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posted February 11, 2012 01:57 AM            

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i was just thinking about this and figured i would post,i have noticed that alot of libra women i have talked to or been involved with tend to suddenly withdraw,this has happened with two i have dated,and several others i have chatted with on the net,everything seems to be going fine,atleast to me anyways and poof! they vanish,or atleast really distance themselves,haha i thought this was supposed to be an aqua thing,even though i am an aqua and dont behave that way.has anyone else had similar experiences with a libra man or woman? is this kind of behavior common with all 3 air signs?

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posted February 11, 2012 02:11 AM            

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Well I'm not a libra but I got a libra stellium in the 7th house, and I tend to do that occasionally. You know the whole wanting some space.
Usually if they disappear completely, it's def cos they're not into you, and if they blow hot and cold it's still cos of lack of interest.
HOWEVER if you're coming on really strong, they will back off just cos it's alittle full on. Perhaps you're coming off over eager?

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posted February 11, 2012 02:17 AM              

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Maybe you just pi$$ed her off and it has nothing to do with astrology. Think back on things she hinted at.

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posted February 11, 2012 02:28 AM            

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I do that. I really don't know why and it annoys even me because I could be with a really great person and then just loose interest. It's usually a 2 week thing! I always putit down to my Pisces ASC.

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posted February 11, 2012 02:29 AM            

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And I do agree with Mintgirl completely.

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posted February 11, 2012 02:36 AM              

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And I do agree with Mintgirl completely.

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You would.

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posted February 11, 2012 02:38 AM            

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[QUOTE]Originally posted by Libreo:
[b]And I do agree with Mintgirl completely.

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You would.[/B][/QUOTE]
Huh? Did I say something wrong? I just meant I agree with her about being too eager etc. Why did you say "you would"?

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posted February 11, 2012 02:39 AM            

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posted February 11, 2012 02:39 AM            

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I'm sure she meant it like since you're a libra sun you'll act in a similar way? I dunno.

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posted February 11, 2012 02:40 AM            

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Oh ok, yeah probably.

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posted February 11, 2012 02:57 AM            

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its weird because they seem really interested in me,one especially was,she actually came on stronger in the beginning but then she dissapeared,i know its not because i smother them,because i am an aqua sun,ascendant ,and venus,plus sun is in twelfth,so i need space as well, obviously its a loss of interest ,which is ok,but the whole dissapearing act is maddening,i think in libras case its a fear of conflict ,so they dissapear to avoid facing you,but all air signs do this i think to an extent,i usually dont,but i credit that to my taurus moon

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posted February 11, 2012 03:08 AM            

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With me personally, it isn't a fear of conflict so much but, and this sounds really petty and childish...when the guy is interested and it's all easy and smooth sailing, it's boring! Although Iv'e never been bored with an Aqua. I even married one. Sagittarius & Aquarius can hold my interest because theyr'e a challenge. I just need stimulating challenge....that's just me. Could she be playing hard to get? Where's her Venus?

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posted February 11, 2012 03:19 AM            

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With me personally, it isn't a fear of conflict so much but, and this sounds really petty and childish...when the guy is interested and it's all easy and smooth sailing, it's boring! Although Iv'e never been bored with an Aqua. I even married one. Sagittarius & Aquarius can hold my interest because theyr'e a challenge. I just need stimulating challenge....that's just me. Could she be playing hard to get? Where's her Venus?

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libra venus, thats odd,i thought you libra girls wanted peace and harmony in relationships haha, i guess i could defined as boring,that could be my problem,because when im in a relationship or trying to start one i dont play games,if i like somebody she knows it,and i dont tolerate girls playing games with me,the moment they start that hard to get crap i bounce,in my mind if two people like each other and want to talk and spend time with each other they shouldnt play games they should just get together haha,but different strokes for different folks i guess

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posted February 11, 2012 03:20 AM            

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Originally posted by Libreo:
With me personally, it isn't a fear of conflict so much but, and this sounds really petty and childish...when the guy is interested and it's all easy and smooth sailing, it's boring! Although Iv'e never been bored with an Aqua. I even married one. Sagittarius & Aquarius can hold my interest because theyr'e a challenge. I just need stimulating challenge....that's just me. Could she be playing hard to get? Where's her Venus?

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libra venus, thats odd,i thought you libra girls wanted peace and harmony in relationships haha, i guess i could defined as boring,that could be my problem,because when im in a relationship or trying to start one i dont play games,if i like somebody she knows it,and i dont tolerate girls playing games with me,the moment they start that hard to get crap i bounce,in my mind if two people like each other and want to talk and spend time with each other they shouldnt play games they should just get together haha,but different strokes for different folks i guess

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posted February 11, 2012 03:20 AM            

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Originally posted by Libreo:
With me personally, it isn't a fear of conflict so much but, and this sounds really petty and childish...when the guy is interested and it's all easy and smooth sailing, it's boring! Although Iv'e never been bored with an Aqua. I even married one. Sagittarius & Aquarius can hold my interest because theyr'e a challenge. I just need stimulating challenge....that's just me. Could she be playing hard to get? Where's her Venus?

