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Topic: Nathalie1 - Talk to me about Aquariuses :)
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aquaguy91
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posted February 28, 2012 05:23 PM
  
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Ah, geez, I suck at that. NOT to mention that would be dishonest and will misrepresent me. Imagine his surprise when he finds out that I'm actually an open book about everything.
There goes the mystery out the window.
Your advice is good, it's just... if it doesn't come naturally, is it a lie to do that?
i know what you mean, i feel the same way, but i have noticed from my experiences with dating girls and watching other people is that people like mindgames, its sad but unfortunately true for most people. but the whole mysterious thing really gets to aqua guys,we must know! haha IP: Logged |
Yin
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posted February 28, 2012 05:27 PM
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Originally posted by aquaguy91:
i know what you mean, i feel the same way, but i have noticed from my experiences with dating girls and watching other people is that people like mindgames, its sad but unfortunately true for most people. but the whole mysterious thing really gets to aqua guys,we must know! haha
I hate mind games and I know I'm not alone in that.
Yes, I understand the curiosity. I have an Aqua rising and I eat mysteries right up... until I get bored with people who try to be too mysterious.
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ariesdragon
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posted February 28, 2012 05:28 PM
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Originally posted by aquaguy91:
i know what you mean, i feel the same way, but i have noticed from my experiences with dating girls and watching other people is that people like mindgames, its sad but unfortunately true for most people. but the whole mysterious thing really gets to aqua guys,we must know! haha
It's ok if he was single but he's not buddy... She should just act normal and that's enough to shift the energy to her advantage. To show she DOES NOT go for guys who are not single. IP: Logged |
JohnFKennedy
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posted February 28, 2012 05:45 PM
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Originally posted by Yin:
How the heck do you [b]make yourself mysterious if you're just... not, by default.All kidding aside, does anyone know the answer? [/B]
Eh, you either are, or you aren't. There's no masking that kind of business, Aquarians can always sense it. Natural pros at this tend to be people with prominent Capricorn, Pisces, or Scorpio based on my "intrigue" factors in the past. I've always been drawn to people that were naturally private but always managed to be extremely socially graceful despite that. My Aquarius credentials: Moon in Aqua conjunct the North Node, plus Uranus conjunct my IC IP: Logged |
woah cakes
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posted February 28, 2012 06:18 PM
haha. yep, strongly agree about the friendship component. be friendly and consistent BUT unpredictable. maybe it's my aqua mars but i LOVE unpredictable (also aqua sun). mystery i can take or leave. i have a sag stellium so i am not very mysterious and i prefer frank talk but the less verbal scorpios and virgos always intrigue me, too. oh and be silly and hilarious if possible. i would echo what aqua guy said about withholding your feelings (well esp since he is taken, but..) because it does kind of freak us out when someone comes on too strong too fast. we are all about air which means we need space around everything and time to process things, especially our feelings. IP: Logged |
hannaramaa
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posted February 28, 2012 06:48 PM
Okay could we exclude the fact he's taken? I feel like as soon as everyone read that it became more about preaching and less about actual Aquarius behavior.IP: Logged |
hannaramaa
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posted February 28, 2012 06:52 PM
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Originally posted by JohnFKennedy:
Eh, you either are, or you aren't. There's no masking that kind of business, Aquarians can always sense it. Natural pros at this tend to be people with prominent Capricorn, Pisces, or Scorpio based on my "intrigue" factors in the past. I've always been drawn to people that were naturally private but always managed to be extremely socially graceful despite that. My Aquarius credentials: Moon in Aqua conjunct the North Node, plus Uranus conjunct my IC
Well, I have my Aries stellium in my 10th house, and Mars in Gemini in the 12th which kinda gives me a Capricorn/Pisces edge - right? Oh, wait wait AND I have Moon trine Saturn, Uranus, and Neptune which I heard is like having honorary Capricorn/Aquarius/Pisces moon... who's got the advantage now? Muahahahahaha. IP: Logged |
aquaguy91
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posted February 28, 2012 07:53 PM
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Originally posted by hannaramaa:
Well, I have my Aries stellium in my 10th house, and Mars in Gemini in the 12th which kinda gives me a Capricorn/Pisces edge - right? Oh, wait wait AND I have Moon trine Saturn, Uranus, and Neptune which I heard is like having honorary Capricorn/Aquarius/Pisces moon... who's got the advantage now? Muahahahahaha.
