posted February 03, 2012 03:19 PM            

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Originally posted by woah cakes:
had this in my last relationship that just ended a few weeks ago. half a degree orb, i was the chiron. my chiron is very afflicted (well, with the wide-ish orbs that are default on astro.com) and i did not hurt him, but he hurt me. i'm pretty numb about it but yeah it was pretty heartbreaking. there was definitely lots of potential for something transcendantly healing tho; we had moments of this.. seems kind of like this aspect dominated all our interactions cuz he knew how to hurt me and it was too much of a temptation to him (ended very badly with him intentionally hurting me) but there was also always this other potential that was inescapably obvious, of deep sweet mutual healing. and i dunno if this is always the case but it seemed like he had the power, the choice, as venus. my theory is that the chiron person provides the healing impetus and is wound-able. it seems to me like chiron helps heal the love nature, where venus is wounded, but since chiron is the woundED healer, it is the one more succeptable to being wounded. i guess it could go the other way depending on other chart factors, though. seems like conjunctions are a blending and fusing of energies, and with projection and whatnot, conjunctive aspects seem to be able to go either way, it seems..?

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Sorry to hear that :[
Could there have been other aspects in your synastry that could have influenced his negative behavior towards you? (perhaps harsh aspects to saturn or mars)

posted February 03, 2012 03:31 PM            

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Originally posted by MC2012:
Chiron square sun and mercury also Chiron opposing Pluto and Uranus in someone's chart. Anybody know about it? Is this someone in pain and is abusive?

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I actually have Sun square Chiron with my cousin, Double whammy x.x

posted February 03, 2012 03:33 PM            

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Originally posted by Moonfish:
I actually have Sun square Chiron with my cousin, Double whammy x.x

I'm not gonna lie I haven't been the greatest older cousin to her. I teased her a lot and even though we have the aspect both ways she hasn't hurt me as nearly as much as I hurt her.
On a positive note we also have Venus-Jupiter double whammy, a trine & conjunction. So no matter how
much we upset eachother we always laugh it off in the end... :/ it's an odd relationship Lol

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That's cute lol you just gave me a visual of the fun days

posted February 03, 2012 03:42 PM            

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Originally posted by MC2012:
We need every info we can get on Chiron and all the experiences with different planets and asteroids aspects. There should be more info on this little guy if he's either the "wounded healer" or the "marriage" predictor that they say he is in magi astrology.

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posted February 03, 2012 04:31 PM            

My husband's and my synastry includes some Chiron linkages.

(Orb reduced to 40%.)

He's in red, I'm in blue.

We've been married a little over two years, and I can say that (so far) it's been an incredibly healing relationship for both of us.
While we can bring up each other's insecurities and open wounds, we've been very open about them - talking through them's been immensely beneficial.

posted February 03, 2012 04:38 PM            

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Originally posted by MC2012:
So here's a little something from the Magi astrology site that I found interesting...

(In our third book, we revealed our discovery that Chiron is the most romantic of the planets. Chiron is the planet that points to your soulmate, symbolizes true love, marriage, romantic attachment, the family and pregnancy.  When Chiron makes a linkage angle to any planet, the two planets form a Chiron Linkage and they are all romantic linkages.  But in our third book we gave the name “Cinderella Linkage” to the following three Chiron Linkages because they are the most powerful at creating true love and marriage:
 
Venus and Chiron
Jupiter and Chiron
Neptune and Chiron
 
These are the three most powerful linkages made by Chiron and they are the three most romantic linkages two persons can have.
 

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posted February 03, 2012 04:40 PM            

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Originally posted by mockingbird:
Note: This is not being posted as a request for a personal reading, but in relation to this topic.

My husband's and my synastry includes some Chiron linkages.

(Orb reduced to 40%.)

He's in red, I'm in blue.

We've been married a little over two years, and I can say that (so far) it's been an incredibly healing relationship for both of us.
While we can bring up each other's insecurities and open wounds, we've been very open about them - talking through them's been immensely beneficial.

ex: "I'm feeling insecure about this right now - can we talk about it?" from both sides...actually, truth be told, he's the one who opened that door. I'm not sure I'd have been comfortable enough being that frank about it without his initiation.

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posted February 03, 2012 04:45 PM            

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Originally posted by Moonfish:
Interesting, looks lie you guys have Venus conjunct Chiron (3-5 degs?) and Jupiter trine Chiron Nice
I can definitely see how your relationship is healing

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posted February 03, 2012 04:57 PM            

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Originally posted by mockingbird:
Yep, I just looked up the exact degrees (I'm not good enough to remember them off hand ).

My Venus is at 7* Taurus, his Chiron's at 3* Taurus (too loose? don't know - I think we feel it, though), and my Jupiter's at 3* Virgo.

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