posted February 13, 2012 10:09 AM            

For a lover who will hold you tenderly, you need soul mate aspects. The fling will be long gone. He left when the fireworks dimmed. Soul mate aspects revolve around understanding. If you have to explain something ad infinitum, you are not soul mates. Soul mates understand, more or less. Soul mates center around the moon. The moon is our deepest heart. We show it to a child, an animal and God. We show it to a lover.Understanding heart to heart cannot be made. It can’t be forced or bought. It is moon touching moon, bar none. If you don’t have moon touching moon, you are not soul mates, in my opinion.Soul mates involve other aspects and asteroids, too. There must be passion. Passion may be Mars/Venus, which is exciting but not “rock my world”. “Rock my world” involves Pluto. Moon/Pluto is the most intense. It is that wonderful combination of ” child to child” and passion. If you never revved a BMW from zero to ninety, don’t talk to me about Moon/Pluto. Moon/Pluto exists in a class by itself. Venus/Pluto is the stuff of soul mates, too. Soul mate love is passion PLUS love, respect and admiration Asteroid-wise,Vesta, which is selfless devotion, may be involved. Juno, which is the loyal and devoted wife energy, may be present. Ceres, which is unconditional love, may be there.Valentine which is sacrificial love i.e throw oneself under the bus love, may be there. Attraction is fine. Life goes on because of attraction, but soul mate takes it up a notch. It is the stuff of poems and love songs. Hold out for it.The other pales, in comparison.

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posted February 13, 2012 02:54 PM            

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Originally posted by Tofu addict:
Lovely piece, i like the Moon to Moon stuff, i have that with my partner, there is an unspoken knowing and understanding, an ease to be with each other.

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Thank you Tofu and Anon girl! xx

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posted February 13, 2012 03:07 PM            

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posted February 13, 2012 04:45 PM            

Um....we got engaged after one date.

There is a lot of difficult other stuff in this relationship, but any time I envision life without him....it's like the search for him would just begin again.

posted February 13, 2012 04:46 PM            

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Originally posted by Ami Anne:
I have it with someone, for the first time. I could never have explained it, if I did not.

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posted February 13, 2012 04:57 PM            

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Originally posted by birdy:
Thank you for sharing. The moon aspects I found interesting and makes sense. Although personally, I am a not comfortable with people telling people this is what soulmate is and how it's suppose to be. How can we tell people what love is? what a soulmate is? it's different for everyone.
Juno is a personal favorite. It's always been significant in my experience. Venus/Pluto and Moon/Pluto....is a doozy. Expect your old self to shed a lot.

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Birdy, are you an Aqua

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posted February 13, 2012 07:38 PM            

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posted February 13, 2012 08:00 PM            

I DID however like moon conjunct moon tight, and when I had moon conjunct venus tight. They were nice. I've had moon conjunct pluto before (1.5 degrees) and it was ok, kinda love hate in tone.

posted February 13, 2012 08:22 PM            

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Originally posted by Moonfish:
Call me crazy, but I've always been a fan of Venus-saturn aspects in synastry, except the squares.

For Romance, those neptune aspects get me :] lol

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I have an unaspected Venus, so a Saturn seems too strong. I don't think I have ever had moon trine moon. It is the best, for me. I am a Cancer moon, when all is peeled away. That is who I am

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posted February 13, 2012 08:25 PM            

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Originally posted by Ami Anne:

I have an unaspected Venus, so a Saturn seems too strong. I don't think I have ever had moon trine moon. It is the best, for me. I am a Cancer moon, when all is peeled away. That is who I am

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My Moon is in Pisces, so I might trine your Moon lol! XD

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posted February 13, 2012 08:47 PM            

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posted February 13, 2012 08:48 PM            

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posted February 13, 2012 08:51 PM            

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Originally posted by Ami Anne:
I am spoiled, forever, for someone to touch my moon lol

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posted February 13, 2012 09:10 PM            

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Originally posted by mintgirl123:
I've had moon trine moon and moon trine venus with quite a few people. It's no biggy.

I DID however like moon conjunct moon tight, and when I had moon conjunct venus tight. They were nice. I've had moon conjunct pluto before (1.5 degrees) and it was ok, kinda love hate in tone.

I liked eros/psyche aspects. I had eros conjunct psyche and eros square psyche both by 1 degree with an ex. That was intense. In combo with all our aspects, it was like BAM!!

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posted February 13, 2012 10:27 PM            

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[QUOTE]Originally posted by mintgirl123:
[b]I've had moon trine moon and moon trine venus with quite a few people. It's no biggy.

I DID however like moon conjunct moon tight, and when I had moon conjunct venus tight. They were nice. I've had moon conjunct pluto before (1.5 degrees) and it was ok, kinda love hate in tone.

I liked eros/psyche aspects. I had eros conjunct psyche and eros square psyche both by 1 degree with an ex. That was intense. In combo with all our aspects, it was like BAM!!

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[/B][/QUOTE] Haha yea, i have bad luck with picking men. all i want is an honest self assured, moralistic guy, not askin for the moon now am i?