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Topic: libra dissapearing act
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SparklingSag Knowflake Posts: 781 From: Registered: May 2009
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posted February 11, 2012 12:57 PM
Libra venus and mars here,,, Hmmm....i withdraw if a guy is interested who I know for sure I not interested in. I have a lot of guy friends and I see them as just that, but sometimes the line can feel blurred and then I also take some time out to think it through...
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Stawr Moderator Posts: 1981 From: N. America Registered: Nov 2010
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posted February 11, 2012 01:06 PM
Agh! yes! I have this frustration with Libra's too! I've had dudes with Libra Sun come on strong to me...Like ya know, they so started it!one guy from high school was very fun to flirt with...but then when he finally talked on the phone with me...he was way too pervy. I mean I know in highschool guys are desperate to get laid...but I was a virgin...and I was not having the way he was talking to me...I even told him on the phone that I didn't like the way he was talking to me, and he wont get anywhere using that tone with me. (when a guy talks in a tone like I'm easy. I get turned off and offended.) but then we got over it and started flirting with eachother again...but then one day he just desided to avoid me like the plauge. Like in the hallways I would just be walking...I honestly was not going to up him or anything.(thinking so highly of himself! Gosh!) Like he would see me and almost run away. (wtf) But I used my "evil powers" (JK!) and made him suffer by being cold to him back, and flirting with other guys. And then giving him a spiteful stare. He came crawling back and was all like why don't you talk to me anymore?" And I said in a very eff you tone like "No, you stoped talking to me!" Well he eventually got me to warm up to him again...but THEN during a low point in my life he showed me affection like giving me a hug...but then more popular girls walked but and he seriously like shoved me aside. That was the last straw for me, also the last time I ever saw him. Too bad he went to military school...and I couldn't make his life a living hell...by never flirting with him ever again, and never forgiving him. But I hate that sh!t espesially when they are the one's who started it. Like instead of me thinking they are this amazing fun person...I ended up being disapointed...and can you blame me for thinking they are fake and shallow after that? I thought it was just me...cause I have Aqua Mars for trining...but then an Aries Sun for opposing. IP: Logged |
Stawr Moderator Posts: 1981 From: N. America Registered: Nov 2010
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posted February 11, 2012 01:12 PM
but let me say not all Libra guys I've came in contact with have done this, but just most. lol also Cancer guys come in second but the Cancer dudes usually at least make up a dumb exuse why they are becoming more distant. IP: Logged |
Stawr Moderator Posts: 1981 From: N. America Registered: Nov 2010
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posted February 11, 2012 01:29 PM
Props to Libra's though...they are the ones that can flirt strongly with me. And I enjoy it so much, with out being creeped out. (for the most part) lmaoIP: Logged |
Stawr Moderator Posts: 1981 From: N. America Registered: Nov 2010
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posted February 11, 2012 01:44 PM
I've also just completly droped a guy cold...For coming on too strong. Like I just get so overwhelmed and freaked out. Even if they are a very attractive person! Oh if we seem to have chemestry and simular interests. I am learned. So I don't like to jump into relationships anymore, I like to take things slow, and take my time...So guys that just want to jump into it freak me out. Some guys I will explain this to them...but they just don't seem to get it. Oh and also blowing up my phone freaks me out! ------------------ Rising: Gemini Sun: Aries 11 Moon: Scorpio 6 Mercury: Taurus 12 Mars: Aquarius 10 Venus: Pisces 10 N.Node: Aquarius 9 Saturn: Capricorn 9 True Lilith: Scorpio 6 Jupiter: Cancer 2 Pluto: Scorpio 6 IP: Logged |
NativelyJoan Knowflake Posts: 1099 From: New England Registered: Sep 2011
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posted February 11, 2012 03:56 PM
