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Topic: How many intimate relationships survive saturn return?
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Lava Flower
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Registered: Feb 2012
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posted March 01, 2012 06:29 AM
  
Hey everyone  I have been trying to find a specific thread that talks about what goes on with ongoing committed relationships when Saturn return is underway for one of the partners. It is really depressing, because so far, ALL the people that commented on here about relationships during that time have said: they either ended a long term relationship and or met someone during or after, or are just happier that a relationship was over. I have yet to come across someone stating that they build a strong foundation and made it through with their love during that time. I mean, surely it happens, but is it really that rare? How much "pressure" are we talking about her? It just seems like a repeating theme. Does anyone here have a success story that they have lived through or heard of? Personally, i still have a couple of years till my SR, but a few of my friends will be going through it when it moves over to Scorpio. The only story i can share is that my of my parents who didn't have any serious prior relationships, and they got married around that time. Hmm.. IP: Logged |
Ceridwen
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posted March 01, 2012 07:10 AM
My friend married 2 years before her saturn Return. Both, she and her husband had their Saturn return during their marriage.
As a matter of fact she got pregnant with her first child during her saturn Return and their relationship has been stronger than ever since then.my parents also were married during their Saturn Returns, and they are still married, 38 years later. IP: Logged |
Faith
Knowflake Posts: 363
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Registered: Jul 2011
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posted March 01, 2012 07:13 AM
Don't worry! Lots of relationships survive it.  This WAS tough for my marriage, my father was dying and that added a lot of tension. It's still a sore memory if I think about it in certain moods. But overall, it's good to know my husband and I can weather the storms...and things do change, we grow and learn all the time. I'm not the same person I was 7 or 8 years ago, neither is he. Best wishes to you.  IP: Logged |
Mermaid
Knowflake Posts: 107
From: From the deep blue seas
Registered: Apr 2011
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posted March 01, 2012 08:27 AM
I feel the relationships that do survive the Saturn Returns are the ones that have good Saturn synastry or Natal placements.Even then,Saturn will have left its mark.There would have been some major upheavals that everyone would've gone through.IP: Logged |
Starry~*
Knowflake Posts: 322
From: New York, USA
Registered: Nov 2011
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posted March 01, 2012 08:54 AM
I'm a Libra going through a T Saturn through my 12th house sun. It has been nothing but hard for me the past year...I've been in a relationship with a man for almost 10 months now. My saturn wasn't a saturn return but it was definitely something that hit me like a ton of bricks. I was "depressed" and crying alot more than usual (which is hardly ever). But despite all this, we are still together. He will be going through his saturn return once saturn moves into scorpio in october. I really wonder how that's gonna turn out. Plus, in our composite chart, T saturn will also be going through our 12th house where we have a tight sun conjunct pluto there. Big Yikes. In synastry though, we have Saturn Conjunct Venus DW. So..maybe that's what's keeping us together. Right now, I'm just gonna go with the flow. All I've been doing since Saturn was in Libra was try hard and work hard. I want a break already! IP: Logged |
SaggiMC
Knowflake Posts: 1897
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Registered: Jan 2012
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posted March 01, 2012 09:05 AM
never mind saturn return, every time t Saturn made a hard aspect to me venus (well aspected conj mercury and sun) either a friendship OR relationship brok. Was short of money and unable to socialise...synastry and divorce http://www.astrologyweekly.com/forum/showthread.php?t=13745&highlight=synastry+divorce
Synastry & divorce--- really great article, well worth reading----- http://books.google.co.uk/books?id=0OJgX88KKMsC&pg=PA46&lpg=PA46&dq=astrolog y+2nd+marriage&source=bl&ots=DoV__K_IQS&sig=dI1UAX 5oprrQLtfzYUrJ4_XzuKU&hl=en&ei=zBV0SsfnHYqhjAf5rN2 nBg&sa=X&oi=book_result&ct=result&resnum=6#v=onepa ge&q=&f=false
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I love the parable, “If you give a man a fish, you feed him for a day, BUT if you teach him how to fish, you feed him for life.” IP: Logged |
Lioness
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posted March 01, 2012 10:24 AM
I.was married during my return, I had a baby just before my return.....
My return was.more about dealing with another child, working, and being married... How to mange it all..
My marriage out lasted my return..IP: Logged |
YoursTrulyAlways
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posted March 01, 2012 10:32 AM
I was married during my return and also had a child during my return. My Saturn return were the three best years of my life. I met my wife and my career was at its peak. My wealth was also highest. Its been 19 years, soon going 20 years.IP: Logged |
hippichick
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posted March 01, 2012 10:46 AM
I have never seen Saturn as problematical, he seems to give more structure to things established and give structure to new things.Upon my first Saturn return, I gave birth to my second, now 20. She was born with a severe heart defect, the reason that propelled me into nursing. Uranus helped me to ask for a divorce when he transited my stellium of Mars, Merc and Juipter in Aqua, and opposed himself, and squared my Taurus moon. A long term relationship ended with tUranus conj my sun. My marriage finally ended with Tjupiter in my 7th, I would go into a Saturn return on a relationship with caution, but if he does not help, in some way, then I think it is destined to end anyway. IP: Logged |
Lava Flower
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Registered: Feb 2012
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posted March 02, 2012 12:41 AM
Well i am an optimist but i am a little scared lol I hate losing people i love, so hope that's not going to be one of my lessons. My saturn is retrograde in the 6th opposing my moon exactly.. although he is pretty kind to my other planets. So far, i learned that i must go with it and work with saturn and never fight it. Hmm i do have one more question though. Since saturn makes himself painfully known by opposing my moon in the 12th, does that mean that there may well be problems that come up having to do with my mom? Her NN is exactly opposing my sun. *cold shiver* IP: Logged |
Ceridwen
Knowflake Posts: 2095
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Registered: Jul 2011
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posted March 02, 2012 01:29 AM
quote:
Originally posted by hippichick:
My marriage finally ended with Tjupiter in my 7th,
I read that this happens surprisingly often: T Jupiter in 7th house at the time of separation/ divorce.
But I think it might more indicative of the endresult of a longer lasting process, and opens the door to a final release and gliding into a new phase of life. IP: Logged |
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