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Topic: Have you found any commonalities comparing synastry with all past./present partners?
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appleberry
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posted February 25, 2012 10:44 PM
  
I see something hitting my Uranus and Pluto each time.
And I seem to like guys with Sun in their 2nd house cuz that seems to be every one of them...
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tautomer4314
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posted February 25, 2012 10:53 PM
Big pattern I see is leo sun and virgo or libra moon combo. It never works, ever.For some reason virgo moons seem to love me. I just don't jive with it well at all though. ------------------
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aquaguy91
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posted February 25, 2012 10:59 PM
i go through different phases where i tend toattract or be attracted to different stuff, when i was a freshman and sophomore in high school i had water girls after me,like 4 cancers and a scorpio, i have dated a couple virgo ascendants, but the main thing is most of the girls i have dated or liked all have something in libra,neptune hard aspects always seem to be present in my synastriesIP: Logged |
Betty Boop
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posted February 26, 2012 03:14 AM
Often they have Scorpio or Taurus Mars.
My Venus/NN is in Taurus. This is sooooo common in my love-life .. Almost every guy who was important in my life has one OR the other (even close friends). In the rare cases with no Taurus or Scorpio Mars - they definitely have one of their other personal planets (Sun/Moon/Merc/Venus) in either Taurus or Scorpio. I just checked this again on astro.com. I actually don't think I have ever gotten really *close* to a person who does not have Taurus or Scorpio there.. It even includes female friends. How odd. I never noticed this before. O_O IP: Logged |
Betty Boop
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posted February 26, 2012 03:27 AM
There was another pattern I noticed a couple of years ago.. This is an older thread:
http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum24/HTML/203961.html Almost every poster who replied ^ was romantically involved with a person with their Sun in the sign that traditionally-rules the poster's Moon-house or Mars-house.
e.g. If you have Moon or Mars in the 9th, this would refer to Sagittarius Suns. :edit: oops.. I almost forgot! I also included the opposite sign in my theory... So for the example above it would include *both* Sagittarius and Gemini. IP: Logged |
Doux Rêve
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posted February 26, 2012 07:25 AM
I've been attracted to Cancer and Virgo placements.My IC is Cancer and its ruler is in Virgo, Virgo is in my 5th house and I have a 6th house stellium. So it's not at all surprising. IP: Logged |
appleberry
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posted February 26, 2012 02:58 PM
quote:
Originally posted by Betty Boop:
There was another pattern I noticed a couple of years ago.. This is an older thread:
http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum24/HTML/203961.html Almost every poster who replied ^ was romantically involved with a person with their Sun in the sign that traditionally-rules the poster's Moon-house or Mars-house.
e.g. If you have Moon or Mars in the 9th, this would refer to Sagittarius Suns. :edit: oops.. I almost forgot! I also included the opposite sign in my theory... So for the example above it would include *both* Sagittarius and Gemini.
WOW! Just off hand my biggest relationships are always with Sag boys and my mars is in the 9th. (in Gemini) But his Mars is in Capricorn H3 and I am Aries... so it didn't work both ways. IP: Logged |
Ceridwen
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posted February 26, 2012 05:29 PM
quote:
Originally posted by Betty Boop:
[BAlmost every poster who replied ^ was romantically involved with a person with their Sun in the sign that traditionally-rules the poster's Moon-house or Mars-house.
e.g. If you have Moon or Mars in the 9th, this would refer to Sagittarius Suns. [/B]
So for me with Moon in 2nd house, it would be Taurus or Scorpio Suns?
And with Mars in 12th - Pisces or Virgo Suns? IP: Logged |
Doux Rêve
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posted February 26, 2012 06:16 PM
^ Yes, I think so Ceridwen 
It's a very interesting theory!
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Betty Boop
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posted February 26, 2012 06:34 PM
Hi Ceridwen! Yes, that's right.. Actually you posted on that thread I think you said this didn't work for you. I didn't re-read it all, but I think you and Belgz were the only ones it didn't seem work for. Thank you Doux! IP: Logged |
Doux Rêve
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posted February 26, 2012 06:42 PM
You're welcome Betty!IP: Logged |
Ceridwen
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posted February 26, 2012 11:51 PM
Oh I forgot I posted. I am clearly posting too much.  But no, it does not really work for me, at least not in relation to the Sun.
The pull for me seems to be much more towards Sun in Sagittarius or Capricorn or Aries, and in my teenage days it was Sun in Libra. IP: Logged |
starmoon
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posted February 27, 2012 12:22 AM
good topic :-) i have looked at past charts and all the men i have dated seriously have their pluto conjunct my venus at 1 degree or less. i tend to date men about 8-10 years older than me, so the pluto/venus conjunction shows up almost every time, but in different degrees. i have also noted that most of the guys have water/earth placements which is why we eventually separate; my chart is almost all air and fire and i just don't understand emotional people wellIP: Logged |
CosmicKarma360
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posted February 27, 2012 01:08 AM
If their Sun or Moon is opposite my n.Venus, then I'm off to the races! Also, lately, noticed a *huge* pattern of a Mars/Moon connection. Always in a trine.IP: Logged |
Ceridwen
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posted February 27, 2012 01:24 AM
What is definitely a pattern for me is the following in a guy`s chart:1. mutable ASC, especially Sagittarius and Pisces
2. their Venus MUST be in a feminine element, or Sagittarius; most often: Venus in Capricorn, Scorpio, Taurus, Sagittarius (less frequently, but it has happened Venus in Pisces or very rarely Virgo)
3. Moon often in Libra (sometimes beginning of Scorpio), Aries or Sagittarius
4. Mars is usually in a mutable sign or a mutable house (I have a thing for Mars in Scorpio, but then it usually falls in their 12th house).
