posted January 18, 2012 07:12 PM            

She loves to bake; actually she prides her self on her ability to bake and volunteers to bake whenever it is needed. She however, buys cake mixes and pre-made baking ingredients, then hides the evidence and claims the credit.

She invited me to dinner last night, where she made lasagna (she knows I detest marinara sauce). I ate it anyway, because 1). it was nice of her to make it and 2). She made it for her grand kids too, so I assumed she was more careful about making it. She sent me home with some and I was hungry, so I heated it up and had some. Within 3 bites I found three onion skins, a long nasty hair, and one of those rings that a plastic bottle cap is attached to before it is opened.... LOL it's like she doesn't even try anymore.

posted January 18, 2012 07:23 PM            

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Originally posted by Xiiro:
it's like she doesn't even try anymore.

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LOL...

I knew someone who was like, sooper similar. His room was his room and it was like his own little den. No one touch anything! He wanted to run things his own way, so I was like "loldirty..."

I guess, with the Cancer sun, it's their home. But with moon in Aries, it's their home, just run a little sloppily...

posted January 18, 2012 07:28 PM            

Out of all of the aries placements, aries moon is by far the worst one for me. I can not get along with it.

posted January 18, 2012 07:29 PM            

It's not that I can't clean or won't. It's just that I am an anal, perfectionist neat freak when I do and that's exhasting! lol I am very particular about my home and if people have issues well they were born with a place to put 'em LOL

I'm pisces sun in 12th with virgo inecepted in 6th though.

posted January 18, 2012 07:41 PM            

He's just super impatient and will get really excited to start projects and then never finish them. He's got remnants of all sorts of started, but never finished projects all over the house and in his garage and shed.

posted January 18, 2012 08:21 PM            

I have a feeling my mother's Sun/Moon were huge influences on me. I will also totally let things get cluttered, but never dirty. I rarely eat leftovers unless it has been less than 16 hours LOL. I'm just kind of neurotic about my personal mess. Other people can do whatever they want.

posted January 18, 2012 08:38 PM            

My last creative partner is a Cancerian / lunar Aries. That man. I swear.

There's really nothing more to say, is there? -laugh- Vague as that is!

It's like ... if you know, you just KNOW.

Should we form a support network?

posted January 18, 2012 08:51 PM            

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OH. GOD.

My last creative partner is a Cancerian / lunar Aries. That man. I swear.

There's really nothing more to say, is there? -laugh- Vague as that is!

It's like ... if you know, you just KNOW.

Should we form a support network?

-AMP

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posted January 18, 2012 10:12 PM            

My mom has an Aries moon too. Do they ever like to stir the pot up and get people so riled up. I don't know how many snowballs to the head I've got cause they wanna burn off some energy.

My mate riles me up most time but boy does he ever love the attention and energy that comes back to him, I tell you.

I can identify with the Aries moon.....But that exact combo has never entered my life! Though I think I'd be quite in tune with the Cancer Sun/Aries moon person as I am An Aries with a Cancer Moon.....Those Sun-Moon connections are quite powerful!

I sometimes tend to look at sign influences in the chart plus the big three - it speaks to me more than placements and aspects. Having an aries cancer influences but reversed sun/moon - I can relate to what has been posted down and I have seen this in me. I have started many projects only to have them not completed.

posted January 18, 2012 10:19 PM            

I don't know what it is but we wrestle each other alot. And I'm usually the one initiating the wrestling match.

It's like WWE the rock vs. triple x

posted January 18, 2012 10:23 PM            

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I LOVE Aries moon people! My mate has one, but he is an Aquarian with a 4th house Sun.

My mom has an Aries moon too. Do they ever like to stir the pot up and get people so riled up. I don't know how many snowballs to the head I've got cause they wanna burn off some energy.

My mate riles me up most time but boy does he ever love the attention and energy that comes back to him, I tell you.

I can identify with the Aries moon.....But that exact combo has never entered my life! Though I think I'd be quite in tune with the Cancer Sun/Aries moon person as I am An Aries with a Cancer Moon.....Those Sun-Moon connections are quite powerful!

I sometimes tend to look at sign influences in the chart plus the big three - it speaks to me more than placements and aspects. Having an aries cancer influences but reversed sun/moon - I can relate to what has been posted down and I have seen this in me. I have started many projects only to have them not completed.

