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laurenbabiiee7
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posted February 29, 2012 01:24 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
do libras have a tendency to lie? I know they can be very manipulative but does lying involve in that? my boyfriend is a libra and i catch him in a lot of lies....

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mintgirl123
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posted February 29, 2012 01:30 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for mintgirl123     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I think lying, just like cheating is an integrity thing. Not really a sign thing.

Though some signs are known to be mroe honest (esp aries and sag).

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posted February 29, 2012 01:37 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Nothingbutaname     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
In my experience, yes! And a lot! Had a libra ex who lied all the time, she ended up cheating on me and lying about that as well. Lets just say I've written off libras as partners for the rest of my life. Manipulation seems to be a hall-mark of theirs :/

If he cannot be honest with you, I suggest moving on, otherwise you'll not be able to trust him and will probably end up heart broken.

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posted February 29, 2012 01:42 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Tofu addict     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I know of some Moon in libras, they have assertiveness issues,they seem to lie out of fear, they are confronted with something and can't deal with standing up for what they really want or did and the lie starts.

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laurenbabiiee7
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posted February 29, 2012 01:46 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
well im a libra moon but with aries asc so i don't raelly have a problem with being assertive lol buttttt my libra bf often lies about girls like intentions he cheated on me before as well did i :/ andddd he has lied about drug use like wtf!!!! i open it up so he can talk to me but he still continues to lie weve been going out foreverr so i thought he could talk to be by now but i really am starting to realize its just an insecurity issue with libras what a shame

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posted February 29, 2012 01:47 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for aquaguy91     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
gemini is the sign that has the reputation for lying ,but i have noticed libras lying to avoid conflicts. i have caught a libra girlfriend in lies, she was avoiding me and her excuse was she was going through alot,so she wasnt seeing me or answering the phone,and when i got on myspace she would sign off real fast so i wouldnt see,but i did, but when i signed on invisible she stayed on for hours and never went idle,come to find out she had enough time to talk to other guys but not me,her bf,so i broke up with her,and she was still denying it when i broke up with her.

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laurenbabiiee7
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posted February 29, 2012 01:48 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
ommggg yea case closed libras are ******* insecure as **** !!

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laurenbabiiee7
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posted February 29, 2012 01:49 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
thats horrible im sorry aquaguy :/ don't ppl get that theyll respect u more if theyre honest tsk tsk stupid libras

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posted February 29, 2012 02:25 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Nothingbutaname     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by aquaguy91:
gemini is the sign that has the reputation for lying ,but i have noticed libras lying to avoid conflicts. i have caught a libra girlfriend in lies, she was avoiding me and her excuse was she was going through alot,so she wasnt seeing me or answering the phone,and when i got on myspace she would sign off real fast so i wouldnt see,but i did, but when i signed on invisible she stayed on for hours and never went idle,come to find out she had enough time to talk to other guys but not me,her bf,so i broke up with her,and she was still denying it when i broke up with her.


Had a similar experience as you with a libra ex, didn't even get an apology for or anything. Did your libra give a reason for her actions?

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posted February 29, 2012 03:23 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lava Flower     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Those are some very sad experiences you've all had with immature Libras. The Libras in my life CAN be shallow and inconsiderate and i have witnessed them lie but i doubt lying is trait imbedded in every Libra you will come across.

Aquaguy91, that's funny she wasn't smart enough to at least log in as invisible.

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posted February 29, 2012 03:52 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for aquaguy91     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Nothingbutaname:

Had a similar experience as you with a libra ex, didn't even get an apology for or anything. Did your libra give a reason for her actions?

no she continued to lie to me

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posted February 29, 2012 03:57 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for anongrl10     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I think Libra's tendency to want to keep the peace and be diplomatic can lead to white lies. Of course if the person is not mature or have a good solid character, I can see that easily turning into more serious lying. They mean well most of the times as I said, but I am not sure if this absolves them in all cases. You have to know the person to judge the situation further.

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posted February 29, 2012 04:00 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for anongrl10     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by aquaguy91:
gemini is the sign that has the reputation for lying ,but i have noticed libras lying to avoid conflicts. i have caught a libra girlfriend in lies, she was avoiding me and her excuse was she was going through alot,so she wasnt seeing me or answering the phone,and when i got on myspace she would sign off real fast so i wouldnt see,but i did, but when i signed on invisible she stayed on for hours and never went idle,come to find out she had enough time to talk to other guys but not me,her bf,so i broke up with her,and she was still denying it when i broke up with her.

lol don't rely on technology that much to judge people's character. I can think of a number of explanations about her never going idle or showing online for hrs. If that was your only "evidence", sorry but it sounds like you probably were looking for a reason to not trust her.

