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Topic: I think I'm gonna go insane ...natal venus square pluto? Or something else
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RunAroundScreaming
Knowflake Posts: 2231
From: USA
Registered: Oct 2010
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posted February 13, 2012 03:52 AM
  
So every time I make a friend, if we have really great chemistry, they turn out to be a fire or air sign most of the time (not always but it is definitely the majority of the time). We have chemistry and they are very affectionate with me and say my name enthusiastically and run up to me to hug me when they see me, but! They are unreliable, they are kind of insensitive at times...like leaving me hanging in every texting convo (we had been texting for a while), or not trying to contact me but later complaining that we never talk. Or they do contact me but just do things i consider rude and selfish which could indicate them being possibly too independent for me. Then the people i dont have chemistry with, usually, earth signs--ugh! Except for virgo who i sometimes do but it's once in a blue moon---they act in the perfect way i would want a friend to act. They are perfectly condiderate and stable, and they try to stay in touch often and never do anything rude and it's great...but one problem! We just dont have any chemistry, and we both even admit it to each other. "I've just never felt close to you." A few of them end up telling me. The feeling is mutual! Water signs..I've actually never felt close to a water sun person and never really had a water sun friend, except for two Cancers i think. But i never felt that close to them! I dont connect very well with fellow water sun people. It's weird. I felt closer to them emotionally than earth signs, but i could easily not have them in my life as if i didnt really need them bc tey had nothing to teach me. In that sense, i click a lot better with earth signs as far as personal chemistry goes. Then the fire and air signs who tell me they love me all the time and give me all this love and caring and call me hun and pet names and who I actually feel Close to and who i truly feel care about me, Are friggin impulsive and unstable and insensitive and too independent for me. So the people i feel a lot of trust with, i dont feel close to at all, and the people i distrust I feel really close to emotionally.
What will I do with myself? Why is this terrible thing happening to me LOL Help meee Arrrgh
My birth data
July 6, 1989
2:34 PM
havana, Cuba Cancer sun
Leo moon
Libra rising
Cancer mercury
Cancer chiron
Leo venus
Leo mars
Gemini Jupiter
Capricorn uranus
Capricorn neptune
Capricorn saturn
Scorpio pluto
north node aqua IP: Logged |
Capriquarius
Knowflake Posts: 1325
From: So. Cal
Registered: Dec 2010
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posted February 13, 2012 05:46 AM
Something else: being ruled by the Moon. Makes you loony!  P.S. Don't take anything I say seriously, RAS. I just troll this place cuz obviously nothing here should be taken seriously hahaha IP: Logged |
L0veLess
Knowflake Posts: 728
From: Midgard
Registered: Feb 2011
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posted February 13, 2012 05:59 AM
Ahhh I have this same problem. My friends are all fire/air signs. I keep getting built up then torn apart by them! We hang out and its GREAT! i have fuuun but then afterwards when im home alone its like sporadic talking and then im talking on fb chat and i think we are having a conversation, i mean THEY start it, but then they never respond and im like uuuhm. It stresses me out! I feel like they aren't gonna be me friend anymore if I make one wrong move or be too clingy. And I always have to give them attention, which doesn't bother me too much but when I need some they just kinda brush off my problems. Then theres my fellow earth signs, theres no spark with them even though we have things in common. And water siiigns I like pisces but the other two I hardly come across and when I do nothing ever comes of it. I find myself pushing water/earth signs away for the more fun fire/air signs. Its weird huh. Signs not getting along with each other when they should.  Its frustrating. Trines too easy, you get lazy, squares too hard and get angry. Nothing works!------------------
I became insane, with long
intervals of horrible
sanity.-Poe If the truth is relative then there's nothing that is really true. IP: Logged |
RunAroundScreaming
Knowflake Posts: 2231
From: USA
Registered: Oct 2010
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posted February 13, 2012 09:13 AM
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Originally posted by Capriquarius:
Something else: being ruled by the Moon. Makes you loony! P.S. Don't take anything I say seriously, RAS. I just troll this place cuz obviously nothing here should be taken seriously hahaha
lol okay. Maybe you should put a disclaimer in your signature, IP: Logged |
RunAroundScreaming
Knowflake Posts: 2231
From: USA
Registered: Oct 2010
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posted February 13, 2012 09:23 AM
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not getting along with each other when they should. Its frustrating. Trines too easy, you get lazy, squares too hard and get angry. Nothing works!
Yeahh..
It must be that, i guess! I read on the internet that if you have a masculine ascendant you have the best chemistry with masculine sun signs. The interesting thing is that they had this chart on their site that said how well you get along with each sun sign according to your rising, and it said if you have libra rising like me, you have the most chemistry with Aries and Libra people and gel with aqua and gemini, then get along but not as well with leo and sag. That is so true for me. I always make the most fun friendships with Aries and Libras...and then after a year it explodes in my face. And i always click with air signs. If there's a group of people, I bet you i'm gonna become friends with all the air signs and aries people there. That's what always happens. And then I also vibe with leo since i have leo moon, venus and mars. Don't vibe with sag nearly as well, in fact they kind of annoy me. What are your placements, L0veLess? IP: Logged |
ariesdragon
Knowflake Posts: 90
From: starcity,saskatchewan,canada
Registered: Jan 2012
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posted February 13, 2012 09:39 AM
Hey RAS u were born in Cuba  just noticed that
Nice place... Where's ur Juno? Maybe you'll get along with the men/women in the sign Juno is in... Try it and tell us about it.IP: Logged |
RunAroundScreaming
Knowflake Posts: 2231
From: USA
Registered: Oct 2010
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posted February 13, 2012 09:52 AM
No...my juno is in virgo...an earth sign! Ugh! lolol
Lol thank you! You've been there? .
You were born in Saskatcheewan...uh, scratches head...smiles innocently. Lol what's that like...no idea IP: Logged | |
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