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Topic: Scorpios arrogance
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maira
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posted January 29, 2012 06:36 AM
  
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Originally posted by Libreo:
What do you suppose is up with the weird status deleting?
You left out important information - the fact that you are the one who hurt him in the first place 
My guess is he's trying to decide how to play it (he must have some Libra in him too, right?). Should he act nonchalant and put up random statuses?(but he's not and why should he play pretend...) Should he let out the anger and hurt you back? (but that's petty and would give you satisfaction...) and so on.
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RedScorp
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posted January 29, 2012 06:47 AM
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Originally posted by maira:
(he must have some Libra in him too, right?)
Scorpio Sun-Mercury, Sagittarius Venus, Aquarius Moon, Aries Mars. Maybe some outer planets or the his rising, even his seventh house!? IP: Logged |
Libreo
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posted January 29, 2012 01:46 PM
I don't know his TOB but we BOTH have -
Jupiter Aqua
Saturn Cancer
Uranus Libra
Neptune Sag
Pluto Libra
And when I hurt him it was 17 years ago, that's IF I hurt him. He only wanted to ask me out but I wouldn't take his calls cos back then he was too pushy and I was like a frightened rabbit. We were never an item. He's like a whole different guy now.IP: Logged |
Libreo
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posted January 29, 2012 02:42 PM
The only other thing that he's posted in recent weeks that hasn't been deleted is a song. Eminem Space Bound. I can't decipher if that's a good thing, a bad thing or not even directed at me. They do say Scorpio speaks in code!IP: Logged |
anongrl10
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posted January 29, 2012 04:05 PM
The thing is he said to you quite clearly that he doesn't want more. Or did I mis-read that?
I would take him at face value and stop trying to decipher everything he posts on FB. Why torture yourself? IP: Logged |
Libreo
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posted January 29, 2012 04:25 PM
No you didn't misread it but I did explain further a few posts down :-)IP: Logged |
Libreo
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posted January 29, 2012 04:27 PM
I don't want or need to put our entire history in here, for one it's too personal, and it's too long. There are so many small details which change things here & there. My query was, do Scorpios become arrogant when insecure (see heading).IP: Logged |
anongrl10
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posted January 29, 2012 04:42 PM
I think everyone can become hurtful and pretend to be arrogant or indifferent or whathaveyou when insecure. Not just Scorpios. But I also think age matters; some people are immature and can't handle their emotions properly. Again it's not a Scorpio exclusivity. Yes, they have a stinger, and they can manipulate as water signs but methinks we all have the potential to behave this way when hurt. If you take him on face value, he will get the message that he needs a different way to approach you. Otherwise, you can keep guessing his mind-games and show him that you will perpetually care to be manipulated. my two cents,
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Dreamy_AriesGirl
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posted January 29, 2012 04:50 PM
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but long story short when he said he wasn't wanting more I basically wasn't convinced. I took it as reverse psychology, so maybe I'm the arrogant one.
As i have been through the same situation with a Scorpio I can only say: accept what he TOLD you. Even if its not the truth, doesnt matter. There is a reason why said what he said. You will not be able convince him. Let it go, and its better if you dont pay attention to what he does on facebook.
I've learned this the hard way.
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Libreo
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posted January 29, 2012 05:14 PM
Thankyou, I have *pretended* to accept it. For all he knows I have moved on and maybe even be seeing someone new. I actually said to him "You have made yourself very clear so I'm gonna have to move on, I don't want to but I do respect your decision and I thankyou for looking out for my feelings". He never answered and that was the last time we spoke. That was about a month ago. He doesn't know that I'm still holding out.IP: Logged |
Dreamy_AriesGirl
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posted January 29, 2012 05:23 PM
You will be fine
Let him go, and if he does want you, he will let you know for sure. If not, then you can at least move on entirely and find someone better.
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4lifephrases
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posted January 29, 2012 10:55 PM
Deleting post is just being sure what is being putted in the world wide web about Scorpio.Irrespective of their signs anyone who has their chips down would most probably want to be optimistic which might seem as arrogance. It does come very handy to Scorpio to say "it is your loss not mine" when somebody decides not to be with them. As Scorpions believe that we are being quiet giving and would have wonderful relationship. I think usually the person who is leaving someone expects the person they are leaving is to sob and feel sad. Scorpions on face would instead say well it is your loss not mine and probably it annoys people because according to Scorpio he has given an opportunity to get to know him and come close to him. It doesn't sound very humble but I wouldn't say it is being arrogant as well. It is just Scorpio being optimistic about
himself / herself. You want the power on Scorpio and Scorpio isn't giving you. He is a player either because of the girl who hurt him or he has decided to be like that. Why is it so hard to believe that probably he isn't very keen on having long term relationship? and happy on doing what he is. IP: Logged |
RunAroundScreaming
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posted January 29, 2012 11:06 PM
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Originally posted by Libreo:
Thankyou, I have *pretended* to accept it. For all he knows I have moved on and maybe even be seeing someone new. I actually said to him "You have made yourself very clear so I'm gonna have to move on, I don't want to but I do respect your decision and I thankyou for looking out for my feelings". He never answered and that was the last time we spoke. That was about a month ago. He doesn't know that I'm still holding out.