I was going to learn to play instruments and there they sit collecting dust. I was going to be a local celeb and tell stand up jokes at a club and never kept on with it. I was going to sing weekly at a jam but I guess my family means more to me at this time and the focus is different.

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My mom loves stirring up drama, she actually embellishes stories and even makes stuff up in order to get people riled up. It's like news can't just be boring and true, it has to be controversial or inspiring. She doesn't like my Gemini sister (which she would never admit), and she goes out of her way to make up stories inspiring other people not to like her either. Granted, my sister can be annoying, but it is a known thing throughout my siblings that if you hear a story about someone from mom, about 75% of the story is just completely fabricated to paint the person in a certain light or cause a fight. She gets especially jealous when two people she knows are getting along. Everyone must be her friend and if they seek friendships with others, she will make all attempts to cause drama until both parties break acquaintance and come back to her.

She's an interesting lady.

Every year she chooses a family member and spreads lies about them before Thanksgiving, hoping they will not attend the family holiday festivities that year. It has been an annual tradition for as far back as I can remember. Being a Sag, I have tried to call her out, but it flies right over her head, or she angers someone to the point of them blowing up and then turns to me and says, "See, it's not me, it's that person". LOL

posted January 18, 2012 10:51 PM            

I do love the feistiness of the Aries Moon, the provocative spirit, self-reliance, don't mess with me attitude. I do think Scorpio Moon tends to have this same attitude, but just more internalized, especially if there's a Fire influence. I'm feisty and hot-headed too, but in a more smoldering kind of way. I tend to simmer and then let loose after awhile. But Aries Moon will just explode in a second (most of them anyway).

posted January 18, 2012 11:06 PM            

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I actually like baking and washing the dishes. I find it relaxing =X lol.

I have an aries rising too! But I'm more patient cos of my virgo sun.

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posted January 19, 2012 12:55 AM            

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My mom loves stirring up drama, she actually embellishes stories and even makes stuff up in order to get people riled up. It's like news can't just be boring and true, it has to be controversial or inspiring. She doesn't like my Gemini sister (which she would never admit), and she goes out of her way to make up stories inspiring other people not to like her either. Granted, my sister can be annoying, but it is a known thing throughout my siblings that if you hear a story about someone from mom, about 75% of the story is just completely fabricated to paint the person in a certain light or cause a fight. She gets especially jealous when two people she knows are getting along. Everyone must be her friend and if they seek friendships with others, she will make all attempts to cause drama until both parties break acquaintance and come back to her.

She's an interesting lady.

Every year she chooses a family member and spreads lies about them before Thanksgiving, hoping they will not attend the family holiday festivities that year. It has been an annual tradition for as far back as I can remember. Being a Sag, I have tried to call her out, but it flies right over her head, or she angers someone to the point of them blowing up and then turns to me and says, "See, it's not me, it's that person". LOL

I just realized both my parents are water Suns square Fire ruling planets (Dad is Scorpio with Pluto in Leo). Eeenteresting.

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My mom is virgo aries moon and she does some of this same stuff. Not as dramatic and grandiose out in 'public' of the extended relatives but yes she has LITERALLY chased away every.single.relative. Also, *I*am the child she would hate and play jealousy games with and tell my siblings lies about. I actually could not have a true sibling/big sister relationship with them because my mom would cause so much hell if we were too close. I was this floating in between, a buffer. Now all my siblings hate my mom and do not talk to me because I still talked to her! (she ended up bumping heads ALOT with my Aries sister and, through a very long story for another time, my younger siblings were put into foster care until my grandma took 'em) You know that my mom had the nerve to say that the reason my siblings wont talk to me is bcuz they hate me and thats what I get for trying to 'turn them against her'!! I was like wtf?! They TOLD me its bcuz I talk to YOU!!! After no one was talking to her and I called her on her stuff and let her know its not right and that I don't want it in my adult life, she shortly stopped speaking to me. Every few months I see her on the bus and she refuses to even ACKNOWLEDGE me!

