posted January 24, 2012 08:41 AM            

I think I know why i attract virgo suns and virgo moons. It’s because of the outer planets aspecting personal planets which is very important in synastry. If their sun is virgo, it will trine my neptune, saturn and uranus and sextile my pluto. If their moon is virgo it will trine my neptune, saturn and uranus and sextile my pluto. But taurus doesnt work, because taurus squares all the leo in my chart. Pisces and scorpio dont work as much bc they only sextile neptune. But they do trine pluto? So i dont understand why that one doesnt attract as well? I guess that neptune is just much more powerful than we thought in romance. I think it’s better to have a ton of neptune with a dash of pluto, than the other way around bc the other way it feels like there’s too many games between you and neptune gives a feeling of major trust.

Then i also understand why i am drawn to aries so much…bc they trine my moon venus and mars (love and sexual attraction). Yet i am not attracted to sag though. I suppose it’s because that would oppose my jupiter and only sextile my rising. Also, it could be that my neptune and saturn square aries are giving a sort of glue. That is probably it. The reason why i am attracted to libra and gemini? Because they trine or conjunct my ascendant and trine or conjunct my jupiter. Aquarius wouldnt work because it opposes all my leo, so that’s why i am rarely attracted to aquarius guys. Libra would also make it square my neptune and saturn, so that also gives that glue.

So that would mean the combos i am most drawn to are people with venus, mars in leo (conjunctions are the best in that case) or with aries in moon or sun, or with libra or gemini in sun …any of that, combined with virgo venus, moon, or sun (so it could trine my outerplanets). Mars aspecting the outer planets isnt significant at all, plus i would want mars to be in harmony with my mars or else there’d be trouble. I was drawn to this libra who had a sag moon and this virgo with a sag moon too. So why the moon but not the sun? I suppose sags and cancers are just that incompatible, and my libra rising draws me specifically to aries suns? While my leo placements make me clash with leos as well as bond at the same time(we both want to lead).

So then, that means my crushes usually have a virgo sun with sag or gem moon (bc aries or libra moon would mean moon square saturn neptune and uranus ouch!) and a leo, pisces, taurus, or scorpio venus. He could also be a gemini, libra, or aries, with virgo venus or moon. And if a virgo moon, a leo, taurus, pisces or scorpio venus as well. (This has all been true for my crushes)

Venus in pisces is also possible beause that would trine my sun and square my jupiter while sextiling the outer planets and trining pluto. But moon in pisces is probaby less attractive bc sun trine venus is nicer than sun trine moon and venus trine pluto is nicer than moon trine pluto. Venus in scorpio would work because that would trine my sun and conjunct my pluto as well as square my venus, mars and moon (fire!) Taurus would work because that would oppose my pluto and trine my outer planets as well as give moon square venus.

My placements:

Sun cancer
moon leo
mercury cancer
jupiter gemini
venus leo
mars leo
saturn, neptune, uranus Capricorn
pluto scorpio
rising libra

Placements of my most intense crushes:

Sun gemini
moon virgo
mercury gemini
jupiter-?
venus leo
mars gemini
neptune, saturn uranus-?
Rising libra

Sun aries
moon virgo
mercury pisces
jupiter-?
venus taurus
mars capricorn
saturn neptune uranus-?
Rising capricorn

Sun Virgo
moon sag
mercury virgo
venus leo
mars-?
rising- aries

Sun Virgo
moon pisces
mercury virgo
venus leo
mars-?
Rising -?

Sun Virgo
moon libra
mercury libra
venus leo
mars-?
Rising-scorpio
(I liked him, but did not like his personality enough to go out with him)

Sun virgo
moon capricorn
mercury libra
venus leo
mars-?
Rising-cap

Sun Aries
moon leo
venus leo
mars aries
mercury pisces
rising aries

Sun aries
moon pisces
mercury aries
venus pisces
mars pisces
rising-? (probably sagittarius)

Sun libra
moon sag
mercury libra
venus virgo
mars aries
rising-pisces

sun libra
moon cancer
mercury libra
venus leo
mars-?
Rising libra

sun capricorn
moon gemini
mercury aqua
venus in aqua
mars in aries

sun capricorn
moon libra
mercury capricorn
venus libra
Mars libra
rising pisces

posted January 24, 2012 11:28 AM            

I really like Venusian men, I've noticed. Two men I seriously dated had a tight Moon/Venus conjunction (both also had Mars in Libra), and the last person I dated was a Taurus Sun (and Mars) with a Libran moon

posted January 24, 2012 01:08 PM            

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Originally posted by jesstar:
with me its always instant attraction to the capricorn guys .its the intense brows that get me again and again ...