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libra venus, thats odd,i thought you libra girls wanted peace and harmony in relationships haha, i guess i could defined as boring,that could be my problem,because when im in a relationship or trying to start one i dont play games,if i like somebody she knows it,and i dont tolerate girls playing games with me,the moment they start that hard to get crap i bounce,in my mind if two people like each other and want to talk and spend time with each other they shouldnt play games they should just get together haha,but different strokes for different folks i guess

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posted February 11, 2012 03:21 AM            

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Originally posted by Libreo:
With me personally, it isn't a fear of conflict so much but, and this sounds really petty and childish...when the guy is interested and it's all easy and smooth sailing, it's boring! Although Iv'e never been bored with an Aqua. I even married one. Sagittarius & Aquarius can hold my interest because theyr'e a challenge. I just need stimulating challenge....that's just me. Could she be playing hard to get? Where's her Venus?

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libra venus, thats odd,i thought you libra girls wanted peace and harmony in relationships haha, i guess i could defined as boring,that could be my problem,because when im in a relationship or trying to start one i dont play games,if i like somebody she knows it,and i dont tolerate girls playing games with me,the moment they start that hard to get crap i bounce,in my mind if two people like each other and want to talk and spend time with each other they shouldnt play games they should just get together haha,but different strokes for different folks i guess

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posted February 11, 2012 03:49 AM            

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Well it could actually be my swim away Pisces ASC, or it could be my Venus in Sag needing entertainment etc. I don't tend to play mind games most of the time, or hard to get, I genuinely get bored because it becomes predictable. The last guy I was seeing started 'playing house' after only 5 weeks. I don't want to act like an old married couple, I want to do fun stuff with my partner, I want excitement. I adore the thrill of new dating. As soon as it gets to a point where it's all familiar and your'e sitting on the couch watching tv in your pyjamas I'm ready to move on. Not a game, it's genuine lack of stimulation. As for your girl, I don't know if it's the same for her or where your'e up to, but like I said, with me it could be my ASC or my Venus. Good luck!

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posted February 11, 2012 04:06 AM            

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Well it could actually be my swim away Pisces ASC, or it could be my Venus in Sag needing entertainment etc. I don't tend to play mind games most of the time, or hard to get, I genuinely get bored because it becomes predictable. The last guy I was seeing started 'playing house' after only 5 weeks. I don't want to act like an old married couple, I want to do fun stuff with my partner, I want excitement. I adore the thrill of new dating. As soon as it gets to a point where it's all familiar and your'e sitting on the couch watching tv in your pyjamas I'm ready to move on. Not a game, it's genuine lack of stimulation. As for your girl, I don't know if it's the same for her or where your'e up to, but like I said, with me it could be my ASC or my Venus. Good luck!

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oh i gotcha,yea you gotta have fun,i thought you were talking about the hard to get stuff and games,because alot of people enjoy that,but yea i agree gotta get out and have fun,its also important to seperate and spend time with friends as well

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posted February 11, 2012 05:06 AM            

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Maybe you just pi$$ed her off and it has nothing to do with astrology. Think back on things she hinted at.

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posted February 11, 2012 06:57 AM            

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posted February 11, 2012 07:09 AM            

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Some Aquarius men I know, if I hear the blunt things they sometimes say to their girlfriend. It's jokingly of course and they are absolutely not out to harm. But not everybody might "get it" regardless of their sun signs.

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posted February 11, 2012 07:19 AM            

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Libreo - I think it's the Saggy Venus in your case. Libra and Taurus Venus prefer smooth sailing. Mine is Taurus and I would break things off if things were that exciting. I need peace.

Aqua - I think you should be more forward. It's not necessarily that she finds you boring or wants to play games. Maybe she's just being indecisive. That's also a Libra thing. Why don't you ask her personally what the problem is? And tell her something sweet like - you miss talking to her etc I'm sure she'll reply.

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posted February 11, 2012 12:14 PM            

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ive done that with a lot of people. i feel bad for it, but yeah. its mainly avoiding confrontation and awkward moments. it usually only happens with people i dont know as well yet though. not so much with people ive known for a long time or really long term relationships, cause by then theres a lot more attachment..

ima libra sun,merc,mars, taurus rising with venus in the 7th

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posted February 11, 2012 12:52 PM            

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Some Aquarius men I know, if I hear the blunt things they sometimes say to their girlfriend. It's jokingly of course and they are absolutely not out to harm. But not everybody might "get it" regardless of their sun signs.

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