posted January 23, 2012 10:05 AM            

Aquarius sun, Cancer moon, Taurus mars.

Sun opposition moon
Mars square sun
Mars square moon

Sun in 5th house
Mars in 8th
Moon in 10th (almost 11th)

posted January 23, 2012 12:07 PM              

T Square http://www.drstandley.com/astrologycharts_tsquare.shtml
“Two planets in opposition squared to a third. The tension typical of the opposition aspect is aggravated by additional problems introduced by the third planet. Often an obstructive feature blocking the normal flow of behaviour of the person. Person needs to develop activities represented by the "missing" arm of the T-square to achieve wholeness” http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Natal_astrology#Aspect_patterns http://www.skyscript.co.uk/aspects2.html

“The t-square is exactly like the above configuration except that one of the signs is missing. Time and again this is described as trying to sit in a chair with three legs. Ironically, the individual becomes the fourth leg by acting out the traits which are missing in the chart.” http://www.skyviewzone.com/astrology/moreaspects2.htm

what tends to happen with T Squares is that a transit, progression or solar arc comes along and temporary converts it to a Grand Square, which does cause enormous tensions/problems internally, but the good thing is the get you up off your backside to resolve issues.

first thing I would look for would be mars hard aspect to Uranus or pluto....

posted January 23, 2012 01:32 PM            

Here's a link,

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You are strongly opinionated, and get angry when your views are not accepted. People may avoid getting into a conversation with you because you will start an argument at the slightest provocation. You are not a good listener if the opinions being expressed are different from yours. You find fault with just about everything, and no situation is too insignficant to escape your notice. Your rudeness to others is tactless and abusive, and you don't even realize it. You should learn to be silent when you are not fully informed on a subject, or you risk being ridiculed by those who know what they're talking about.

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I don't like this one in either natals or in synastry because it's too easy to go off. There's not even much thought to it, just automatic trigger.

Moon sq Mars I've seen as quite touchy and defensive, to the point that people commonly laugh at them because of their childish reactions. It's hard to take them seriously when they get angry -- because you see blind emotion behind it, and they also often stumble over their words, it's just based on a mood. To me they're always gonna be just kids inside, a child having a tantrum. I think they're kind of sweet actually, because they look so helpless when they're in that state, you just want to pacify them and tell them that it's going to be OK that they have nothing to worry about. But people who don't like appeasing others would often see it as something to laugh at.

posted January 23, 2012 04:05 PM            

One of the angriest, most temperamental persons I know has Jupiter in Aries opposite Uranus in Libra squaring Saturn in Cancer.

posted January 23, 2012 11:41 PM            

i honestly think its the mars. considering its square your moon, merc, and sun. plus your moons already in a sensitive sign being squared my a mars in taurus. when taurus is angry its REALLY ANGRY, i know cause my risings in taurus and since i was little i was very aggressive and tempermental. and im assuming your mars is in the 8th house making it all the more explosive and highly emotional coming out in bursts.. but through time you just learn to control yourself and find an outlet. try not to let people bother you so much and figure out a method that gets yourself under more control and venting. meditate, work on talents, projects, find something that makes you happy and use that to detour your emotions.

posted January 23, 2012 11:46 PM            

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Originally posted by SaggiMC:
Can you post the chart please?

T Square http://www.drstandley.com/astrologycharts_tsquare.shtml
“Two planets in opposition squared to a third. The tension typical of the opposition aspect is aggravated by additional problems introduced by the third planet. Often an obstructive feature blocking the normal flow of behaviour of the person. Person needs to develop activities represented by the "missing" arm of the T-square to achieve wholeness” http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Natal_astrology#Aspect_patterns http://www.skyscript.co.uk/aspects2.html

“The t-square is exactly like the above configuration except that one of the signs is missing. Time and again this is described as trying to sit in a chair with three legs. Ironically, the individual becomes the fourth leg by acting out the traits which are missing in the chart.” http://www.skyviewzone.com/astrology/moreaspects2.htm

what tends to happen with T Squares is that a transit, progression or solar arc comes along and temporary converts it to a Grand Square, which does cause enormous tensions/problems internally, but the good thing is the get you up off your backside to resolve issues.

first thing I would look for would be mars hard aspect to Uranus or pluto....

