posted March 01, 2012 03:05 AM            

OR - Do you feel like they are more or less in the same basket... like you care about all of them in different ways and none of these people are more or less important?

Please post your Moon/Venus signs and houses.

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posted March 01, 2012 03:09 AM            

I'd like to know - from the male-knowflakeys - Do you really feel like you care THAT much about romantic relationships - that you would throw out a perfectly good friendship in the name of love, if you had to?

posted March 01, 2012 03:26 AM            

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OR - Do you feel like they are more or less in the same basket... like you care about all of them in different ways and none of these people are more or less important?

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This.

posted March 01, 2012 03:32 AM            

I would have to disqualify myself, I have no family members I truly care about. I have obligations or- duty if you prefer.

Then again, I am not married. Nor do I currently have children.

posted March 01, 2012 07:10 AM            

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Originally posted by sand:
if she's the one) ..

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You know that a guy is just passing time with you if he isn't ditching his friends for you.

@ topic: I have Moon in Aquarius in the 5th and Venus in Scorpio in H3.

To me, family is duty & obligation. Blood is thicker than H2O. Their needs take priority. But I'm not emotionally dependent on them.

Lover/S.O. is second. Because this is a rare, special, very intimate and intense relationship....which is what Venus in Scorpio craves.

Friends mean next to nothing to me. The ones I've had just got in my way, taking up huge blocks of my time by complaining to me about their problems. I feel they benefited more from the relationship than I did. When I need THEIR help, they rarely come through. What lousy investments. And they are easy to replace - you can be friends with the whole world if you wanna bother.

Plus, guys think that if you're friends, it's a chance for them to get in your pants someday. So I never call them that - that way they can't whine about being "friend-zoned."

posted March 01, 2012 07:33 AM            

family-not very strongly connected... either conflict or complete apathy.... scoring 3rd

friends-friends tend to be good but not very important as they come and go in my life and i had my share of traumas with close friends.... scoring 2nd

posted March 01, 2012 07:57 AM            

Venus in Sagittarius, 5th
Moon in Pisces, 8th

posted March 01, 2012 08:00 AM            

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Originally posted by Capriquarius:
[QUOTE]Originally posted by sand:
[b]if she's the one) ..

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You know that a guy is just passing time with you if he isn't ditching his friends for you.

@ topic: I have Moon in Aquarius in the 5th and Venus in Scorpio in H3.

To me, family is duty & obligation. Blood is thicker than H2O. Their needs take priority. But I'm not emotionally dependent on them.

Lover/S.O. is second. Because this is a rare, special, very intimate and intense relationship....which is what Venus in Scorpio craves.

Friends mean next to nothing to me. The ones I've had just got in my way, taking up huge blocks of my time by complaining to me about their problems. I feel they benefited more from the relationship than I did. When I need THEIR help, they rarely come through. What lousy investments. And they are easy to replace - you can be friends with the whole world if you wanna bother.

Plus, guys think that if you're friends, it's a chance for them to get in your pants someday. So I never call
them that - that way they can't whine about being "friend-zoned."

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posted March 01, 2012 08:54 AM            

Nobody matters to me but my wife. I DGAF about anyone else.

posted March 01, 2012 09:06 AM            

Friends come and go (but atleast I do care about the close ones) I believe that if we were close friends and stuff, we would maintain communication regardless.

Lovers come and go too.

At this point I think the most important would be my friends!!!

posted March 01, 2012 10:50 AM              

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Please post your Moon/Venus signs and houses.

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How can you assess JUST signs and house without looking at ASPECTS.... you will never have a proper picture.

What are you using the collected data for exactly please? for fun or some serious study?

posted March 01, 2012 11:29 AM            

In terms of primal instincts, they are my biological insurance. Same genetic mix. Younger, therefore higher fertility. So they're given priority. I'd sacrifice my life for them (Neptune in 3rd) if it ever comes down to that.

Friends....they're a source of entertainment. Until they start breeding, then I pull a disappearing act before they get a chance to hint about free babysitting. I'm not wasting my resources on perpetuating THEIR individual DNA.

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Originally posted by YoursTrulyAlways:
Compared to my wife, I would sell my birth family on Ebay and ship them COD, with a frequent buyer discount.

Nobody matters to me but my wife. I DGAF about anyone else.

Blood? I'll pour it down the toilet bowl and flush.

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posted March 01, 2012 12:05 PM            

Family...I have a large family, but the only person I am truly close to is my mom (and my maternal grandparents when they were still alive). There is a sense of obligation in the back of my mind because she sacrificed a lot for me, but I also believe that's how a mother ideally should be. She is and always will be a person I know who, without a doubt, will never betray me. Trust and loyalty is very important to the both of us, but we've both established that there are some things we don't and don't need to know about each other.

Partners...I've only been in two relationships in my 22 year life, both relatively short. They knew me on a different level, as expected. Right now, I don't see myself finding that unconditional, all-consuming love, but I still hold on to that hope because I know it exists. I've seen it with my grandparents.

posted March 01, 2012 07:24 PM            

1. Friends- I make and keep GOOD friends. Friends who have shown me that they have my back. I can rely on them for pretty much anything, AND vice versa. I have my share of acquaintances of course, but my core group of friends are the ones I rely on (which is good because I live out of state away from my immediate family). To be honest, I feel like I learn a lot more from my friends than I do from my family, which is part of why friends gets the number one spot for me.

2. Family- I lucked out and got a great family that also always has my back (for the most part). I love them, but I've never been super close to any of them. They are a great support system.

3. Partner- The ONLY reason this made number 3 is because I have had my share of bad partners, and unfortunately, until I meet a guy who will be truly loyal and there for me when I need him, I'm not moving this out of number 3. I've had a lot better friends than I have romantic partners, sadly. I know that will eventually change though.

posted March 01, 2012 08:54 PM            

Lover would come in at first. Like Node, when attached they eclipse all else.

Friends will take 2nd place.

Family rounds out at 3rd.

posted March 01, 2012 11:16 PM            

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Originally posted by Capriquarius:
"Love and hate are two sides of the same coin"... and Capricorn is at one end of the polarity belonging to family.

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The difference is that I've settled for good, and my "family" is the one I have chosen and built by personal choice, not the one that I was involuntarily born into.

The family that I have has two girls, two boys and my wife. They are what I live for, and whom I will die for. These are the only people who would come to my aid. If I have to go to hell, they would sacrifice to join me.

I marry once and once only. I neither believe in past lives or future mortal lives, so this is the only marriage I will ever have. I'll never marry again.

posted March 02, 2012 02:22 AM            

2nd is friends.

3rd is partners. (With the exception of one man. An ex of mines was of equal importance to my family.)

That's the usual way I'd order it though.

Moon in Leo, 10th
Venus in Scorp, 2nd

posted March 02, 2012 02:27 AM            

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Originally posted by YoursTrulyAlways:
I married my best friend, with whom I share the best sex, and I come from a birth family of bums to whom I have zero allegiance, so I wouldn't be able to answer your question

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posted March 02, 2012 09:17 AM            

Your priorities will change immediately after you have you first child.

Tell me that you would value your parents more than your own child?