you have similar moon aspects to me, my moon trines neptune,uranus,and mercury. but even if he is taken it sounds like he still likes you,if you have caught him staring,us guys dont make eyes at girls unless we like what we see. But the single most important thing you need to remember about us aquarius guys is we like interesting and fun conversations,if you can do that you should be fine,it sounds like he is attracted to you so you have already won half the battle, i wish you the best of luck.  IP: Logged |
hannaramaa
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posted February 28, 2012 08:19 PM
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Originally posted by aquaguy91:
you have similar moon aspects to me, my moon trines neptune,uranus,and mercury. but even if he is taken it sounds like he still likes you,if you have caught him staring,us guys dont make eyes at girls unless we like what we see. But the single most important thing you need to remember about us aquarius guys is we like interesting and fun conversations,if you can do that you should be fine,it sounds like he is attracted to you so you have already won half the battle, i wish you the best of luck.
Thanks Aquaguy! I have a big personality, it just scurries away whenever he's near. He makes me nervous but I have a theory that we're all connected somehow, someway... so if he makes me nervous then I must make him nervous too and that's what I'm picking up. Also, I hate that I've caught him looking at me lol. It mean he's caught me looking at him too. IP: Logged |
aquaguy91
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posted February 28, 2012 08:39 PM
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Originally posted by hannaramaa:
Thanks Aquaguy! I have a big personality, it just scurries away whenever he's near. He makes me nervous but I have a theory that we're all connected somehow, someway... so if he makes me nervous then I must make him nervous too and that's what I'm picking up. Also, I hate that I've caught him looking at me lol. It mean he's caught me looking at him too.
yea aquas can be shy,i honestly think some of our reputation for being detached and cold comes from being shy,i know i have been perceived as cold by women when i was just nervous or shy,but the next time ya'll catch each others glances give him a smile,that should give him enough encouragement to start a conversation with you. IP: Logged |
nathalie1
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posted February 28, 2012 08:56 PM
Hey annaramma!Things with aquarius guys is that if they like you enough(or love you), they will most definitly come to you! doesnt matter what the circumstance, they will be with you no matter what. In that sense i think aquarius guys are the most straightforward, honest and direct. the aquarius guys I've known are actually the most loyal, they dont let anything get in the way if they really care about someone! I dont know the complete situation between you and this guy. You need to tell me more about this guy! oh and also my aqua was giving me mixed signals at first! on and off interest (i dont know if he was seeing anyone else at the time or not?!) but he showed interest one minute and then dissapeared the next. I moved to uni and kind of forgot about him, i guess he got bothered that i didnt make the effort with him anymore and didnt pay him much attention and then he was calling me every single day wanting to see me and saying he really like me (what the hell did that come from right?! where was all these feelings when i made the effort to see him) then i did see him and me and my mates went out for drinks with him and his friends, i didnt realize this was a 'date'. yeah aquas have a crazy concept of what a date is!anyway at this point i had lost all interest in him, but i was still NICE to him, trust me if i wasnt he would have runnnn. ALWAYS be nice to aquas(ut on a distant humanitarian level, not a personal level, i hope u know what i mean) and also be nice to other people! and aquas love people who are smiling and laughing and having fun! i was that night we went out and i paid him the same amount of attention that i did to everyone else! i guess other guys noticed me and were flirting with me (i played it cool and didnt because i knew the minute i reciprocated would have got jealous and GAME OVER! so i just laughed off other guys flirting with me) obviously this made the aquarius jealous, or realize that he should have apreciated me in the first place! at that point he took me to the side and told me he love me! lol soooo random i know and i ditn believe him at first! me being a gemini needs to be a 100% sure that someones loves me so over the years i've tested him so much!!! really pushed his buttons and he has gone through hell with me but he has still stuck by me! once an aqua tells you he loves you! they really do!!! aquarians are the most straight forward people! i ask my bf what took him so long to tell me he loves me and why he went about things the way he did, he says its ecause it takes him a long time to decide weather or not he really like someone! its true though i think aquarians think looonnng annndd harrrd before they commit, i think they're the most sensitive of any signs i know and its only to protect themselves that they do this! and whilst theyre thinking they dont like you to nag them or ask them why they havent text u or rang u......ok sorry this is in one big para! it was the quickest way lol! let me know if u need to know anything else! also, if he has a gf, he shouldnt be flirting or looking at any other girls! aqua or not, this guy seems like a player, you deserve better because what he's doing to his gf he'll one day do to you! the best guys always stay loyal and faithful! IP: Logged |
