posted February 07, 2012 12:29 PM            

This isn't happening for me, but I'm reading a book by Anna David, that starts out with her experiencing the strongest attraction she's ever had, with a man who is married. They don't get physical, but they spend two weeks together, out and about as friends (his wife and kids are away), but they admit they feel like they're in love. When she leaves for New York, she falls apart over it (and her birthday - she's in her mid-thirties at least, at the time). She says that she started to make all sorts of excuses in her head, before she left, as to why it wouldn't be so bad for her to go ahead and get physical with him - even though she knew what her mother went through, when her father cheated on her.

I also know a guy (or, knew him), who got into drugs at the age of 35 - and other things, right around the same time. He'd always been against drugs, and strictly physical relationships (he had one after he split with his ex, and thought that it had caused more damage, rather than helping him to heal - I think he developed feelings for his fling, that weren't reciprocated). Neptune and Chiron were in his 7th house at the time, but I forget the rest of his transits (other than Mars being his 12th house).