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Topic: What about each mars sign drives you crazy?
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NativelyJoan unregistered
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posted February 05, 2012 11:00 AM
quote: Originally posted by sand: also sometimes you just hafta put people in place by brute force instead of scheming. maybe you can scheme how to not get caught hehe.  i was also wondering if you can give a MIS psychosomatic diseases by doing somthing to him/her and not allowing them to get revenge and the hate eats them up from inside...
You definitely do have to put people in their place when it's justified, you're completely right. Which is a trait I personally love about MIS and MIA because when they really care about something or someone they'll tell you exactly how they feel. It'd be unfortunate if MIS were to allow someone to get so deep under their skin they developed a psychosomatic disease because they allowed the hate inside them to build up. That's definitely not healthy, and I think with MIS it's hard for them to not keep things bottled up. But for their own health they kind of need to express it. The issue comes with how they express it which is something to be worked on over time. If they learned how to let things go I think holding on to hate wouldn't be such an issue. It's no good to hold on to anger and hate, in the end it won't help anyone and it will destroy them in the process. I think as long as MIS learns ways to manage their anger and tendencies for payback, they'll be a force to be reckoned with. And very respected for their emotional maturity and how they were able to handle situations that infuriate them with integrity instead of being ruthless. I truly think that's their Achilles heel. Getting too invested in things. Especially things that hit them on a very deep emotional level. In which any ounce of emotional maturity they innately have goes right out the window. If I as an MIA could pass one trait over to my MIS brothers and sisters it would be to learn to let things go and understand that you can't control the world or anyone living in it. All you can do is manage how you deal with the forces in life. IP: Logged |
sand Knowflake Posts: 10270 From: Registered: May 2011
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posted February 05, 2012 01:09 PM
quote: that you can't control the world or anyone living in it. All you can do is manage how you deal with the forces in life.
While Mars in Libra is constantly striving to bring fairness to the world, Mars in Scorpio knows that life simply isn't fair. MIS101 from cafe astrology i know i remember that one coz i was very close to a MIL. IP: Logged |
Betty Boop Knowflake Posts: 3377 From: Betty Boop Land Registered: Sep 2010
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posted February 05, 2012 03:03 PM
quote: The most over hyped position of Mars
quote: I truly think that's their Achilles heel. Getting too invested in things.
Joan - If you judge 'strength' by overall personal-happiness in life, MIA definitely comes out on top  Actually *all* Aries placements probably come out on top, in this regard! IP: Logged |
Lioness Knowflake Posts: 6884 From: Registered: Mar 2010
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posted February 06, 2012 12:23 AM
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FireWire Knowflake Posts: 372 From: Registered: Sep 2011
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posted February 06, 2012 12:28 PM
quote: Originally posted by sand: While Mars in Libra is constantly striving to bring fairness to the world, Mars in Scorpio knows that life simply isn't fair.MIS101 from cafe astrology i know i remember that one coz i was very close to a MIL.
I am a MIL, and have several friends who are MIS. I definitely get labeled as far more intense and aggressive than all of them. But I also have Mars Conjunct Pluto--so when I am focused on something, nothting will stand in my way, including a few MIS. I really don't see any danger with MIS...or just with Scorpio energy in general. Maybe it it because I have a lot of Scorp./pluto and my south node? I also find it difficult to imagine finding things about a mars placement that I don't like without thinking "is it the Mars, or the angle, or the Moon...etc." So, idk.  IP: Logged |
sand Knowflake Posts: 10270 From: Registered: May 2011
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posted February 06, 2012 03:00 PM
^i must add we were not enemies. it's just that i could clearly see the difference which is why i remembered that passage. more specifically what i picked up from her mars in libra was her idealism and wanting to change the world, while i was just fine to let things be because i knew whatever happened i'd just adapt to that..IP: Logged |
mockingbird Knowflake Posts: 2128 From: Registered: Dec 2011
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posted February 06, 2012 03:18 PM
I don't know abou YOU, but I simply ADORE Mars in Leo. It's a wondarful, regal placement.<mane flick> <strides out of room>  ------------------ If I've included this sig, it's because I'm posting from a mobile device. Please excuse all outrageous typos and confusing auto-corrects. IP: Logged |
mintgirl123 Knowflake Posts: 2400 From: Registered: Nov 2009
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posted February 06, 2012 06:19 PM
Don't you guys find mars in scorpio abit broody? And their tempers are insane. It's like they lose all control of themselves.Aries blow up and it's loud and chaotic, so do all the other fire signs, but scorpio seems to be on another level. Like they STING you hard! So that's what I don't like about them the most. So my fav mars is probably cappy or leo. One for persistence and another for being sparkly lol. IP: Logged |
FireWire Knowflake Posts: 372 From: Registered: Sep 2011
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posted February 06, 2012 06:46 PM
quote: Originally posted by mintgirl123: Don't you guys find mars in scorpio abit broody? And their tempers are insane. It's like they lose all control of themselves.