nathalie1
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posted February 28, 2012 08:57 PM
Hey annaramma!Things with aquarius guys is that if they like you enough(or love you), they will most definitly come to you! doesnt matter what the circumstance, they will be with you no matter what. In that sense i think aquarius guys are the most straightforward, honest and direct. the aquarius guys I've known are actually the most loyal, they dont let anything get in the way if they really care about someone! I dont know the complete situation between you and this guy. You need to tell me more about this guy! oh and also my aqua was giving me mixed signals at first! on and off interest (i dont know if he was seeing anyone else at the time or not?!) but he showed interest one minute and then dissapeared the next. I moved to uni and kind of forgot about him, i guess he got bothered that i didnt make the effort with him anymore and didnt pay him much attention and then he was calling me every single day wanting to see me and saying he really like me (what the hell did that come from right?! where was all these feelings when i made the effort to see him) then i did see him and me and my mates went out for drinks with him and his friends, i didnt realize this was a 'date'. yeah aquas have a crazy concept of what a date is!anyway at this point i had lost all interest in him, but i was still NICE to him, trust me if i wasnt he would have runnnn. ALWAYS be nice to aquas(ut on a distant humanitarian level, not a personal level, i hope u know what i mean) and also be nice to other people! and aquas love people who are smiling and laughing and having fun! i was that night we went out and i paid him the same amount of attention that i did to everyone else! i guess other guys noticed me and were flirting with me (i played it cool and didnt because i knew the minute i reciprocated would have got jealous and GAME OVER! so i just laughed off other guys flirting with me) obviously this made the aquarius jealous, or realize that he should have apreciated me in the first place! at that point he took me to the side and told me he love me! lol soooo random i know and i ditn believe him at first! me being a gemini needs to be a 100% sure that someones loves me so over the years i've tested him so much!!! really pushed his buttons and he has gone through hell with me but he has still stuck by me! once an aqua tells you he loves you! they really do!!! aquarians are the most straight forward people! i ask my bf what took him so long to tell me he loves me and why he went about things the way he did, he says its ecause it takes him a long time to decide weather or not he really like someone! its true though i think aquarians think looonnng annndd harrrd before they commit, i think they're the most sensitive of any signs i know and its only to protect themselves that they do this! and whilst theyre thinking they dont like you to nag them or ask them why they havent text u or rang u......ok sorry this is in one big para! it was the quickest way lol! let me know if u need to know anything else! also, if he has a gf, he shouldnt be flirting or looking at any other girls! aqua or not, this guy seems like a player, you deserve better because what he's doing to his gf he'll one day do to you! the best guys always stay loyal and faithful! IP: Logged |
nathalie1
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posted February 28, 2012 09:19 PM
hey just read what aquaguy said about the mysterious thing and he's right! but you dont have to go out of your way to be mysterious though! i think aquarius is all about playing it cool!!!! thats what makes them so desirable! lol if you want them to like you, or keep liking you if you know they already do then you need to play it cool too! i know it sounds like itll take you guys forver to get anywhere with the relationship but playing it cool is sooo important in the first part of ur dating with aqua's. Let him know just ONCE that you liek him too, but then treat him like u would any other person, which i hope is nicely!smile and laugh a lot with ur friends when he's around! lol they love a person like that because they really just wanna have a good time, even more than sex they like to be around people who are having a good time! they would wanna be aroud you! do some charity work! show u care about everyone! be uptodate with the news and other intellectual stuff, aquas dont just wnat a bimbo whos laughing her head off all the time! show him u can be intelligent and fun! dress sexy! he'll pretend he hasnt noticed, but he has! slllyy pervs! hahah yeah so just treat him like he's a regular person, be nice and friendly but dont give him any special attention. dont ever let him know that you're sat there worrying about him. he loves a girl who is happy to have him in his life but will also be ok if he isnt in her life, i REALLY dont know why aqua men love this! but i know thats the ONLY way you can get them, you just have to let them take the lead and make the effort.if they ask you out just say 'yeah cool sounds good'...dont say omgggg im sooo excited! cant wait to see you!!! im sooo looking forward to it! u know i guess u could convey the same message without being over the top, be REAL. and then have fun on ur date, dont worry too much about kissing and all that stuff, when aqua feels passion for