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posted February 29, 2012 04:19 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for RegardesPlatero     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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posted February 29, 2012 04:25 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for RegardesPlatero     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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posted February 29, 2012 04:31 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for pandacake     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I'm a quadruple Libra and I do not lie. I don't want people to lie to me so I wont lie either. I believe in treating people with respect and honesty and it has to be mutual to make any relationship work. Open communication is also just as necessary. Yes I believe lying is a integrity thing and not a sign thing.

If people want the truth I tell them the truth, I do try to not make it sound too harsh though.

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posted February 29, 2012 05:00 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Adonis     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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posted February 29, 2012 05:01 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for pandacake     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by RegardesPlatero:
... we hate divisive, potentially friendship-ending conflicts.

That's also very true!

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posted February 29, 2012 05:07 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lava Flower     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by RegardesPlatero:
As a Libra, I see it a little differently:

I think that maybe she felt guilty or bad about it and WANTED to get caught, perhaps, but without having to come forward and own up to it. Again, we hate conflict. A lot. We can enjoy drama and conflict in books, TV, film, etc., but in real life, we want to get along--we don't mind a good civil discussion, after which both people walk away right as rain, but we hate divisive, potentially friendship-ending conflicts.


I really should have said sneaky because that comment was pretty harsh when directed at someone who was obviously young. Based on what Aquaguy91 said, what she did CREATED drama, even if unintentional. Don't get me wrong, i love you Libras, two of my dearest and longest time friends are Libras

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posted February 29, 2012 06:36 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for RegardesPlatero     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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posted February 29, 2012 07:04 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for aquaguy91     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by anongrl10:
lol don't rely on technology that much to judge people's character. I can think of a number of explanations about her never going idle or showing online for hrs. If that was your only "evidence", sorry but it sounds like you probably were looking for a reason to not trust her.

ok, she wasnt talking to me or seeing me which was extremely unusual at the time,so when i checked myspace,she signed off,the first and second time it happened i wrote it off as coincidence, but when it happened a third time i knew something was up,so i signed on invisible and what do you know she stays on for over an hour,before i went invisible i caught her signing off 3 times as soon as i signed on,a little bit too much to be a coincidence, add all that together with the fact she was dating another guy within the week i dumped her and it can be assumed something fishy was going on.

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posted February 29, 2012 07:12 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for aquaguy91     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
just to make sure what i said wasnt taken the wrong way, i love libras,they are one of my favorites,that was just one experience,but i could see where libras would have a tendency to try to keep peace in anyway possible and that may or may not include lying

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posted February 29, 2012 07:16 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Venus     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
i can imagine why Librans can be accused of lying, they do seem overtly nice and can try to please you by feeding you compliments.. all of that would make some people suspicious

but in fact a true Libran cannot withstand the guilt of lying, if they lie they become miserable thes people need to be fair and just or they will spontaneously combust *poof*

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posted February 29, 2012 07:28 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Malena     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by RegardesPlatero:
I see the not-covering-it-up bit as being done perhaps out of a wish--maybe one that the Libra didn't even realize existed--to be caught. Perhaps this was a darker version of a Libra compromise (we are the compromisers and negotiators of the zodiac, after all): she didn't want to own up to what she did, but she may have felt bad, so the compromise between the two extremes of doing nothing or confessing was to allow herself to get caught. Another possibility is that, given the Libra penchant for manners and the avoidance of conflict, perhaps if nothing else getting caught was the most graceful way out of the situation/the one with the least amount of unpleasantness involved.

Yes, but there comes a point at which it really doesn't matter how good your intentions are. The reality on the ground is that the Libra is hurting people. I don't think Aquaguy's girlfriend was avoiding "conflict" - I think she was avoiding responsibility for her actions.

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posted February 29, 2012 07:48 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for pandacake     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I can understand why the Libra girl acted like this. The fact Aquaguy broke up with her probably took away her burden to make a decision of her own. I think she handled the situation poorly though ...

Most Libras I know who are in a committed relationship really took the time to get to know the person, some of them even used to be friends. This way they are able to make up their minds to whom they will stay committed to.

I do know one Libra girl who is scared of being alone so she jumps in and out of relationships quickly and impulsively, in heat of passion perhaps, but rarely was the outcome a good one. She'd often quickly find someone more "ideal" in her mind (again without knowing the new person well either) while still in a relationship with the other ... She's matured now and is talking things slowly which I think is a good thing.

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