posted February 20, 2012 10:04 AM            

I just realized that my older sister's sun, moon, and mercury (tight stellium) fall in my 12th house, and we have an extremely difficult relationship.

Do you think we sense where our planets fall in other people's houses?

For example, is it possible that I represent a kind of "prison" to my sister...or does she represent it to me, perhaps?

I kind of feel like she does. For a long time I felt like I could not be a "whole person" without being able to fix my relationship with my sister.

Have you had any weird experiences with this?

Or pleasant?

Like if my Venus falls in your third house will you find it easier to talk to me, maybe?

posted February 21, 2012 10:11 AM            

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when you get this SYNASTRY chart, please also post the *pdf file*, above left of chart look for *view additional tables (PDF)* This will bring up 2pages. Scroll down to last page for the *aspect grid* THIS is very important as it seems to show more aspects than is visible on the bi wheel…

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astro.com on free horoscopes tab, scroll down to interactive, 'astroclick partner'

so you sun falling in your sisters 12th?

Sun in a partner’s twelfth house:

"When your Sun is in your romantic partner’s twelfth house, your partner finds you intriguingly mysterious, and has a tendency to surrender his or her will to the subtle but pervasive influence you hold over him or her. When your relationship partner’s Sun is in your twelfth house, there is a deeply mystical quality to your relationship. You will tend to have a greater receptivity to emotional vibrations, introspection and spiritual experiences. You find it easier to align with your partner’s goals, and may have a greater willingness to make sacrifices to help him or her." http://www.skyviewzone.com/lovematch/sunsynastryhouse.htm

posted February 21, 2012 10:58 AM            

We are talking all the time,w hen we get together. EVen if we want to keep it short, and then we check the clock, and it is like 3 hours later, and all we have done was sitting around in the kitchen, drinking coffee or cooking a bit and talking, like there was no more time in the future for that.

So I`d say in our case the 3rd and 9th house placements definitely make sense.

(we have some strong synastric aspects there as well, though; it is not simply the planets falling into these houses).

posted February 22, 2012 09:39 AM            

SaggiMC, I appreciate your input. Sometimes I get lost looking at all the stuff in your posts. Would you consider formatting differently so the immediately relevant points stand out from the lengthy posting guidelines?

Ceridwen, that's really interesting about your brother. I have Libra in the 3rd, I'm from the Libra Pluto generation, maybe that's why my conversations with people are generally verrrrrrry long and intense, too? I hate the telephone because I can never get off the thing.

My sister, whose planets fall in my 12th, is bipolar, and I have sadly been in the position of having to consider hospitalizing her against her will.

Maybe that's part of what my chart is saying.

posted February 22, 2012 09:46 AM            

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Originally posted by Faith:

My sister, whose planets fall in my 12th, is bipolar, and I have sadly been in the position of having to consider hospitalizing her against her will.

Maybe that's part of what my chart is saying.

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posted February 22, 2012 04:32 PM            

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Originally posted by Faith:
Thank you for the replies!

SaggiMC, I appreciate your input. Sometimes I get lost looking at all the stuff in your posts. Would you consider formatting differently so the immediately relevant points stand out from the lengthy posting guidelines?

Ceridwen, that's really interesting about your brother. I have Libra in the 3rd, I'm from the Libra Pluto generation, maybe that's why my conversations with people are generally verrrrrrry long and intense, too? I hate the telephone because I can never get off the thing.

My sister, whose planets fall in my 12th, is bipolar, and I have sadly been in the position of having to consider hospitalizing her against her will.

Maybe that's part of what my chart is saying.

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posted February 23, 2012 07:36 AM            

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Originally posted by aquaguy91:
libra rules my natal 8th house,and i was in a relationship with a girl who had libra sun,moon,mercury ,and venus, so they all fell in my 8th house in synastry, i had never felt more sexually attracted to someone in my whole life and havent since,she felt it too,but i felt it stronger,she definitely had a hold over me. i have read that both people feel it but the house person feels it more. since her planets fall in your twelfth house is it possible that there is deception going on? lack of boundaries? maybe you both see in each other things you deny in yourselves?

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Thanks for helping to answer my question.
Your relationship with the Libra stellium girl sounds intense! Sorry to hear it ended.

Your question, that I put in bold, is very perceptive and strikes at the heart of the matter. In some ways, I'm jealous of her. In other ways, she mortifies me...from the time I was a teenager, I've been terrified that I would turn out like her.

Pretty weird...I have Uranus in the 3rd house and she's not my only eccentric sibling!

posted February 24, 2012 05:16 AM            

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Originally posted by FireWire:
12th house synastry has been a fascination of mine for a while now as I explore my 12th house--the placements all have karmic implications for me. As such, when people fall in my 12th house, it is almost always a karmic soul mate relationship....and as such, they are pretty challenging experiences.

But, I love this sort of synastry because I feel so much of myself being unearthed. In the end, if and when the relationships end (which they almost always do), I feel I have learned so much. I do think there is some sort of reciprocal 'you see in me what I can't see in myself, and I see in you, what you can't see in yourself.' The moon falling in your 12th, I've experienced that with almost all of such relationships and I am now experiencing it with a mercury added to that. It is pretty challenging and can be exhuasting--a lot of 'reflection,' undoing and communication difficulties.

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posted February 24, 2012 08:03 AM            

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Originally posted by SaggiMC:
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SaggiMC, I wasn't asking for help. Who asked about neptune, uranus and, or pluto anyway?

posted February 25, 2012 06:01 AM            

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SaggiMC, I wasn't asking for help. Who asked about neptune, uranus and, or pluto anyway?

This is *almost* like spam, in so many ways.

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