up. He will have Pluto opp. Venus about the same time I have Pluto conjunct Venus. The fun just keeps gettingÖharder to understand. If anyone has gone through those Iíd love to hear about it.

Itís true for me anyway about the obsessive qualities (scorpio ascendant here) but also the feeling of finally meeting someone who understands you perfectly and who has a life transforming influence on everything about you. So Iím delighted to read that he (Pluto) has as much feeling about me as I do him.

And Delilah, itís especially reassuring that he, as Pluto, feels the same fear about losing me as the Sun. I always get the feeling that he would be sad but that he is just not into it to the same intensity I am. But maybe thatís the square.

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I have Sun trine Pluto( Scorpio) and Pluto Opposite Ascendant in my natal, putting Scorpio in my 7th house. I'm currently involved with a Scorpio ascendant individual whose Sun is Trine my Pluto as is my Sun to there Pluto. I feel possessive over them and I strongly dislike it.

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posted May 31, 2013 04:39 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for jjj     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I have with the guy I like Pluto trine Sun (1 degree) and Pluto sextile Moon (1 degree), he is Pluto.

I have a tight Sun square Pluto in natal and my relationships with my generation often engage in power plays, I have not been able to find a man of my age, maybe partly because of this natal aspect.

I feel very drawn to him, its like obsession, but with cheerful qualities. We dont see often, but the way we interact impacts me tremendously. He has already changed me for better... He sings well... I d like to learn how to play guitar for example, to sing... Im mesmerized by the sparkly way he talks (we have Mercury-Pluto as well).
This attraction seems to be mutual, and Im happy to read that the Pluto person is drawn as well. He tries to fight it because he is in a relationship, so he avoids me now.

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