u he will grab u and give u the best snog ever and more  heheso yeah just have the attitude 'if he's there, he's there...if not then there's always someone else!....never let him know he has some kind of power over you! NEVER! he needs someone strong but nice at the same time who doesnt go onnnn about feelings! aquas dont have much time for that 2bh! my bf tells me he loves me maybe once every two weeks! but the ammount of love he shows through his actions and how much he does for me is enough! i couldnt believe this man who i thought was so cold and distant and uncapable of loving anyone recently said something that upset me (its wasnt even anything big) i just told him in a calm voice 'j, you really hurt me with that!' usually i go crrrraaazzzyy if he does anything worng but this time i JUST told him how he made me feel, he starts to cry!!! and tell me he's sorry, cant live without me and that i'm the love of his life! wow! people really do surprise you! and ive learnt people who dont say it 24/7 are actually the most genuine! hate people why say it 24/7 then their actions are different! IP: Logged |
starmoon
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posted February 28, 2012 09:41 PM
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Originally posted by ariesdragon:
Ok first off u wanna get his ATTENTION... Dress very classy & sexy! DO NOT show him any feelings for him, no sneaky lookie lookie
Sorry to disagree, but I don't think most Aqua men are drawn to classy and sexy. If you want to catch their attention through clothes, go for quirky and bizarre - do something drastic to yourself or your hair just for a day, walk right by him, say hi, and he'll keep coming around. Been with my Aqua guy 1 year now and had one before him for 5 years. They are extremely cold and distant, but eventually they will warm up for the right woman and the distance starts to close. Very hard men to read though. IP: Logged |
ail221
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posted February 28, 2012 09:45 PM
I agree be mysterious about everything involving yourself but your mind. Air sign guys usually appreciate intellectuals. If you can't be mysterious be quirky. stand out in a subtle way. Giving hints with these guys wont work. Get him to trust you by being his friend. Lastly since he's in a relationship now dont bother trying to intervene sooner or later he will come drifting towards you. Try to be really open-minded and eccentric.IP: Logged |
hannaramaa
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posted February 28, 2012 09:47 PM
Okay, well the thing with me and this guy isss....I've been working here for 7 months. He's been there the whole time. He has a reputation for being very cocky and acting like a hard-ass when he isn't, and he's very selective about who he'll talk to. It's ridiculous. But he's hot. And being hot isn't a good enough reason to be distant (but he's never been "rude" to me per se, he's always been civil. Like saying "Excuse me" when we pass.) I remember two weeks after I started working there my new friend (who's a good friend of his) introduced us (even though he'd already trained me... he forgot my name) I think he was going to shake hands but I didn't move. And then I didn't say anything while my friend and him were talking for like 5 minutes. I was too shy!!!!! UGH. Now that I'm more comfortable there I'm a social butterfly but he never says anything to me. It's weird though because I know when he's doing stuff just to be near me or something. It sounds paranoid, but I don't get that vibe from everybody, just certain people and most often I'm right. I always joke with people about him because he walks around all muscley with this huge ego, but I guess it got carried away because some higher ups who were bored decided to lie and tell him I wanted pictures of him off Facebook (mortifying) to which he apparently just chuckled. And then my friend stepped in and defended me and ever since then I've just been laying low and can't even fathom an actual conversation so I forgot about it.
...But now he's saying I'm cute and staring at me all the time.
He has Mars in Scorpio, too. Can you really blame me? Mars. In Scorpio. IP: Logged |
woah cakes
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posted February 28, 2012 11:19 PM
didn't mean to sound preachy! just thorough.. good luck IP: Logged |
hannaramaa
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posted February 29, 2012 12:04 AM
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Originally posted by woah cakes:
didn't mean to sound preachy! just thorough.. good luck
Oh your fine Cakes, it wasn't specifically aimed towards you. I just noticed Ariesdragon dropping hints, and then someone else, and you said something... I appreciate input I just wish I received a little more objectiveness/credit than needing a moral compass, you know? Sure, I'm asking about a crush who's taken but I'm a moral person... I have self-control outside of astrology.. IP: Logged |
ariesdragon
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posted February 29, 2012 12:09 AM
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Originally posted by hannaramaa:
Oh your fine Cakes, it wasn't specifically aimed towards you. I just noticed Ariesdragon dropping hints, and then someone else, and you said something... I appreciate input I just wish I received a little more objectiveness/credit than needing a moral compass, you know? Sure, I'm asking about a crush who's taken but I'm a moral person... I have self-control outside of astrology..