5. Mercury as ruler of at least one of their angles, and I have a preference for Mercury in Sagittarius or Aries (in Libra for friendship) IP: Logged |
iliketurtles
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posted February 29, 2012 01:38 AM
the only two guys ive ever gone "doolaalee" over :{1. had virgo moon in my 8th
his sun in my 5th
his venus square my (and his own) saturn
his mars trine my venus
his mars in my 5th house
(ascendant unknown) 2. had virgo moon in my 8th
his sun in my 8th
his ascendant in my 5th
his venus conjunct my (and his own) saturn
his mars trine my moon alot of my crushes have had personal planets either in my 5th or 8th house or making hard aspects to my Saturn... IP: Logged |
Ceridwen
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posted February 29, 2012 01:42 AM
Iliketurtles,what house does your Saturn rule in Pladicus? IP: Logged |
iliketurtles
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posted February 29, 2012 07:55 PM
quote:
Originally posted by Ceridwen:
Iliketurtles,what house does your Saturn rule in Pladicus?
placidus is just regular natal chart, innit? I am Capricorn rising, so the 1st? IP: Logged |
RedScorp
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posted February 29, 2012 08:24 PM
Prominent Fire or Air. I guess it's my singeltons in those elements that are attracted to such and such, Or maybe it's because I have a lot of Scorpio and quite a bit of Earth, so I need to balance that Water and Earth...?  IP: Logged |
hannaramaa
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posted February 29, 2012 09:52 PM
Usually have Saturn conj. Neptune with them, some Neptune sq. aspects and Sun conj. Venus. IP: Logged |
L0veLess
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posted February 29, 2012 11:52 PM
betty about that moon/mars house ruler thing, is that only for girls??? or did guys experience that too?------------------
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sanity.-Poe If the truth is relative then there's nothing that is really true. IP: Logged |
racole12
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posted March 01, 2012 01:07 AM
The ruler with the house that Moon or Mars is in, or the opposite, doesn't work with me. Moon in the 11th, Mars in the 7th. What I date/attract the most are people with a heavy Pisces or Scorpio. (my sun conj Neptune and my Venus is in Scorpio) IP: Logged |
Ceridwen
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posted March 01, 2012 08:24 AM
quote:
Originally posted by iliketurtles:
placidus is just regular natal chart, innit?I am Capricorn rising, so the 1st?
Yes.
But in your case the system doesn´t matter, as the rising never changes. So Saturn is your chartruler, and therefore a very vital part of your personality; it doesn`t surprise me that these men were aspecting your chartruler. A very personal connection. IP: Logged |
iliketurtles
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posted March 02, 2012 01:54 AM
quote:
Originally posted by Ceridwen:
Yes.
But in your case the system doesn´t matter, as the rising never changes. So Saturn is your chartruler, and therefore a very vital part of your personality; it doesn`t surprise me that these men were aspecting your chartruler. A very personal connection.
yes there were other things going on too such as progressions that also added to the drama: guy 1. (when we met and things were starting to develop)
1. my progressed venus trine his natal sun
2. his progressed venus conjunct my natal mars, square both our plutos
3. my p.sun could have been conjunct his natal moon (within at least 4 degrees or just a coincidence)
4. my p. vertex conjunct his natal sun. i almost feel out of my chair when i saw this. guy 2. (when we met and things started to develop)
1. his p. sun conjunct my natal venus
2. his progressed moon conjunct my natal sun (end of communications between us because he lied to me and took me for a fool.)
extra note - tr. neptune and tr. pluto wreaked havoc on my personal planets during this time too.
 
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Cynnared
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posted March 02, 2012 02:15 AM
I went through a period of time when I would be involved with Aquarian moon men. Then it would be Mars in Sag squaring my venus in pisces.My supposed first "true love" (Turned out to be a bloody joke and what was I thinking with him......no, oh wait his neptune square my venus.) The comparison between him and my partner now is the difference of 3 days. The clown was born on Jan 27th and exactly 3 days later my current partner was born on Jan 30th. Almost the same planetary positions but different moon and ascending signs - along with different house placements. Both men's Venus fell into my 7th. Another eerie aspect is my Pluto Square the man's Venus = I have experienced this three times and I'm still dealing with this one. Yet, I had this one guy who has his Pluto opposite my venus and the relationship was a nightmare. Relocated or natal, I seem to get an early Virgo rising mate too. My Venus thus falls right into the 7th house........Twice, I have also had Libra rising - my Sun falling into the man's 7th house. I have this aspect now. Cynn IP: Logged |
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