posted February 25, 2012 03:26 AM            

I'm a Pisces, and I'm having a hard time when it comes to "who to trust and believe."

a year ago o___O this virgo guy, he is very pathetic in my eyes, crying his heart out told me how hard his life is and so on... and there I told him to be positive... to make it short, I just picked up a wounded bird. after a day..

he said he love me and even asked me to be his GF and I was like "LOL SERIOUSLY?" (are you crazy) after a day I accepted his offer since I find it hilarious so I just tried it for fun. I'm not serious, since I don't think he is serious either o__O just for the lulz.

the problem started to rise, the more I'm with this person the more I fell hard for some WEIRD reason. There's just something with him that I can't get enough. I have this feeling that he needs me, I need him blah blah I feel great that it seems like there are connections. (yes, that so called "HE'S THE ONE!")

but, the sad story is he suddenly turned cold, and there he goes.. starting to be very picky, criticizing every part of me, my haircut, the way I talk and the way I react.

since I admit that I'm kinda rude, well o___O and I tend to bully him, I'm enjoying that.

pisces bullying virgo.

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then he started testing me, (like.. he won't respond to my mails just to test my reaction.)

Good lord, God knows how mad I am.

he keeps on disappearing
always, to the point that I'm crying at night and such.

I don't fall easily but, It seems like I just met my match. Though this is kinda miss and sad.

I said a lot of harsh words to him, I wasn't able to control myself since I'm too prideful to admit that I'm damn affected with what he's doing.

in the end I wasn't able to say the things I really want to tell him such as "I love you."

my pride and hate eat me up.

though I love the idea that he wants to change me to a better person than who I am now.
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I don't blame him for anything, I'm aware of my fault and his faults.

he gave me another chance...

but lol, before I realize I said "Forget it."

I think these guys keeps up their selves too much, I want to know more about him but, he's just too cold and distant. but, even though.. I still have this feelings..

"I want to hug him, melt all the ice inside him."

posted February 25, 2012 09:03 AM            

First you should understand you are not the sum total of your sun sign...

Basic astrology
Now basically your sun sign is your 'core beliefs, values, ego' and Asc is your physical body, mode of expression and mask and persona that we all wear and hide behind, but definitely not what's going on underneath. What's going on underneath is your Sun sign. Moon sign, house placements and aspects describe your emotional and intuitive responses, also describes your view of your mother, as saturn describes your father by sign and house position.

So, think of a glass milk bottle the bottle is your Asc and your sun the milk, but the milk still has to 'come out' through the glass neck of the milk bottle....

Now aspects within a natal chart represent 'facets' of our personality, because we are all multifaceted beings. What these do is 'break down and compartmentalise' these facets into smaller bite size chunks. This does take quite a lot of self analysis and objectivity to 'see yourself' and why you do certain things and behave in certain ways. Actually it can be quite good therapy...

Remember back to your school days an opposition is 180', square 90', trine 120', and sextile 60' Now challenged aspects are conj (depending on the planets, cos some like each other and some really don't) squares and oppositions. Easy aspects are conj (if the planets get along) eg: Jupiter conj Moon, sextile and trine. Quincunx is inbetween (depending on the planets) causes health strains and unresolved or hard to balance planets/energies.

Now if you simply want to play around with fre computer type synastry charts, here you go...

Free reading thread http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum11/HTML/002828.html

Now astro.com is THE place to go and get a FREE chart from.

How to post your chart… http://www.linda-goodman.com/cgi-bin/ubb/ubbmisc.cgi?action=getannounce&ForumNumber=11&Start=2455736.99&End=2459389&Session=
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You could also try our Search Engine for LL http://www.google.com/cse/home?cx=008618649001241799762:gzvuymx7vjg

Now if you really like want to know more in depth about synastry, we need to SEE charts and synastry bi wheel, also from astro.com and these needs posting in PR forum.

Basic astrology forum, How to approach Synastry http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum12/private-jjLYZw161/HTML/000667.html
To enter this forum you need an extra password – (astrology)

Please remember to reduce the orb ratio down to 40% (ONLY for synastry bi wheel) as the max orb between planets is 3'. Composite should be 85% orbs

when you get this SYNASTRY chart, please also post the *pdf file*, above left of chart look for *view additional tables (PDF)* This will bring up 2pages. Scroll down to last page for the *aspect grid* THIS is very important as it seems to show more aspects than is visible on the bi wheel…

problem is uploading to photobucket (or imageshack) you have to change this from Aabode format into a picture/jpeg format. This is done by getting the relevant page/grid in front of you on screen then, the press ‘prtsc sysrq’ - top row inbetween pause break and F12. This has been copied to clipboard.

Paste into Paint or some other photo software. Crop the picture and save to hard drive, then upload to photobucket, select chart, press IMG and past link into thread.... all done

Lastly, by making the effort to post the correct charts AND aspect grid will ensure that you are serious in your enquiry and will guarantee (from me at least) a serious response……if you are simply here to get a freebie or are just curious but can’t be bothered to make the effort to post the correct charts then I won’t bother making an effort to delineate them. In this case I will simply refer to a website that offers Free interactive models (like astro.com, astrology3d.com and grupovenus.com) for your amusement…

This forum (as all forums) are unpaid, free help and advice from lots of professionals (like myself) and enthusiastic amateurs, who do this for the ‘love of astrology’ and genuinely want members to learn about themselves and partners through this ‘science and art’ we call astrology……

Sounds to me like have lot aries, but when I checked you only have mercury in aries..