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Oh,yeah

posted January 24, 2012 02:59 PM            

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Originally posted by VenusDiSirius:
You had 11 most intense crushes? Oh my,it reminds me..of me! Must be Libra (Asc) thing. I bet you liked two boys at the same time

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posted January 24, 2012 03:02 PM            

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Originally posted by jesstar:
with me its always instant attraction to the capricorn guys .its the intense brows that get me again and again ...

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posted January 24, 2012 06:35 PM            

Taurus Venus - Because it's nice to have the same Venus. We're both beautiful, lazy and proud of those qualities. My NN is also in Taurus so it can feel karmic in a very positive way.
(This falls in my 11th house)

Gemini Sun - Gemini Moon - Gemini Mercury - Because I'm a mentally hyperactive person with my Merc square Uranus so I'm attracted to Gemini energy. They're always fun to be around!
(Gemini falls in my 12th house)

Virgo Venus - Because there is something so cute about them.. I can't put my finger on it.. I find it sweet that they are kind of shy and seemingly 'proper' but very passionate beneath the veneer. I have an earth Venus/Mars, so it suits me.
(Virgo falls in my 4th house)

Libra Mars - Because they're actually very aggressive sexually! It feels in sync with my Aries Sun. They are very forward as well. When they like you - they let you know - in my experience.
(Libra falls in my 4th and 5th houses)

Scorpio Moon - Mercury - Venus - Mars: Because they understand me and they are similar. I feel like I can be myself around these people and there is usually a strong connection between us. Scorpio is in sync with many things in my chart... It is sextile my Capricorn placements, trine my Pisces placements and possibly conjunct my Pluto/SN in Scorpio.
(Scorpio falls in my 5th and 6th houses)

Sagittarius Sun: Their optimism attracts me. I like that they have a big heart and they care about other people and animals. They make me smile! This might just be because of the trine to my Aries Sun.
But I also have Sagittarius Saturn (which can point to a karmic connection) and Sagittarius Uranus (which can make things very upbeat and friendly between us).
(Sag falls in my 6th house)

Capricorn Venus: I like their businessy look and their overall controlled sexuality. They also seem very emotionally expressive towards me and make feel special. I have a Capricorn Moon and Mars... but I've only experienced this in the Moon/Venus conj.
(Capricorn falls in my 7th/8th)

posted January 25, 2012 12:52 AM            

My 8th house (the house of intimacy) is Cancer, ruled by Moon in the 8th house also in Cancer…. And I do love some water in the mix too…. Placements in Cancer, or Scropio are good…. Like a watery Moon or Jupiter…

Funny thing I’ve noticed…. I have my 7th house ruler Mercury in the 12th house (conjunct my Asc), and although I don’t usually go for Pisces by sign…. I have noticed that one or two nice Neptune aspects(like Neptune trine Venus for instance) in the chart really attracts me… I like when a guy can be tough like a Fire sign, but also sentimental, like a Pisces….

I also like a healthy dose on Air in a partner….interestingly, I have a Gemini Dsc…. And I have noticed in the past that I’m also attracted to people who influence my 3rd house (the house ruled by Gemini)…

My 3rd house is Aquarius ruled by Uranus in Scorpio…. And although I usually prefer Fire Suns, I have noticed that personal planets in Aqua and Scorp are really attractive to me as well…

If I were to describe my type not using astrology…. I’d say I like really outgoing, passionate, funny guys, who are friendly and open… Kind of a class clown type, who is interesting, dynamic and a good communicator….and someone who’s strong, and confident, but also kind, caring and fair…like he has a big soft heart and makes a really good friend…having good morels is a must, like actual integrity…( Jupiter can be quite moralistic)…and I also like it when he’s someone who really feels things, has real emotional depth, and certain stuff that he does take seriously…. Despite having a fun crazy side… he has a sensitive, responsible side as well…

Yeah, that’s pretty much my perfect man…