posted March 04, 2012 12:29 AM            

Anyway during the whole time he asked all right questions almost suggesting that he is keen on considering a long term relationship, but he still did not contact me since yesterday after we met. And today, he went back to his place. I am not sure what his level of seriousness is? It is frustrating, to say the least. His slow moves are killing me. Is this because of his Venus in Virgo thing, or his saturnine influence? By the way, he is younger to me by 6 years and his Saturn return is almost due.

Do you think I should take him seriously?

Our Synastry (my chart is inside)

Our Composite

posted March 04, 2012 04:23 PM            

Then he has a stellium of Moon Venus Mars, which would indicate a very passionate and emotional nature. It's in Virgo and in the 6th, meaning that it may be a bit uncomfortable to put these traits into display, he may have more of a practical approach to love.

I think he will make his intentions clear (Aries ASC).
But then again, maybe he is too cautious with all that Scorpio/Virgo/Saturn energy.

posted March 07, 2012 07:50 AM            

Thanks for your response. I guess in a lot of ways, he does seem to fit your description. I am assuming, the major difference between us is the way we handle our emotions via our Moons (Virgo Moon and Aries Moon). He is very guarded and doesn't make decisions so quickly. He is also very suspicious (being a Scorpio). I think my impulsive actions do intimidate him a bit. Besides, I am 6 years older than him.

By the way, can I also get the interpretations for the following aspects?

posted March 07, 2012 08:45 AM            

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Originally posted by lindaGreg:
I am assuming, the major difference between us is the way we handle our emotions via our Moons (Virgo Moon and Aries Moon). He is very guarded and doesn't make decisions so quickly. He is also very suspicious (being a Scorpio). I think my impulsive actions do intimidate him a bit. Besides, I am 6 years older than him.

By the way, can I also get the interpretations for the following aspects?

1) My Sun is conjunct with his Eros and Karma
2) My Aphrodite and Chiron, together, are conjunct with his Osiris
3) My Vertex is conjunct his DC

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You're welcome.

And yes, I had noticed the quincunx Moon signs, and well, they will probably get you in trouble at times. Virgo Moon is less spontaneous, and less showy emotionally. However it's a sensitive position for the Moon, so even if the person doesn't seem to be affected, deep inside they are. Don't ever criticize them. If you do, it *has* to be gentle and considerate. It may take a lot of patience to truly get each other emotionally.

I'm not into asteroids, but Vertex conjunct the DSC looks important to me. However, it can be quite sublte, I think. The Vertex is not a body but a point, so its effects may not be as noticeable as those of the planets.
I think it indicates a sense of fate, or a turning point in life. I don't know much about it so that's about all I can tell you.

posted March 07, 2012 12:31 PM            

You'll have a strong effect on his outlook on life and his whole persona[uranus again on his sun, merc]. I can't tell from those charts but does he have a lot of Uranus aspects in his own natal chart? If he doesn't ~ he may not be able to cope with the energy but if he does then he will be more comfortable with it.

Venus in Virgo is cautious and he has the moon there too..... he probably won't be all that expressive but I'd have thought he would've made a point in communicating after his visit ~ out of manners more than anything.

I think it's your Uranus and not your Aries Moon that he's unsure about.

The composite has Venus square Uranus.. which indicates excitement but instability. I can't see what Saturn is doing as the degrees are missing but good aspects would help to balance out any Uranus stuff.

posted March 13, 2012 01:34 AM            

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Originally posted by Doux Rêve:
You're welcome.

And yes, I had noticed the quincunx Moon signs, and well, they will probably get you in trouble at times. Virgo Moon is less spontaneous, and less showy emotionally. However it's a sensitive position for the Moon, so even if the person doesn't seem to be affected, deep inside they are. Don't ever criticize them. If you do, it *has* to be gentle and considerate. It may take a lot of patience to truly get each other emotionally.

I'm not into asteroids, but Vertex conjunct the DSC looks important to me. However, it can be quite sublte, I think. The Vertex is not a body but a point, so its effects may not be as noticeable as those of the planets.
I think it indicates a sense of fate, or a turning point in life. I don't know much about it so that's about all I can tell you.

The fact that you guys have the same angles will probably help a lot, you have similar POV's on life and maybe even similar goals.

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That is true, he mentioned that he can somehow intuitively relate to my general approach towards life
* Both of us have no interest in having kids (biggest plus point)
* Both of us are in the same work area (IT)
* Both of us seek the lighter version of relationship. i.e being a couple and yet not losing our sense of individuality and having the ability to have that kind of a flexibility in life.

Only thing is, he takes 1 step forward and no action for while. He 'plays' his cards rather close to his chest. Whereas I, hate playing such stupid games. I tell it like it is and I don't like playing ego games.

Anyway, he did finally reply to my message after taking 3 long days. It was obviously a very calculating move. I find that rather annoying.

posted March 13, 2012 01:41 AM            

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Originally posted by dysfunctionalmystic:
I'm wondering if he doesn't quite feel safe with you? Your Uranus is close to his Saturn which means there is something about you that will threaten his sense of security. In a long term relationship this would be difficult.

You'll have a strong effect on his outlook on life and his whole persona[uranus again on his sun, merc]. I can't tell from those charts but does he have a lot of Uranus aspects in his own natal chart? If he doesn't ~ he may not be able to cope with the energy but if he does then he will be more comfortable with it.

Venus in Virgo is cautious and he has the moon there too..... he probably won't be all that expressive but I'd have thought he would've made a point in communicating after his visit ~ out of manners more than anything.

I think it's your Uranus and not your Aries Moon that he's unsure about.

The composite has Venus square Uranus.. which indicates excitement but instability. I can't see what Saturn is doing as the degrees are missing but good aspects would help to balance out any Uranus stuff.

His saturn return will help him...he's going to be wanting long term stability so I do think you can take him seriously.

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Hi dysfunctionalmystic,
Firstly, thanks for your response. I appreciate you taking time.

I am totally not sure whether he feels safe around me or not. Besides, I am 6 years older than him, so it is more than likely that he may be slightly intimidated by it (even though he said he doesn't care about our age difference).

There are only 3 aspects to his Uranus, and only one has the closest orb.

Ascendant Trine Uranus (00'56 orb)
Jupiter Conjunct Uranus (4'59 orb)
Chiron Opposite Uranus (6'03 orb)

posted March 13, 2012 03:39 PM            

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Originally posted by lindaGreg:
Anyone else would like to provide their views? I am particularly curious to know more about those asteroids as well.

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please repost and reduce the orb ratio down to 40% as the MAX orb is 3' between planets..take off asteriods and leave Juno and Vertex, which are important

this needs to be done in PR forum as I'm sure Mods here will move inanyevent..

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Please remember to reduce the orb ratio down to 40% (ONLY for synastry bi wheel) as the max orb between planets is 3'. Composite should be 85% orbs. Please also include, vertex, juno and POF (part of fortune)

when you get this SYNASTRY chart, please also post the *pdf file*, above left of chart look for *view additional tables (PDF)* This will bring up 2pages. Scroll down to last page for the *aspect grid* THIS IS VERY IMPORTANT AS IT SEEMS TO SHOW MORE ASPECTS THAN IS VISIBLE ON THE BI WHEEL…

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posted March 13, 2012 03:45 PM            

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