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Topic: Ending and abusive relationship
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appleberry Knowflake Posts: 293 From: Registered: Jun 2011
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posted February 06, 2012 02:18 AM
I'm posting my progressed chart for the date that I decided to end an abusive relationship. It took almost 2 months to get physically away from him (happened in another country) and this is for basically the date that I made the decision and booked the flight. The date I actually left was almost 3 weeks later. The relationship was about 4 years long and we lived together.Please let me know if anything jumps out at you as to what might have brought me to that point. IP: Logged |
amelia28 Knowflake Posts: 2231 From: Registered: Aug 2011
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posted February 06, 2012 02:24 AM
wilddddd guess here....perhaps saturn at 0 degrees in cancer trine exact juno at 0 degrees in pisces. Perhaps saturn gave you the strength to start fresh and let go of this relationship to leave room for a healthy new one (trine juno 0 degrees in pisces). ------------------ “Perfect love casts out fear. Where there is love there are no demands, no expectations, no dependency. I do not demand that you make me happy; my happiness does not lie in you. If you were to leave me, I will not feel sorry for myself; I enjoy your company immensely, but I do not cling.” -Anthony de Mello “First they ignore you, then they laugh at you, then they fight you, then you win.” Mahatma Gandhi quotes (Indian Philosopher, internationally esteemed for his doctrine of nonviolent protest, 1869-1948) IP: Logged |
appleberry Knowflake Posts: 293 From: Registered: Jun 2011
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posted February 06, 2012 02:24 AM
This is my Natal Chart and Transits for that day as well: IP: Logged |
appleberry Knowflake Posts: 293 From: Registered: Jun 2011
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posted February 06, 2012 02:32 AM
Yes, so much is touching that Saturn-Mars-Moon stellium in Cancer, in the 9th as well, which I point out because I was in a foreign country and left it.Can't help but notice Nessus there too... knowing that Nessus has something to do with power control, abuse pscyhological/physical/sexual, taking responsability, resolving situations, healing of abuse patterns... I wonder if the Sedna conjunct the Sun and Mercury had something to do with it... I read that Sedna comes to play when a person doesn't allow victimization anymore when they have learned the lesson. This conjunction is in the 7th house of relationships...
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amelia28 Knowflake Posts: 2231 From: Registered: Aug 2011
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posted February 06, 2012 02:42 AM
Perhaps Eris transiting your 7th conjunct moon gave you the emotional strength to leave him. IP: Logged |
amelia28 Knowflake Posts: 2231 From: Registered: Aug 2011
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posted February 06, 2012 02:45 AM
Eris is best known as the goddess of strife. She was known to often follow her brother Aries into battle. She frequently helped him to cause quarrels and lawlessness. Authors say that she helped to cause the Trojan War by tossing her apple of discord into the guests at the wedding of Peleus and Thetis. Thress of these guests then competed to win the golden apple. http://www.gods-heros-myth.com/godpages/eris.html IP: Logged |
anongrl10 Knowflake Posts: 4013 From: Registered: Sep 2011
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posted February 06, 2012 02:51 AM
^^ "eris" is Grk for conflict, quarrel, rivalry IP: Logged |
appleberry Knowflake Posts: 293 From: Registered: Jun 2011
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posted February 06, 2012 02:54 AM
But isn't Eris extremely slow? I don't think it has ever been out of my 7th...IP: Logged |
ariesdragon Knowflake Posts: 46 From: starcity,saskatchewan,canada Registered: Jan 2012
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posted February 06, 2012 12:31 PM
quote: Originally posted by appleberry: But isn't Eris extremely slow? I don't think it has ever been out of my 7th...
lol good question...Eris is always in Aries. I think she stays there or like u said, it's extremely slow. IP: Logged |
mir Knowflake Posts: 698 From: Registered: May 2009
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posted February 06, 2012 01:37 PM
I think that the progressed Moon (very close appl. to progr. Mars) is the direct trigger here that gave you the power, courage and braveness to take that step finally. IP: Logged |
amelia28 Knowflake Posts: 2231 From: Registered: Aug 2011
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posted February 06, 2012 02:55 PM
quote: Originally posted by mir: I think that the progressed Moon (very close appl. to progr. Mars) is the direct trigger here that gave you the power, courage and braveness to take that step finally.
Good point she does have progressed moon/mars/saturn stellium at 0 degrees in cancer. Cancer in 0 degrees is very significant....and this stellium trines her Juno at 0 degrees pisces. 0 degrees in cardinal are fresh starts and new beginnings. Perhaps saturn and mars gave your moon the strength to carry forth this new beginning. IP: Logged |
appleberry Knowflake Posts: 293 From: Registered: Jun 2011
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posted February 06, 2012 08:59 PM
Wow... you are probably right about that. I wasn't thinking about the Critical Degrees in Cardinal... thanks for pointing that out.IP: Logged |