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Ruler of the Fourth House in the First House Your mother or your upbringing influenced your outlook on life or perhaps you learned at an early age that much of your emotional security foundation is built on yourself. Your home and private life are a strong part of your identity.
Ruler of the Fourth House in the Second House
Real estate and property matters may enhance your income. Your mother or your upbringing in general influenced your value system. Your family may affect your money supply or you may find that money and possessions provide a kind of emotional security for you.
Ruler of the Fourth House in the Third House
Childhood experiences had an exceptionally strong influence on your emotional security foundation. Your upbringing was influenced strongly by a close relative or relatives and could have been more education oriented than usual.
Ruler of the Fourth House in the Fourth House
Your home provides you with a strong sense of safety and security. You are strongly tied to your family heritage and roots. Your home, family and private life are important to you.
Ruler of the Fourth House in the Fifth House
Your upbringing influenced your attitude towards children. It also influenced your ability to be creative and to follow your heart's desires.
Your mother may have enjoyed being the center of attention in some capacity or perhaps she was a very creative person.
Real estate and property matters may be augmented by investment or other forms of speculation.
Your home could be a place of much social activity.
Ruler of the Fourth House in the Sixth House
Your sense of security is connected to the work you perform and something about your upbringing influenced this. Homes or some specific domestic activity could have a bearing on the work you do. On the other hand, your home may represent a lot of duty and obligation in your eyes. If you ever considered catering or opening your own restaurant, this astrological influence supports those ideas well.
Ruler of the Fourth House in the Seventh House
Your sense of security is strongly reinforced by close partnerships. Your home may become your partner's home or very close friends may live with you. You could find yourself having to become a strong emotional support for either your spouse or closest friends.
Ruler of the Fourth House in the Eighth House
Something about your upbringing acted as a catalyst for some kind of major life change. On the other hand it may be that later in life you'll go through an important and major transformation. This could mean that your deepest beliefs about what constitutes real security will totally change.
Ruler of the Fourth House in the Ninth House
Your mother or your parents may have been from a foreign country, or perhaps, one or both of them moved far away. This astrological influence can also indicate that your final home may be far from your place of birth. Your emotional security is fortified by religious concepts or some kind of firm life philosophy. Your upbringing may have had a strong influence on your spiritual beliefs. Your parents had some very high expectations of you.
Ruler of the Fourth House in the Tenth House
Your mother was a strong authority figure, or that could just have been the impression you got as a child. Your security needs are fulfilled through recognition of your achievements. Your career may take place out of your home. It's possible that real estate or property matters are linked to your main career. You may find that you have very little private life and that you have certain responsibilities that force you into public recognition whether you desire that or not.
Ruler of the Fourth House in the Eleventh House
Your home base may be subject to a lot of changing circumstances beyond your control or it might just be that your home is unusual in some way. Your upbringing may have contributed to a desire for radical social change or perhaps your security needs are fulfilled through belonging to clubs and organizations or otherwise interacting with people in a common cause.
Ruler of the Fourth House in the Twelfth House
There may have been unclear circumstances surrounding your mother or other close family members-perhaps mentally creating an idealized version of your childhood circumstances. You could be a very private person and you feel emotionally secure even when you are alone. This can also mean that you'll become more spiritually oriented during the second half of life, perhaps putting more emphasis on developing that side of yourself.
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planets in 4th will also describe family circumstances, not just conj IC...