I don't know any with bad tempers, or that sting hard. Maybe I have a bad batch or they just sting and blow up on others? Who knows!
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FireWire Knowflake Posts: 372 From: Registered: Sep 2011
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posted February 06, 2012 06:50 PM
quote: Originally posted by sand: ^i must add we were not enemies. it's just that i could clearly see the difference which is why i remembered that passage. more specifically what i picked up from her mars in libra was her idealism and wanting to change the world, while i was just fine to let things be because i knew whatever happened i'd just adapt to that..
There is definitely a difference between the two, imo. I get along very well with MIS actually. I normally play the role of helping them balance their outlook, which can sometimes be a bit dark and sometimes pessimistic. Terrible for my MIL and my Sag sun, lol.
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mintgirl123 Knowflake Posts: 2400 From: Registered: Nov 2009
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posted February 06, 2012 07:03 PM
How close are you to them? I've noticed that scorpios tend to release their temper to people they are more close to.I had an ex that had it, our relationship was pretty serious. My mother also has it and she can get pretty scary at times. With other scorpy mars, it's more below the surface but I hear from their s/o that they can get really over the top really fast. IP: Logged |
VenusDiSirius Knowflake Posts: 6542 From: Registered: Aug 2010
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posted February 06, 2012 07:15 PM
quote: Originally posted by sand: i was also wondering if you can give a MIS psychosomatic diseases by doing somthing to him/her and not allowing them to get revenge and the hate eats them up from inside...
Have seen this happen,but from a wider perspective,it can happen with any stronger Mars : Mars + Pisces/Neptune- H1/H6. Neptune would make body very receptive/responsive to emotional extremity,or mood swings.
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Betty Boop Knowflake Posts: 3377 From: Betty Boop Land Registered: Sep 2010
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posted February 06, 2012 08:14 PM
Mars/Neptune has no desire for revenge though.. at least not in my chart  IP: Logged |
Betty Boop Knowflake Posts: 3377 From: Betty Boop Land Registered: Sep 2010
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posted February 06, 2012 08:31 PM
From my perspective - the people I know with Scorpio Mars have acted fairly. They don't sting people left and right. It happens rarely that they do - when there is a reason... If you have not seen them at their worst - it's probably because MIS is very controlled.It's very different to Leo Mars because Scorpio keeps everything hidden. Their intensity is never on the surface and they don't wear their heart on their sleeve. Many people who don't know them well would think they are emotionally cold. IP: Logged |
Nine Moderator Posts: 2582 From: The Cusp of Love Registered: May 2009
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posted February 06, 2012 08:40 PM
quote: I don't know any with bad tempers, or that sting hard. Maybe I have a bad batch or they just sting and blow up on others? Who knows!
I got a similar batch as you because a temper and hard stinging ain't what I've observed in this placement. The sibling before me and the one after me both have this placement - I have it in Taurus. I have two first cousins, who I grew up with, that have this. I have a parent with it, an aunt, and a childhood friend that share this placement. Nope, no wild tempers in that batch. IP: Logged |
sand Knowflake Posts: 10270 From: Registered: May 2011
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posted February 07, 2012 08:05 AM
quote: Originally posted by FireWire: There is definitely a difference between the two, imo. I get along very well with MIS actually. I normally play the role of helping them balance their outlook, which can sometimes be a bit dark and sometimes pessimistic. Terrible for my MIL and my Sag sun, lol.
hey what a coincidence she was a sag sun too LOL! IP: Logged |
sand Knowflake Posts: 10270 From: Registered: May 2011
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posted February 07, 2012 08:13 AM
quote: Originally posted by mintgirl123: How close are you to them? I've noticed that scorpios tend to release their temper to people they are more close to.I had an ex that had it, our relationship was pretty serious. My mother also has it and she can get pretty scary at times. With other scorpy mars, it's more below the surface but I hear from their s/o that they can get really over the top really fast.