People always say to let go and kill our emotions right? But that's why so many people end up bitter and cynical about relationships. Because they have learned to kill all that they feel inside. I say love him from a distance...don't stop loving him, or else what you two had will become meaningless, a waste of time, a regret rather than a beautiful thing to be treasured forever--which is what it really was.. Just because he can be a cold heartless jerk and can turn off his emotions, doesnt mean you should become like him and make yourself feel cold and heartless in response to him. Love is unconditional, and seeing someone you love being horrible should not force you to become cold just like them, because soon enough you will become just like them too....cold and heartless hurting other people just like you were once hurt. So dont let go of the love. Dont let anyone burn you. Keep loving them, for love is a strong fuel. Even if it is not returned. <3 =) As long as you love the world, the world will love you back. Love him just the same. Forgive, and you will hurt a lot less. If everyone forgave there would be a lot less hurting done and being done in the world. IP: Logged |
MC2012
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posted January 29, 2012 11:20 PM
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Originally posted by RunAroundScreaming:
People always say to let go and kill our emotions right? But that's why so many people end up bitter and cynical about relationships. Because they have learned to kill all that they feel inside. I say love him from a distance...don't stop loving him, or else what you two had will become meaningless, a waste of time, a regret rather than a beautiful thing to be treasured forever--which is what it really was.. Just because he can be a cold heartless jerk and can turn off his emotions, doesnt mean you should become like him and make yourself feel cold and heartless in response to him. Love is unconditional, and seeing someone you love being horrible should not force you to become cold just like them, because soon enough you will become just like them too....cold and heartless hurting other people just like you were once hurt. So dont let go of the love. Dont let anyone burn you. Keep loving them, for love is a strong fuel. Even if it is not returned. <3 =) As long as you love the world, the world will love you back. Love him just the same. Forgive, and you will hurt a lot less. If everyone forgave there would be a lot less hurting done and being done in the world.
WOW THIS IS SOOOO RIGHT!!!  IP: Logged |
RunAroundScreaming
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posted January 29, 2012 11:25 PM
I am so glad someone agrees! That means a lot to me. Like they say, "Hurt people hurt people." Don't feel hurt and you won't start hurting people eventually yourself.IP: Logged |
Libreo
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posted January 29, 2012 11:27 PM
Wow! :-) "Thankyou" kinda seems like an understatement. Wise words RunAroundScreaming. Wish I could return the favour. xxxIP: Logged |
MC2012
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posted January 29, 2012 11:28 PM
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Originally posted by RunAroundScreaming:
I am so glad someone agrees! That means a lot to me. Like they say, "Hurt people hurt people." Don't feel hurt and you won't start hurting people eventually yourself.
ABSOLUTELY RAS here's a song 4 u lol http://youtu.be/b3HeLs8Yosw IP: Logged |
Libreo
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posted January 29, 2012 11:34 PM
Oh now I feel like I'm on Oprah! :,-)IP: Logged |
RunAroundScreaming
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posted January 29, 2012 11:35 PM
Lololol thanks MC2012! Nothin like a gemini to lighten the mood and balance my deep emotional view of the world. (Cancer here :])Lol, Oprah? How come, libreo? IP: Logged |
Libreo
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posted January 29, 2012 11:55 PM
I just feel all emotional like when she gives away cars and stuff.....happy tears.IP: Logged |
MC2012
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posted January 29, 2012 11:56 PM
RAS you're welcome...you're a cancer and you tell it like it is, what's real and that's how it should be. My brother is a cancer and he's the BOMB LOL hahah ohhh and I got got cancer venus and mercury sooo I definitely relate lol but I'm a suck lmao IP: Logged |
RunAroundScreaming
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posted January 30, 2012 12:00 AM
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Originally posted by Libreo:
I just feel all emotional like when she gives away cars and stuff.....happy tears.
Ohhh aww! <3 I feel you. Actually these beautiful words are thanks enough
It's hard to deal with people telling me to cut off all my emotions about someone. That's not the way it should be. Why should we become cold like they are? IP: Logged |
RunAroundScreaming
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posted January 30, 2012 12:01 AM
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Originally posted by MC2012:
RAS you're welcome...you're a cancer and you tell it like it is, what's real and that's how it should be. My brother is a cancer and he's the BOMB LOL hahah ohhh and I got got cancer venus and mercury sooo I definitely relate lol but I'm a suck lmao
That's great to hear. I really do try to tell it like it is. Aww thanks IP: Logged |
RunAroundScreaming
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posted January 30, 2012 12:02 AM
Hmm, what's a suck, though?IP: Logged |
Libreo
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posted January 30, 2012 12:03 AM
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Originally posted by RunAroundScreaming:
Ohhh aww! <3 I feel you. Actually these beautiful words are thanks enough
It's hard to deal with people telling me to cut off all my emotions about someone. That's not the way it should be. Why should we become cold like they are?
Well you made a difference. You may have even saved a 30 year friendship.
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