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perzhaon
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posted February 11, 2012 07:12 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for perzhaon     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
If anyone experiences this or have simliar aspects and know alot about it please contribute, I have Venus in Aqua Square. Pluto in Scorpio orb 4.51. I have my chart posted on profile for further viewing.

I have trouble trying to let the opposite sex know im interested. Ive been told by many that i have a good personality and all and look nice, but they always considered me to be either too reserved or nice and they felt like they would taint me. (lol) And also have heard that they didnt know i was interested in first place. Again i dont think me looking attractive is an issue, (Libra Asc, Moon Taurus ,Mars in Gemini and both in 8th house)

Please feel free to post your expiericncs with venus square pluto when it coems to love,relationships, attraction

Thank You

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RunAroundScreaming
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posted February 11, 2012 08:37 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for RunAroundScreaming     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
i have this aspect as well. Well, venus is love and pluto is deep intense bonds and all things deeply related to the soul and its life lessons. So venus and pluto in aspect means that you are focusing on transforming love relationships that will leads you to feel those deep intense bonds and life lessons. Squares lead to extreme emotions, and amongst the compatibility of sun signs it always leads to extreme passion...extreme love or extreme hate. So with venus square pluto you want nothing BUT a deep meaningful relationship. However, since u set this standard so high...that you would refuse to date someone u didnt bond intensely with....you fear finding out that the person you love isnt that special soul mate union at all and that you were just imagining it. So, you become indecisive...going from one extreme to the other...you hate them one month and feel nothing for them, and then the next month you love them with your all and are certain it's true love. So, you look for ways in which you can break the two of you up, so you can prove to yourself whether it's meant to be or not. This is a strong scorpio habit as well, who is ruled by pluto. Scorpio stirs up drama to see if the person they love will stick by. So, you get extremely jealous, you drag that person to hell and back, expecting that is only right that they love you despite all your faults because if it is true love it should last, right?
Also, I've read interpretations of this aspect to mean that ... when you're dating someone you either find sexual fulfillment with them or emotional fulfillment...but never both. I tend to disagree with that interpretation. I have venus square pluto myself, and i think that that's just reading too much into it. Plus when did pluto become strictly sexual? Mars is the sexual one, right?

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perzhaon
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posted February 11, 2012 09:15 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for perzhaon     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
i can relate to u completely about relationship wise, i was in one and i kept rehearsing over the relationship as a whole countless times to see if i made the right decision to break up out of it or not and always second guess my self. I however have venus in 5th which squares both pluto (2nd) and my mars (8th house) and my moon! (8th house). Is that good? or crazy or..? lol idk. How do people view me as when it comes to impressiosn?

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aquaguy91
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posted February 11, 2012 10:27 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for aquaguy91     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
i have venus in aquarius square pluto in scorpio also,and i have read this aspect can manifest as a deep fear of rejection,it has been true for me alot,alot of times when i really really like someone i just clam up and they are clueless about me liking them,i have always and still fear rejection, and my fear causes the very thing i fear to happen

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posted February 11, 2012 10:27 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for aquaguy91     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
i have venus in aquarius square pluto in scorpio also,and i have read this aspect can manifest as a deep fear of rejection,it has been true for me alot,alot of times when i really really like someone i just clam up and they are clueless about me liking them,i have always and still fear rejection, and my fear causes the very thing i fear to happen,but i have been trying to get over the fear

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Lonake
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posted February 12, 2012 02:08 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lonake     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I don't have that problem with that square. At all.
It's another influence in your chart that you're referring to, not the venus/pluto.

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aquaguy91
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posted February 12, 2012 02:19 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for aquaguy91     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by Lonake:
I don't have that problem with that square. At all.
It's another influence in your chart that you're referring to, not the venus/pluto.

i have noticed that aspects can manifest in different ways sometimes.

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Lonake
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posted February 12, 2012 02:25 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lonake     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
^ There is a realm of possibility for aspects/placements and what the OP refers to is not in that realm.
This is one of the problems when people attribute a certain characteristic to a certain aspect and don't post their chart, you look at their issue through a limited view.

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perzhaon
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posted February 12, 2012 03:53 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for perzhaon     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
ok well lemme post my chart then

http://cafeastrology.com/freebirthchart.html

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perzhaon
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posted February 12, 2012 03:55 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for perzhaon     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
ok ill post my chart

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Nyah
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posted February 12, 2012 04:10 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Nyah     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I have Venus square Pluto (1°23) and also Moon square Pluto (1°35) and I can relate to what you're saying about being reserved. I am quite reserved but I always think my feelings are showing more than they are. People often tell me I'm hard to read. And I know I act the opposite when I really like someone, I will look the other way and so on... But all of this may also be the Capricorn influences in me, I don't know.

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Ascendant: Gemini
Sun: Pisces
Moon: Capricorn
Mercury: Pisces
Venus: Capricorn
Mars: Aquarius

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perzhaon
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posted February 12, 2012 04:25 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for perzhaon     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
ok well let me post my chart then.

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VenusDiSirius
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posted February 12, 2012 07:17 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for VenusDiSirius     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by RunAroundScreaming:
Plus when did pluto become
strictly sexual? Mars is the sexual one, right?

When Pluto started ruling Scorpio.

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Lonake
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posted February 12, 2012 07:09 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lonake     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote

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