First off air signs tend to be elusive period, it's not easy to grasp or understand them, it's a waste trying just let them be.Second, I don't think it's specifically a Libra thing, many signs do this and I'd say the sign with the most frequency of doing this is yours dear sir, Aquarius. I've mentioned this before to you, but Libra's can be chilly and calculating but we are all about relationships so you'd have to be doing something that's not working for us, for us to walk away. Us Libra's are lovers, and we like to keep things light. Therefore if you're too distant or aloof or brash and unromantic we might think you're too much or not genuinely interested. I can't speak for all Libra's but I prefer someone who is a bit more expressive. It's probably why we tend to be so hypnotized by those hot fire signs or that intense Scorpio. They're fun and outgoing, albeit a bit insensitive but passionate and never short on showing us how much they care. All we need is love, and displays of interest and attraction. I walk away from guys who just don't seem interested, or who I don't click with. Even if they are interested, I can't spend our entire relationship trying to read their minds. I'm a vain Libra with Venus in Leo and I need a display, meaning if you like me SHOW ME or I'll be on my merry way (I'm the queen of displays and showing affection and I need that reciprocated). I don't like shy or timid men. I like intensity and grand displays and don't like guys that are too reserved, which Aquarius men can be. Libra's aren't hard to figure out but if you're having this much trouble with them maybe you should try dating other signs for example Gemini's if you're looking to date air signs in particular, they might be more your speed. Just a suggestion. IP: Logged |
Libreo Knowflake Posts: 1078 From: Australia Registered: Sep 2011
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posted February 11, 2012 04:45 PM
Can I just add....definately number 4 of Reg's post too. Definately. I do that a lot. And all of what NJ said. If you seem uninterested, I will seem it too. Even if I'm only pretending. To save face and so I don't make a fool of myself by chasing after someone who seems uninterested.IP: Logged |
aquaguy91 Moderator Posts: 4443 From: tennessee Registered: Jan 2012
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posted February 11, 2012 10:07 PM
but thats the thing ,even though im an aquarius im not afraid to let a girl i care and show affection,i have venus conjunct the ascendant and a taurus moon and gemini mars in the third house,so i say whats on my mind,and can be romanticIP: Logged |
Libreo Knowflake Posts: 1078 From: Australia Registered: Sep 2011
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posted February 11, 2012 10:53 PM
Taurus moon, do you think you might be possessive? Just a stab in the dark.IP: Logged |
Libreo Knowflake Posts: 1078 From: Australia Registered: Sep 2011
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posted February 11, 2012 10:53 PM
Maybe it's not even you with the 'problem' and your'e not doing anything wrong, maybe she has an issue of some kind.IP: Logged |
aquaguy91 Moderator Posts: 4443 From: tennessee Registered: Jan 2012
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posted February 11, 2012 10:59 PM
quote: Originally posted by Libreo: Taurus moon, do you think you might be possessive? Just a stab in the dark.
eh,i dont know if i would say i am possesive ,i can get jealous though IP: Logged |
aquaguy91 Moderator Posts: 4443 From: tennessee Registered: Jan 2012
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posted February 11, 2012 11:00 PM
quote: Originally posted by Libreo: Taurus moon, do you think you might be possessive? Just a stab in the dark.
eh,i dont know if i would say i am possesive ,i can get jealous though IP: Logged |
amelia28 Knowflake Posts: 2423 From: Registered: Aug 2011
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posted February 12, 2012 12:00 AM
quote: Originally posted by aquaguy91: libra venus, thats odd,i thought you libra girls wanted peace and harmony in relationships haha, i guess i could defined as boring,that could be my problem,because when im in a relationship or trying to start one i dont play games,if i like somebody she knows it,and i dont tolerate girls playing games with me,the moment they start that hard to get crap i bounce,in my mind if two people like each other and want to talk and spend time with each other they shouldnt play games they should just get together haha,but different strokes for different folks i guess
That is exactly the same way I am and how I think too LOL.... Her lost! Next  IP: Logged |
amelia28 Knowflake Posts: 2423 From: Registered: Aug 2011
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posted February 12, 2012 12:03 AM
quote: Originally posted by aquaguy91: eh,i dont know if i would say i am possesive ,i can get jealous though
My mom has moon in Taurus and venus in aqua..she is possessive with her kidsssss but not with her husband . IP: Logged |
aquaguy91 Moderator Posts: 4443 From: tennessee Registered: Jan 2012
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posted February 12, 2012 12:17 AM
quote: Originally posted by amelia28: My mom has moon in Taurus and venus in aqua..she is possessive with her kidsssss but not with her husband .