me, i have sun opposite mars as my only aspect to it so i can be abit fiery. plus i have aries merc. but in general i'd only unleash it if i am betrayed. like what love i felt would go the other way into the negatives of the same magnitude. so far iv only done it to 1 person and he was a family member. IP: Logged |
Faith Knowflake Posts: 17917 From: Bella's Hair Salon Registered: Jul 2011
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posted February 07, 2012 08:25 AM
quote: I don't know abou YOU, but I simply ADORE Mars in Leo. It's a wondarful, regal placement.<mane flick> <strides out of room>
My hubby has this and I like it. Don't know what that says about ME.  IP: Logged |
anongrl10 Knowflake Posts: 4557 From: Registered: Sep 2011
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posted February 07, 2012 08:27 AM
I do love the Mane Flick in Male Leos! So sexy! IP: Logged |
VenusDiSirius Knowflake Posts: 6542 From: Registered: Aug 2010
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posted February 07, 2012 08:44 AM
quote: Originally posted by Betty Boop: Mars/Neptune has no desire for revenge though.. at least not in my chart 
I was referring to psychosomatic episodes,not revenge! IP: Logged |
Darmo Newflake Posts: 21 From: UK Registered: Jan 2012
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posted April 17, 2013 05:10 PM
Me: Mars in Gemini, I would say I am talkative and enthusiastic, many people call me a Monkey including my girlfriend (also Gemini Mars). My Mars only expresses it's self in my 'off' time however e.g. social and recreational things, not work. I must admit this placement doesn't allow me to focus on my work for as long as i hope, making me somewhat unproductive, unless its something creative and fun, I usually sidetrack and go on my drum kit, or get sidetracked writing replys on this here forum. But overall all my work does get done to good standard and on time thanks to me being a first decan Scorpio and with many placements in Capricorn, makes me a very efficient person by nature. People say me and my GF are a 'cute' couple, cos we are enthusiastic and cheesy with our words lol, infact my gf cannot write a text without at least three 's Anyhow now some observations about people I know: Mars in Aries: Good - Quick to act when I suggest something fun to do. Bad - Rushes into things that require to be thought about first, wastes time, not so efficient.
Mars in Cancer: Good - Keeps me from overspending when we are out, good haggler and bargain hunter, overall a defensive person. Bad - unwilling to take any sort of risks, not very spontaneous, passive aggressive. Mars in Taurus: Bad: I knew this one girl, she took a year to get over a guy she went out with for a month LOL. Good: Can stay on a task, getting it done slowly but surly. Mars in Scorpio: Good - Sex Drive! Bad - spiteful Mars in Pisces: Good - Willing to help you out, offers help, even at very own sacrifice. Bad - Expects the same in return, will be hurt if you don't proactive to offer help to them. Mars in Capricorn: Good - Hard working, dependable. Bad - Only the above if progressing themselves I Don't think know of any other Mars signs in my life lol. anyway thats my 2 cents.
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libraschoice77 Knowflake Posts: 1740 From: A Danielle Steele Novel Registered: Aug 2010
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posted April 17, 2013 05:18 PM
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hannaramaa Moderator Posts: 11321 From: Registered: Nov 2011
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posted April 17, 2013 05:35 PM
I attract Mars in Libra people a lot. I think it's because my Mars in Gemini is in the 12th house and absorbing all that "foggy" energy. Mars in Libra people drive me NUTS! They can't just DIRECTLY go after what they want. They play all these games but they absolutely cannot deal with the consequences of this. Or confrontation! I think TOO they drive me nuts because obviously it's opposing my Sun, Merc, and Venus in Aries. Mars in Cancer. They don't drive me nuts but I get uncomfortable with how they get emotional when they get mad. Mars in Aries can't sit still and I hate tapping noises. Mars in Taurus is okay, I haven't met a lot of them. Mars in Virgo...eh they're alright. I don't know a lot of them either. Mars in Leo...kind of sexually aggressive. I like it but not when it's too fast or I don't know them well. Mars in Capricorn...too shy to go after what they want but maybe it was because he had Venus in Taurus too. Sexy in an understated kind of way. Mars in Aquarius, don't know a lot of them but I'm friends with a girl who has it. Mars in Pisces...THEY don't go after what they want! So much energy emitted from this placement, it's overwhelming. IP: Logged |
starmoon Knowflake Posts: 1807 From: Registered: Sep 2011
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posted April 17, 2013 05:50 PM
mars in scorpio: stinging with words when they feel slighted/angeredmars in pisces: LAZY LAZY LAZY. no motivation for anything, just dwell in emotions and like you best if you're sick and needy mars in libra: don't get to the point, very indirect with what they want/need/say IP: Logged |
hannaramaa Moderator Posts: 11321 From: Registered: Nov 2011
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posted April 17, 2013 05:52 PM
quote: Originally posted by starmoon: mars in scorpio: stinging with words when they feel slighted/angeredmars in pisces: LAZY LAZY LAZY. no motivation for anything, just dwell in emotions and like you best if you're sick and needy mars in libra: don't get to the point, very indirect with what they want/need/say
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