No I'm not dropping hints. It's all up to you girl. It's not my life. If you like him then you like him nothing wrong with innocent flirting. I just don't want to see you hurt that's all.
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starmoon
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posted February 29, 2012 12:10 AM
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Originally posted by hannaramaa:
Okay, well the thing with me and this guy isss....I've been working here for 7 months. He's been there the whole time. He has a reputation for being very cocky and acting like a hard-ass when he isn't, and he's very selective about who he'll talk to. It's ridiculous. But he's hot. And being hot isn't a good enough reason to be distant (but he's never been "rude" to me per se, he's always been civil. Like saying "Excuse me" when we pass.) I remember two weeks after I started working there my new friend (who's a good friend of his) introduced us (even though he'd already trained me... he forgot my name) I think he was going to shake hands but I didn't move. And then I didn't say anything while my friend and him were talking for like 5 minutes. I was too shy!!!!! UGH. Now that I'm more comfortable there I'm a social butterfly but he never says anything to me. It's weird though because I know when he's doing stuff just to be near me or something. It sounds paranoid, but I don't get that vibe from everybody, just certain people and most often I'm right. I always joke with people about him because he walks around all muscley with this huge ego, but I guess it got carried away because some higher ups who were bored decided to lie and tell him I wanted pictures of him off Facebook (mortifying) to which he apparently just chuckled. And then my friend stepped in and defended me and ever since then I've just been laying low and can't even fathom an actual conversation so I forgot about it.
...But now he's saying I'm cute and staring at me all the time.
He has Mars in Scorpio, too. Can you really blame me? Mars. In Scorpio.
Perhaps the best thing you can do, and it's old-fashioned but true advice is to just be yourself. Focus on your work in the workplace and not him (he is taken after all :-) and if it's meant to happen, it will. Regardless of a man's sign, if they like you they will make it known and make it happen. Even an Aqua man who is normally more distant will let you know if he's really interested - it comes down to basics - when a man likes a woman enough, he'll be forward in some way. Good luck! IP: Logged |
woah cakes
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posted February 29, 2012 12:16 AM
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Originally posted by hannaramaa:
Oh your fine Cakes, it wasn't specifically aimed towards you. I just noticed Ariesdragon dropping hints, and then someone else, and you said something... I appreciate input I just wish I received a little more objectiveness/credit than needing a moral compass, you know? Sure, I'm asking about a crush who's taken but I'm a moral person... I have self-control outside of astrology..
totally get it. i'm now contemplating an aquarius man out of the blue (talk about unpredictability!) so i will be scrutinizing this thread along with you oh and he's engaged to be married, so, heh.. no judgement. there is a lot of grey area in the best of circumstances. IP: Logged |
hannaramaa
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posted February 29, 2012 12:17 AM
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Originally posted by woah cakes:
totally get it. i'm now contemplating an aquarius man out of the blue (talk about unpredictability!) so i will be scrutinizing this thread along with you oh and he's engaged to be married, so, heh.. no judgement. there is a lot of grey area in the best of circumstances.
LOL yay! You get where I'm coming from then. Besides...I'm talking to a quadruple Gemini right now and things seem to be going swimmingly. IP: Logged |
woah cakes
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posted February 29, 2012 12:48 AM
yup. what's your sign? did i miss it? i haven't read the whole thread yet..oooh.. quadruple! so you mean octuplets basically. IP: Logged |
hannaramaa
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posted February 29, 2012 11:16 AM
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Originally posted by woah cakes:
yup. what's your sign? did i miss it? i haven't read the whole thread yet..oooh.. quadruple! so you mean octuplets basically.
I'm a triple Aries (Sun, Merc, Venus) with triple Gemini (Rising, Mars, Jupiter) lol Yep, he's sun, moon, mercury, and Venus... am I wary? Yes. But do we get along and pretty much think and have the same tastes? YES. He's on my level mentally at least. IP: Logged |
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posted February 29, 2012 12:35 PM
It's hard to give good advice when we don't know anything about his chart. Like, I'm an Aqua but I don't need a lot of friendship and I do jump in head first into relationships (Venus square Uranus). I also like attention so if someone doesn't seem to be into me, I'm on to the next one. IP: Logged | |
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