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Topic: Consensus on top compatibility aspects
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chocogold
Knowflake Posts: 58
From: USA
Registered: Aug 2010
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posted February 25, 2012 01:54 PM
  
ive been lurking a lot on these boards, using google to fid old topics on good compatibility aspects in synastrybut, it seems that im always reading something differently as in, there is no consensus? is there a place where i can find true tested synastry aspects that stand out in long-term and not miserable couples? when i say consensus
is that sometimes you read good things about venus and mars conjunctions, but others think that this is a very sexual aspect then, some defend the sun and moon aspect
but, this does not always work either and then, there is psyche and eros, but some dont care about asteroids at all...
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VenusDiSirius
Knowflake Posts: 2760
From: Saturn-free H12 ;)
Registered: Aug 2010
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posted February 25, 2012 02:05 PM
Mars/Venus - good but sexual isn't everybody's cup of tea,but they may like the feeling Mars incite in them - desirable and feminine;
Moon/Sun - v.good,it may not work for you,still GOOD aspect.
Asteroids need more research.IP: Logged |
ail221
Newflake Posts: 22
From: New York, NY, US
Registered: Feb 2012
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posted February 25, 2012 02:18 PM
Here's what I have read: there is a listing of the different aspects of compatibility. All in All its up to the individuals involved to decide whether they are compatible there is some truth to it all but we all just have to carve our own destiny out. http://cafeastrology.com/synastry.html IP: Logged |
maira
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posted February 25, 2012 02:43 PM
I think it's because synastry is so complex. As a general rule, I like to study natals first - for example a sun-moon conjunction might not work so well for an individual whose moon is stressed in the natal.
There are several articles on the subject that I really like, the first one that pops into my head is this one: http://astrologyforthesoul.com/vemamereln.html IP: Logged |
RunAroundScreaming
Knowflake Posts: 2427
From: USA
Registered: Oct 2010
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posted February 25, 2012 03:03 PM
I think the thing is that everyone focuses on synastry research, but there are sooo many possible ways to have nice synastry, and not everyone will get married or even find that person that they have amazing synastry with. In fact, most people won't. So, therefore most people dont have ideal synastries but rather a mixture of good and bad hopefully mostly good, and there are many many ways of making a mostly good synastry. There are many nice aspects and combinations of aspects out there.
The thing is not much research has been put into composites, which is where I believe, the real truth and strength in a relationship lies. And to make it even better, patterns for for healthy relationships are definitely shown in composites and I have found that to be the case over and over.
Look at my thread and tell me the patterns you see: http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum11/HTML/002840.html IP: Logged |
chocogold
Knowflake Posts: 58
From: USA
Registered: Aug 2010
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posted February 25, 2012 03:37 PM
thanks everyone...in terms of the moon-moon...and other placements what if there are no aspects between the sun and the moon, moon and moon and so on, but, the planets are ruled by the same element? does astrology have space for planet contacts
virgo and gemini (mercury ruled)
sag and pisces (jupiter influence) i mean, ive seen couples with this ruling planet connections (but no aspects) and, it sems that the elemental ruling does create a click. as to venus and mars
i find this complicated because my chart has a lot of square and oppositions
so even if i met someone with planets in scorpio, (which id like) there would be too much friction i wonder if people with complex charts like mine always end up having difficulty synastry i have sun in scorpio
moon in taurus
venus in scorpio
mars in aqua
rising in taurus...
pluto in scorpio imagine... id love to meet a scorpio mars but, it seems there would be friction because of my opposites and squares IP: Logged |
aquaguy91
Knowflake Posts: 397
From: tennessee
Registered: Jan 2012
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posted February 25, 2012 03:51 PM
haha synastry gets really complicated at least to me, because it seems i find a person of a compatible sun sign and the synastry is crappy,i always have squares with other air signs for some reason,but theres chemistry there,and then i have had great synastry with several cancer girls,but theres no chemistry and we have nothing in common,even the best synastry couldnt make it better. alot of people say the aspects are all that matter in synastry,i think its still good to have compatible suns or moons to help the synastry out.IP: Logged |
aquaguy91
Knowflake Posts: 397
From: tennessee
Registered: Jan 2012
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posted February 25, 2012 03:52 PM
haha synastry gets really complicated at least to me, because it seems i find a person of a compatible sun sign and the synastry is crappy,i always have squares with other air signs for some reason,but theres chemistry there,and then i have had great synastry with several cancer girls,but theres no chemistry and we have nothing in common,even the best synastry couldnt make it better. alot of people say the aspects are all that matter in synastry,i think its still good to have compatible suns or moons to help the synastry out.IP: Logged |
chocogold
Knowflake Posts: 58
From: USA
Registered: Aug 2010
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posted February 25, 2012 04:00 PM
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Originally posted by RunAroundScreaming:
Look at my thread and tell me the patterns you see: http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum11/HTML/002840.html
thanks. sent you an email 
you must be very busy with so many requests IP: Logged |
aquaguy91
Knowflake Posts: 397
From: tennessee
Registered: Jan 2012
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posted February 25, 2012 04:01 PM
quote:
Originally posted by chocogold:
ive been lurking a lot on these boards, using google to fid old topics on good compatibility aspects in synastrybut, it seems that im always reading something differently as in, there is no consensus? is there a place where i can find true tested synastry aspects that stand out in long-term and not miserable couples? when i say consensus
is that sometimes you read good things about venus and mars conjunctions, but others think that this is a very sexual aspect then, some defend the sun and moon aspect
but, this does not always work either and then, there is psyche and eros, but some dont care about asteroids at all...
i have had psyche conjunct eros exact in synastry before, i was eros and she was psyche,i think this aspect is a big plus IP: Logged |
chocogold
Knowflake Posts: 58
From: USA
Registered: Aug 2010
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posted February 25, 2012 04:51 PM
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Originally posted by aquaguy91:
i have had psyche conjunct eros exact in synastry before, i was eros and she was psyche,i think this aspect is a big plus
how did this aspect feel? i think my eros conjuncts a man's psyche
and his psyche also conjuncts my mars so for us, it is the other way around then, his eros is conjunct my uranus...i do not know what this means IP: Logged |
chocogold
Knowflake Posts: 58
From: USA
Registered: Aug 2010
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posted February 25, 2012 04:58 PM
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Originally posted by aquaguy91:
i think its still good to have compatible suns or moons to help the synastry out.
sun sextile sun..check!
sun trine moon..check!
moon sextile sun..check!
moon trine moon...check! but, something is still missing.. i mean, maybe it is relative
but, i think all of these trines and sextiles are not doing the trick...
or maybe, it feels great initially,
and then, it just becomes boring IP: Logged |
chocogold
Knowflake Posts: 58
From: USA
Registered: Aug 2010
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posted February 25, 2012 05:00 PM
as for my elements comments...i mean, for example, my mom and i
she is libra moon and im taurus moon (venus ruled)
sometimes, emotionally...we clash..
but, at the same time, we get each other better than most IP: Logged |
aquaguy91
Knowflake Posts: 397
From: tennessee
Registered: Jan 2012
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posted February 25, 2012 05:15 PM
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Originally posted by chocogold:
how did this aspect feel?i think my eros conjuncts a man's psyche
and his psyche also conjuncts my mars so for us, it is the other way around then, his eros is conjunct my uranus...i do not know what this means
great sex! haha and alot of passion and love for one another IP: Logged |
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