posted February 14, 2012 04:42 PM            

Venus in Gemini is the girl men love to hate. She is akin to Mars in Scorpio, in a male. Both are legendary placements to those in the Astrological know. Venus in Gemini is delightful . She does not attract by force, as does the Venus in Aries. She does not attract with sultriness, as does Venus in Scorpio. She attracts by being so much fun that people follow her. She flits over the surface of life, as the butterfly, with which she is , often, depicted. Some planets become enchanted in certain signs. Such is the case with Venus in Gemini. She becomes a sprite, a fey. She dances from flower to flower, not staying long at each, but leaving a sense that one, really, did see a real life fairy.

Venus in Gemini has a terrible reputation for “love them and leave them”. I suppose I must cop the guilty plea on this. However, she does not leave lovers planning revenge, as does Venus in Scorpio. If she leaves, it is because she got bored. She will not slash your tires on the way out, as a Venus in Scorpio. She will find a man who is a little wittier than you. She loves words as Venus in Scorpio likes black silk. Charm her with words. Sexually, she wants to hear you talk. Your moves come second.

Her worst quality is, also, her best. She gets bored easily. This keeps her a stimulating companion, but may send her packing when you get boring. Boring to her, is the mundane routine of life. If you see a woman’s Venus in Gemini, check her moon and Ascendant. If she has a loyal moon, like Cancer, Leo or Taurus, you will be alright. If she has a Fixed sign Ascendant, like Scorpio or Leo, you will be alright. If she does not have compensating factors for stability, I would say, “Run for the hills”. Don’t look back. Gemini likes nothing more than a good chase.

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posted February 14, 2012 05:16 PM            

Also with my venus in the 8th, with a number of guys (I'm gay) I can totally bewitch them without much effort. I just have to learn to use that on guys that make me neverous (because those are the ones I don't get bored with).

posted February 14, 2012 05:17 PM            

No, too much Taurus. ASC and in Mercury. Once I get stuck on something, that's pretty much it. Even with a Gem. Moon.

posted February 14, 2012 05:20 PM            

I have a Cancer moon, Scorpio ASC and Pluto conj the MC. I am loyal as anything, but still fun

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posted February 14, 2012 05:25 PM            

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Originally posted by Ami Anne:
She will not slash your tires on the way out, as a Venus in Scorpio.

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posted February 14, 2012 05:30 PM            

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Originally posted by tautomer4314:
The other downside is having venus in gemini with a libra ascendent means I tend to value physical beauty rather highly, and I wish I didn't.

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posted February 14, 2012 05:31 PM            

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Originally posted by CosmicKarma360:
Gosh, I so wish I were more like that. I have Venus in Gem, but I'm not a flirt. I have never juggled several men at the same time. I don't leave when I get bored... Kind of wish I did, though. Sounds like it would be fun--to a certain extent.

No, too much Taurus. ASC and in Mercury. Once I get stuck on something, that's pretty much it. Even with a Gem. Moon.

I suppose I dream a bit of being a big tease. Flirting around, having all sorts of dates lined up. That's never been me, though. Strictly one at a time.

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I'm a one at a time person as well, but I will have people in a "dating line" in effect. One of my friends is a cancer who has venus in gemini like I do, and she is the same way as me. It was funny when we met each other because we realised we have the same methods of dating people. Fast rapid fire (our minds can figure out if someone is a good match or not very fast). Others will look at us a bit odd and say "how do you do that?! my brain would melt!" and it was really refreshing to meet someone very similar to me.

It can be fun to date around, just be honest with who you are with. Also, if you want to do something, just do it! Try it out and if it's not for you, then move on .

posted February 14, 2012 05:34 PM            

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Charm her with words. Sexually, she wants to hear you talk. Your moves come second.

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posted February 14, 2012 05:38 PM            

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Originally posted by athenegoddess:
I have a Libra ascendant too. trining my venus in gemini. but venus is in the 9th house.

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posted February 14, 2012 05:46 PM            

Ascendant in Libra, Venus in the Ninth House

At the time of your birth the zodiacal sign of Libra was ascending in the horizon. Its ruler Venus is located in the ninth house.

This denotes a life in which the native adopts an attitude which is courteous, kind, and affectionate.

People with Libra Ascendant are basically motivated by feeling and emotion rather than intellectuality. Your life will demonstrate your keenness of observation, and a tendency to effect comparisons largely of an aesthetic nature. You will not display too much energy in your actions and, therefore, there is a tendency toward following routine and the lines of the least resistance. You are a sympathetic person who seeks the approval of others and is also very adaptable. Your intuition is remarkable and you derive sensual gratification from engaging in social intercourse, by loving all social aspects of life.

If you do not control this tendency to be so involved in human relationships, you may become too attached and over dependent.

Some restlessness, changeability and lack of persistence is noted in your life. Your main feature is that of constantly favoring the fusing of two things or people together.

Unfortunately, this involvement with harmonizing and adjusting people to one another, tends to make the native a little unrealistic and lacking in action. You will be, however, easy going and congenial, socially oriented and preoccupied with adornments, clothing, social conventions, standards, and aesthetics. In love, if you cause the relationship to be a serious one, you will find that the affair is the consequence of your own interest in flattering yourself rather than to satisfy any profound emotion.

Professionally, you will be inclined to activities which require a high degree of culture and even artistic knowledge.

posted February 14, 2012 05:57 PM            

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Originally posted by sand:
legend-dary!

talk for how long lol?

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posted February 14, 2012 05:59 PM            

He is a Cancer Sun, Moon in Libra, Mercury in Cancer, Venus in Gemini, Mars in Cancer...

I just realized that he has enough Cancer placements to 'fix' the unstable flirty part.

posted February 14, 2012 07:01 PM            

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Originally posted by sand:
legend-dary!

talk for how long lol?

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A L-O-N-G time

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posted February 14, 2012 07:01 PM            

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I'm a one at a time person as well, but I will have people in a "dating line" in effect. One of my friends is a cancer who has venus in gemini like I do, and she is the same way as me. It was funny when we met each other because we realised we have the same methods of dating people. Fast rapid fire (our minds can figure out if someone is a good match or not very fast). Others will look at us a bit odd and say "how do you do that?! my brain would melt!" and it was really refreshing to meet someone very similar to me.

It can be fun to date around, just be honest with who you are with. Also, if you want to do something, just do it! Try it out and if it's not for you, then move on .

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Wow! You must be great at the whole speed-dating thing.

Yeah, well, I guess whatever it is, I just don't have it. I feel so guilty if I try to date someone that I'm only so-so interested in. I hate to lead people on, or have them get too attached. I feel horrible dumping someone. Plus, with my natal Venus square Pluto, things can get very, VERY intense. I don't dare light that fuse, and have it taken the wrong way.

posted February 14, 2012 07:02 PM            

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Originally posted by athenegoddess:
Nice!

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Thank you athenegoddess!

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posted February 14, 2012 07:03 PM            

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Originally posted by Betty Boop:
LOL I love this! Well written Ami!

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Thank you Betty!

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