Don't worry, ya'll, I don't expect this same behavior from all Aries Moons Crazy the similarities, though, Xiiro!

posted January 19, 2012 01:28 AM            

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My mom is virgo aries moon and she does some of this same stuff. Not as dramatic and grandiose out in 'public' of the extended relatives but yes she has LITERALLY chased away every.single.relative. Also, *I*am the child she would hate and play jealousy games with and tell my siblings lies about. I actually could not have a true sibling/big sister relationship with them because my mom would cause so much hell if we were too close. I was this floating in between, a buffer. Now all my siblings hate my mom and do not talk to me because I still talked to her! (she ended up bumping heads ALOT with my Aries sister and, through a very long story for another time, my younger siblings were put into foster care until my grandma took 'em) You know that my mom had the nerve to say that the reason my siblings wont talk to me is bcuz they hate me and thats what I get for trying to 'turn them against her'!! I was like wtf?! They TOLD me its bcuz I talk to YOU!!! After no one was talking to her and I called her on her stuff and let her know its not right and that I don't want it in my adult life, she shortly stopped speaking to me. Every few months I see her on the bus and she refuses to even ACKNOWLEDGE me!

Don't worry, ya'll, I don't expect this same behavior from all Aries Moons Crazy the similarities, though, Xiiro!

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It's funny the, "I'll just be angry at you forever or until you pretend like nothing ever happened and return to me continuing to be abusive" thing. I guess I am the most fortunate out of all my siblings because I am very water/fire too. I was raised to perceive her wavelength and know exactly how, when, and why to talk to her. Knowing this often results in me dodging drama. I keep telling my siblings to just ignore her and go on with their lives, but they (my Gemini sister especially) feel like one day she is just going to wake up and recognize all the damage.

posted January 19, 2012 03:52 PM            

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my aries mercury would throw the whole dish on the wall and go full on gordon ramsay if i found a hair in it LOL! yes horrible i know!

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posted January 19, 2012 04:05 PM            

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That reminds me of another weird thing I do, but it is likely Uranus or Neptune oriented. I have always had stuffed animals. but I can't sleep with them in my arms, because I am afraid I will force them into an uncomfortable position and they will have to spend the entire evening with their foot up their nose, until I wake up and notice... It is super odd, and I have tried to work on it, but I just can't stand the idea of it, so I put them around the perimeter of my bed (which I used to do as a kid so they could stand guard from the guy who comes to cut off whatever parts were sticking out of the covers.... LOL I have a strong Pluto, don't judge me). =D

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posted January 19, 2012 04:13 PM            

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my aries mercury would throw the whole dish on the wall and go full on gordon ramsay if i found a hair in it LOL! yes horrible i know!

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I would hate that too.
My SN in Virgo would bring it to the attn of the cook for their being careless.

posted January 19, 2012 04:21 PM            

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It's funny the, "I'll just be angry at you forever or until you pretend like nothing ever happened and return to me continuing to be abusive" thing. I guess I am the most fortunate out of all my siblings because I am very water/fire too. I was raised to perceive her wavelength and know exactly how, when, and why to talk to her. Knowing this often results in me dodging drama. I keep telling my siblings to just ignore her and go on with their lives, but they (my Gemini sister especially) feel like one day she is just going to wake up and recognize all the damage.

I believe part of loving someone is accepting them unconditionally, on their terms, whoever they are, and understanding that entails bad experiences as well as good (Neptune conjunct Sun). I love my mom in whatever way is healthy for me, and that is sufficient for us (especially because it requires little effort from her lol). We pretend that everything is okay and the moment she turns her spear toward me, I disappear for a while. When things have cooled off, we are back to pretending the world is a shiny place. She has been a fantastic teacher for me, considering my Sag Sun wants to point and scream any time I see dishonesty or people pretending not to notice harm. Some people are just not built to face the truth. I think that goes beyond just her Sun and Moon signs though. Sorry to hear your mom is also pretty brutal, hopefully something great will happen in both their lives to help them face their own negative patterns. Especially before they scare everyone off.

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Thank you, Xiiro here's hoping for the both of us *takes much needed shot that she is now old for and hands you one too* LOL

Yeah, I feel that unless I completely and utterly make it on my own and am supremely successful she'll never cave. haha She just gets more self-centered and indignant as time goes by. Yeah she is phenomenal at digging the truth up -but not at facing and accepting it. Strange lol

P.S. I did the same thing with my stuffed animals. I got rid of them last year because I didn't want to have them on my bed but felt so bad about storing them somewhere where they would be in the dark and not have fresh air. I've always been like that LOL Of course I am very neptunian and uranus rules my venus haha

And no, I do not think that talking to stuffed animals constitutes talking to one's self -stuffed animals have completely different opinions and life experiences! lol (I for one have never been stuffed with polyester!)

posted January 19, 2012 04:27 PM            

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posted January 19, 2012 05:18 PM            

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Yeah, I feel that unless I completely and utterly make it on my own and am supremely successful she'll never cave. haha She just gets more self-centered and indignant as time goes by. Yeah she is phenomenal at digging the truth up -but not at facing and accepting it. Strange lol

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And no, I do not think that talking to stuffed animals constitutes talking to one's self -stuffed animals have completely different opinions and life experiences! lol (I for one have never been stuffed with polyester!)