im not really possessive i just wouldnt want a girl i was with hanging out with other guys when im not around IP: Logged |
aquaguy91 Moderator Posts: 4443 From: tennessee Registered: Jan 2012
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posted February 12, 2012 12:21 AM
quote: Originally posted by amelia28: That is exactly the same way I am and how I think too LOL....Her lost! Next 
i am glad someone agrees with me,i believe relationships should be uncomplicated ,i dont want the emotional drama or mindgames ------------------ That person who seems to be either a million miles away mentally, or else dissecting you under an invisible microscope, is probably an Aquarian. IP: Logged |
aquaguy91 Moderator Posts: 4443 From: tennessee Registered: Jan 2012
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posted February 12, 2012 12:22 AM
quote: Originally posted by amelia28: That is exactly the same way I am and how I think too LOL....Her lost! Next 
i am glad someone agrees with me,i believe relationships should be uncomplicated ,i dont want the emotional drama or mindgames ------------------ That person who seems to be either a million miles away mentally, or else dissecting you under an invisible microscope, is probably an Aquarian. IP: Logged |
Capriquarius unregistered
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posted February 12, 2012 12:23 AM
quote: Originally posted by aquaguy91: im not really possessive i just wouldnt want a girl i was with hanging out with other guys when im not around
Heh, that's understandable, knowing how guys are.....they even want to screw the ugliest girls lol. But unless she's your gf/wife, you have no right to have her attention exclusively on you. That should sound reasonable/logical enough for an Aqua-Taurus. IP: Logged |
aquaguy91 Moderator Posts: 4443 From: tennessee Registered: Jan 2012
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posted February 12, 2012 12:30 AM
quote: Originally posted by Capriquarius: Heh, that's understandable, knowing how guys are.....they even want to screw the ugliest girls lol. But unless she's your gf/wife, you have no right to have her attention exclusively on you.That should sound reasonable/logical enough for an Aqua-Taurus.
i'm not saying that i want a girls attention to only be on me,i think people should have friends and lives outside of a relationship ,i just dont want a girl i am with to be hanging around another guy alone ,because i know how guys are,unless the guy happens to be gay ,in that case i am perfectly fine with it XD IP: Logged |
Libreo Knowflake Posts: 1078 From: Australia Registered: Sep 2011
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posted February 12, 2012 12:40 AM
You seem like a really nice guy. I hope it works out for you. :-)IP: Logged |
amelia28 Knowflake Posts: 2423 From: Registered: Aug 2011
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posted February 12, 2012 12:40 AM
quote: Originally posted by aquaguy91: im not really possessive i just wouldnt want a girl i was with hanging out with other guys when im not around
I think that is possessive but human and understandable. I get jealous and am protective of who I date but I know that my biological impulses are what activate jealousy and not my higher self. I pick up easily when two people are attracted to eachother and I have a strong biological impulse to protect what is "mine" LOL but my higher self knows better than that so now that I am older I am more chill about this. Some relationships are meant to last and some are not, is better to just live day by day and enjoy what you have and understand that if you lose something that means another door will open. 11 11 is about living in the here and now and synchronicity. Personal jealousy aspects: Venus/Mars in Leo, Saturn in Scorpio, 5th cusp in Aries. Unconditional love aspects: moon in pisces, Sag rising conjunct jupiter and Uranus and 7th cusp in gemini as well perhaps. Edit to add: Unconditional love is about giving without expecting anything in return, is about forgiveness, healing and taking responsibility for your own healing when you get hurt instead of hating the other and focusing on hate and blame. Unconditional love is not easy...I try to love unconditionally as much as possible but is an ongoing practice and commitment but I believe it is the key to happiness. IP: Logged |
aquaguy91 Moderator Posts: 4443 From: tennessee Registered: Jan 2012
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posted February 12, 2012 12:44 AM
quote: Originally posted by Libreo: You seem like a really nice guy. I hope it works out for you. :-)
your a sweetheart,and thanks i really try IP: Logged |
Venus Moderator Posts: 1570 From: Registered: Mar 2011
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posted February 13, 2012 05:24 AM
libra sun and mars, and yes that does sound like something i would do..for me its partially because of my scorpio moon which makes it difficult to communicate emotions with others but as a libra mars sometimes when im in a middle of a situation which im not very fond of (be it a friendship, relationship, or anything else) i would just disappear or gradualy slip away, its easier to me than being up front and risk deeply hurting someone.. ------------------ "I dwell in the midst of a perfect race, I the most imperfect.." Khalil Jubran IP: Logged |