posted February 12, 2012 10:33 AM            

Or how about an aspect that makes someone come off as really awkward or just not natural when talking? Like they are struggling to put together their feelings/ideas/thoughts?

Also, which aspect would indicate someone who is nervous?

posted February 12, 2012 11:20 AM              

I have an exact sextile, so (like most women) I have no trouble expressing my emotions.......when I have them lol. And express them when I feel like I would personally benefit (e.g. venting). Otherwise, I keep up a front because I don't like giving anyone the satisfaction/feeling of power from knowing how I feel.

I was watching a video blog and the guy said the more he exposes himself, the higher the viewership. So it's an exchange of power. I'm not giving my power away unless I'm getting something I value back from it in exchange.

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Originally posted by Starry~*:

Example: I am walking behind you, about 8 feet away. I sneak up to you and gave you a cute boo/tap on your shoulders and you literally jump up and react pretty dramatically to it. And later you tell me not to do that because that really scared the p00p out of you.

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You would actually do this? Not sure what part of the world you're from, but over here there's this concept called "personal space" and BOUNDARIES.

posted February 12, 2012 11:36 AM            

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Originally posted by Capriquarius:
Hard aspects between Moon & Mercury, of course.

I have an exact sextile, so (like most women) I have no trouble expressing my emotions.......when I have them lol. And express them when I feel like I would personally benefit (e.g. venting). Otherwise, I keep up a front because I don't like giving anyone the satisfaction/feeling of power from knowing how I feel.

I was watching a video blog and the guy said the more he exposes himself, the higher the viewership. So it's an exchange of power. I'm not giving my power away unless I'm getting something I value back from it in exchange.

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posted February 12, 2012 11:54 AM            

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Originally posted by Capriquarius:
Hard aspects between Moon & Mercury, of course.

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If you are like 6' tall and a stranger to me, I would kick you in the 'nads.

You would actually do this? Not sure what part of the world you're from, but over here there's this concept called "personal space" and BOUNDARIES.

ROTFLMAOO,

posted February 12, 2012 12:01 PM            

He has Moon Biquintile (?) Mercury at 0'51s.

Also, Moon Opposition Pluto.

Mercury detriment in Sag. Possibly conjunct ascendant and I suspect in the 12th house (since it does kind of describe his inability to really formulate thoughts and have it come out normally through communication.)

Moon in Aries.

Moon square mars

posted February 12, 2012 01:04 PM            

Moon in Taurus
3rd house
Square Uranus and Mercury

I know another person who is the same:

Moon in Pisces
5th house
Square Mars and Venus
Trine Moon, Mercury,

And a girl who has trouble expressing anger:

posted February 12, 2012 05:00 PM            

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Originally posted by ariesdragon:
Moon in the 12th house in Capricorn. Sooo hard for them to open up

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Jerry,

posted February 12, 2012 05:31 PM            

Cause sometimes I just don't know how to say what I feel/want on the spot with out sounding like a b!tch...so sometimes I just agree, and I usually regret that.

Exsample...
I was filling in for one of the lunch ladies a while ago. I shouldn't of complained to this lady that I need more sweaters. (meaning I've been too busy to shop)
She chimes in "I could grab ya some at the salvation army!"
FML!
I did not no how to say no with out sounding stuck up. (this lady has a complecated life, shes old but still has two boys who are special and still in school, and an uneployed husband they all depend on her. I've seen this woman pull things out of the trash. The kids at the school have seen her too) You know she works hard and does everything she possibly can to get by.

But all that was going through my head were. 'Hell no!, No you don't need to, I'm not poor like you, No you're old!, SH!T!, I can't think of anything to say!, No thanks, that sounds gross?...phuck it I'll just say sure' "umm...SURE!" Like all the things that came to mind to get my point across, sound insulting and hurtful.

Hoping she wan't serious...but she was...she got me two sweaters...she even washed them for me first the white one has a stain that wont come off. And the pink one smells really bad. So yeah I'm going to donate them so they can go back where they came from.

Moral of story, be careful who you complain to that you don't have time to shop to. Be sure to tell them it's because you don't have time to shop and don't say, "I really need some new clothes" in a frustrated tone...or you could have a close one like this chick!
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qsu32ncvDyM

I think this may have to do with my Moon Scorpio house 6 Sqaure Mars Aquarius house 10
Oh and Moon oppose Mercury Taurus house 12...

posted February 12, 2012 05:36 PM            

Also, Moon in hard aspect to Saturn, because it limits or restricts emotional expression.

posted February 12, 2012 07:08 PM            

For me, I do find it hard to express deep emotions. Makes me feel real naked lol. I'm very affectionate, caring and I show it through actions more than words. Actions speak volumes anyway.

I have moon conjunct venus and mercury.

posted February 13, 2012 11:55 AM            

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Must be my virgo sun too. I did once open myself up completely, but I got my heart stomped on, so that was fun.

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Yeah, once bitten, twice shy.

Reminds me of the Cat Stevens song "The First Cut is the Deepest." http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=aBccr-aLu4I

That's how it was for me too...with a Virgo sun guy btw I'm a Cappy.

I express emotions according to how receptive my listener is. Some people are so receptive, it's like they magnetize the truth out of me, and as a Cap, I can't say I find this very enjoyable in retrospect.

I'm always thinking, "Why did I SAY that? Why did I ADMIT that?"

No big deal, though...I can't just hide my whole life.

posted February 13, 2012 12:07 PM            

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Originally posted by Starry~*:
I was wondering, what aspects can you guys think of that would make someone have trouble expressing their feelings?

Or how about an aspect that makes someone come off as really awkward or just not natural when talking? Like they are struggling to put together their feelings/ideas/thoughts?

Also, which aspect would indicate someone who is nervous?

Example: I am walking behind you, about 8 feet away. I sneak up to you and gave you a cute boo/tap on your shoulders and you literally jump up and react pretty dramatically to it. And later you tell me not to do that because that really scared the p00p out of you.

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1. I have Gemini rising and apart from my childhood scars, I'm a nervous/anxious person by nature. I have a Taurus moon, so combine those two and I absolutely HATE being startled. I hate it. Nothing irritates me more. (I also have Moon opp. Pluto. Saw someone mention that above, never would've thought it aided in cases such as these.)

2. I'm an Aries, with Mercury and Venus in Aries. I doubt I have an accurate perception of the world because I'm soooo Arian minded. What's Arian minded? Well, it's only seeing things your way and disbelieving there's any other way possible. I'm trying very hard to expand my vision but it's difficult. Anyway, my point in mentioning that is all of those Aries placements makes it difficult to express my feelings. I feel embarrassed about them a lot of the time and when they finally come out it is in a big ungraceful ugly cry or dramatic, intense overreaction that I have to take back later when it finally dawns on me what I really needed to explain.

I have -

Mercury ...
-Sextile ASC
-Square Neptune
-Square Saturn
-Sextile Mars
-Conjunct Sun

Moon...
-Opp. Pluto
-Trine Saturn, Uranus, Neptune

posted February 13, 2012 12:19 PM            

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Originally posted by tautomer4314:
I do and I don't. For me I can express pretty much anything with ease. My mercury is pretty strong. When it comes to feelings and emotions though it's a bit harder. I have a tendency to intellectualize everything and if I do that to emotions and feelings, I can talk about them and others will understand, but it will do nothing for me at all. I will still feel like I didn't convey it right. I have gotten a lot better with this though and have learned how to find that "sweet spot" that allows me to express the emotion I have. A major part of it is I have to accept that I will never be able to express the full depth of it until I have a full emotional bond to someone.

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