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My mom's thing is babies. She likes my siblings who have multiplied and considers them "successful" (sickeningly because she and my stepfather pretend they are the kid's parents while my siblings aren't looking). No matter what rules or guidelines the parents set, my mom and step father will do their best to do the opposite in order to win favor with the kids (including inspire them to be rude and poorly behaved). Sadly none of my siblings care enough to intervene. My mom offers free babysitting and all the money they could ask for (as long as they let her slowly turn their children against them). The more annoying their kids get, the more they just want her to take them....idiots.

My Gemini sister and I are the only ones without kids and chances are 1). We will both adopt if we ever decide to have children. And 2). We both love kids so we will never let her around them HAha. She won't consider adopted kids "real" kids anyway, so we may be off the hook. LOL

As for the stuffed animal thing. I know it's weird, and I know the idea that they have opinions, feelings, and personal value is my own perception. I just think 1). They are objects which absorb our feelings and experiences and hold personal value and personal traits to which we attribute them. 2). Regardless of how we view them, they do us a service which I feel should always be repaid with respect. and 3). All of life is based on what we view of it, everything we know of other people is what we Accept to know of other people. In a way, the people around us are also just objects to which we attribute traits, in order to grow deeper understanding of our world and self.

posted January 19, 2012 05:53 PM            

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My mom's thing is babies. She likes my siblings who have multiplied and considers them "successful" (sickeningly because she and my stepfather pretend they are the kid's parents while my siblings aren't looking). No matter what rules or guidelines the parents set, my mom and step father will do their best to do the opposite in order to win favor with the kids (including inspire them to be rude and poorly behaved). Sadly none of my siblings care enough to intervene. My mom offers free babysitting and all the money they could ask for (as long as they let her slowly turn their children against them). The more annoying their kids get, the more they just want her to take them....idiots.

My Gemini sister and I are the only ones without kids and chances are 1). We will both adopt if we ever decide to have children. And 2). We both love kids so we will never let her around them HAha. She won't consider adopted kids "real" kids anyway, so we may be off the hook. LOL

As for the stuffed animal thing. I know it's weird, and I know the idea that they have opinions, feelings, and personal value is my own perception. I just think 1). They are objects which absorb our feelings and experiences and hold personal value and personal traits to which we attribute them. 2). Regardless of how we view them, they do us a service which I feel should always be repaid with respect. and 3). All of life is based on what we view of it, everything we know of other people is what we Accept to know of other people. In a way, the people around us are also just objects to which we attribute traits, in order to grow deeper understanding of our world and self.

Stuffed Animal Rights Activists Unite!! HAHAhaha!

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My mom is the same with kids!! She tried to turn every young generation of child and neighbor against their parents! My sister has a child and won't even admit it to half the family because she doesn't want my mainpulative mom to mind screw her! My brother has a child too and my mom kept trying to manipulate everything about the baby and to screw with the mom's head (my brother and the mom were both teens when my nephew was born). Thank goodness they live in another state. But as soon as there was a child involved my mom suddenly is trying everything to get them to move out here where she lives -even though it would destroy the little security they have and even though she wasn't together herself! Actually, that was part of her 'disowning' me. She didn't want me talking to my lil bro, nephew, and the baby momma too much and she thought I was getting in the way of her 'having her way'. Oy, are we related Xiiro?! jk lol I think my mom is the reason I love Sags (usually to my pisces detriment LOL) Not just bcuz she was married to one and the whole 'what you see growing up is what you become' shpeel but bcuz I love the unguarded honesty, however brutal and 'I want to smack you' inducing it is LOL. Seriously, when a person is REALLY honest and upfront, they've got me. Bcuz I don't want any repeats of childhood LOL This is not to say that things shouldn't all be in good timing tho... lol

I love your quirkiness, Xiiro and you have convinced me to finally start a thread about idiosyncrasies that my venus in aqua loves. You can be my co-partner for the thread! All proceeds will go to Stuffed Animals everywhere that were ever made to sleep with their foot in their eye! (or any other uncomfortable positions) LOL