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posted January 24, 2012 05:36 AM            

And all of this is made worse by my 12th house cancer moon (that's tightly opposed by 3 outer retro planets) I do not get angry often or even unreasonably. But when i am upset, i just really really need to be alone because i have yet to find a creative outlet for all that energy. It certainly is tough especially because all the men i have been with have completed my t-square with their 9 degree pluto. I am not sure if it is my leo asc, but i am always, always aware of myself. And i have never, ever been violent, haven't ever broken a dish in anger or anything, and always people see me as bright and radiant, and it takes years and years for ppl that come into my life to realize i am always undercover

Someone has mentioned that mars square moon leads to "tantrums" of sorts and have observed that.. My ex had his aqua moon squared by his scorp mars and HE is a huge part of why i try really really hard to not make anyone around me uncomfortable, or somehow feel responsible for my feelings because he did that quite a bit.. Draining is an understatement because i crave peace so desperately.

posted January 24, 2012 08:49 AM            

Have you ever looked at Gary Goldschneider's astrology books? In his system, your "close to Capricorn" sun is a sign in itself: you're either a Sag-Cap "Cusp of Prophecy" person or Cap-Aquarius "Cusp of Violence, Mysetery and Imagination." The latter is more prone to angry outbursts (as the name suggests.)

Your moon sign, close to Leo, may be on the Cancer-Leo "Cusp of Oscillation" (in Goldscheider's terminology.) This is a volatile and difficult place for the moon. If it's on the Leo-Virgo Cusp, it should be much easier to control your emotions.

Just throwing this out there because I know about it

Best wishes,
Faith

posted January 24, 2012 08:53 AM            

You might find it comforting to look up Gary Goldschneider's description of people born on the Capricorn-Aquarius Cusp; his book The Secret Language of Relationships has a long essay on it.

posted January 24, 2012 01:32 PM            

If I had to say what my vice is it is anger. Though there are ways I can channel my anger so I don't get into trouble. I find ways to manage it and try to do some different ways to deal with or to perceive things.

My father had an awful temper when I was a kid growing up and he would explode several times a day. He still explodes over such small things too and over the smallest annoyance. I don't visit my father much as it is very tense when I do and I talk to him every few weeks for a few minutes.

This is the imprint he left on me. My folks were very young when they had me and both were not ready for kids. My father never had any patience with children and would get upset if I didn't do things perfectly or if I had any problems. Then both would come down my throat and rip my heart out......

posted January 24, 2012 07:58 PM            

BeholdAstarte: Yes I have been so angry since I was a child too. It's so had when it takes over you. I thought taurus would calm my mars down but I guess taurus can be extremely angry too! One of the angriest people I know is a sun taurus. Fixed mars in it's opposite house maybe. I take martial arts classes and exercise or just try to lose myself in television. Yeah I do better when I'm alone at these times as well. There really is nothing people can do or say that will make me calm, it's all just up to me.

Adonis: Oh lord. Men with pluto in early scorpio complete my t square... which is like most men I've ever known due to being the right age and whatnot. Though I've had a lot of great friends with people born in early scorpio. I worry that I drain people like you mentioned, and I'm so sure I do. I think everyone I've ever known just thinks I'm too much to handle and walks on eggshells.

Faith: Oh I have heard of those books! Well, the secret language of birthdays but I am really interested in looking at the relationship one. Wow, I gotta look more into those books. I know I was born in the capricorn-aquarius cusp.

posted January 25, 2012 12:01 AM            

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Originally posted by Faith:
Bansheequeen,

You just don't seem like the angry type.

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posted January 25, 2012 01:00 AM            

Sun 23Sco(1st) | Mars 23Aqu(3rd) | Moon 23Tau(7th)

What do you think of this one, Lonake?

posted January 25, 2012 02:01 AM            

i do know i'm not the best with feelings and schitt..

if there is anything that relates to anger in my chart it would be the aries merc irritated about slowness or other's inability to carry out everyday routines well.. it is part of my 2nd t-square.

posted January 25, 2012 02:05 AM            

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It's almost like I enjoy destroying my life and sometimes I even feel good seeing things become ruined.

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