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featherlightly
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posted March 06, 2012 04:41 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for featherlightly     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
If so, can you post the chart and explain what the relationship was like? And if possible, post the aspect grid too?

I'm trying to feel better about the fact that I'm completely, madly in love with someone whose synastry is probably the "weakest" of anyone I've ever been with before. But I love him more than I've ever loved anyone. We have a ton of double whammies, but most are very wide orb, and are squares.

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Nine
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posted March 06, 2012 09:12 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Nine     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Have you looked at the progressions??

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posted March 06, 2012 09:57 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Capriquarius     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Nine:
Have you looked at the progressions??

Yeah that's what I was thinking too. I had nMars trine someone's progressed Mars....the physical attraction was magnetic and the sex was freakin amazing, like his body knew exactly what I wanted. Definitely the yardstick by which I shall rate my future experiences.

No other strong connections to my Mars from his side, so his progressed Mars must've been what was behind it.

Everything else was blah though, as reflected by the synastry.

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posted March 06, 2012 11:56 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lava Flower     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Yes, progressions are very telling. Draco's as well.

Perhaps its due to "minor" aspects.. From my understanding, harmonics are like different frequencies. The orbs mus be super tight though, never more than 1*.

With the man I love deeply, there are no aspects between our suns, but they are 80* apart, that's a 9th harmonic aspect, and very deep. In that harmonic chart, out suns are 2* conjunct. His moon is conjunct my sun in the 7th harmonic.


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featherlightly
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posted March 07, 2012 12:14 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for featherlightly     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Let's see... progressions show:
-my progressed sun trine his natal Venus
-my progressed moon opposition his natal sun
-my progressed moon trine his progressed moon
-my progressed sun trine his progressed sun

Does that mean my feelings fade when the progressions end?

We also have our name asteroids conjunct (including my name asteroid tightly conjunct his sun in his own natal chart). And a tight conjunction of Valentine and Amor. Psyche square Eros exact. The composite is a lot better than the synastry as well, with Sun/Venus/Mercury tightly conjunct on the descendant -- could that override the synastry?

This is the aspect grid. All those hard aspects with Venus and Jupiter :/

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posted March 07, 2012 08:09 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for ariesdragon     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Bump

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ariesdragon
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posted March 07, 2012 08:14 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for ariesdragon     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
This is interesting... More answers would be great

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Ami Anne
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posted March 07, 2012 08:21 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ami Anne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
In my opinion, this situation could not exist. I see the relationship clearly delineated in precise detail by the synastry.This goes for all relationships--friends etc.

That is my experience anyway

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posted March 07, 2012 11:15 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Capriquarius     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Ami Anne:
In my opinion, this situation could not exist. I see the relationship clearly delineated in precise detail by the synastry.This goes for all relationships--friends etc.

That is my experience anyway



I agree

Uranus/Venus-Mars = great flings/hookups, so don't get attached

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posted March 07, 2012 11:34 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ami Anne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Capriquarius:
[QUOTE]Originally posted by Ami Anne:
[b]In my opinion, this situation could not exist. I see the relationship clearly delineated in precise detail by the synastry.This goes for all relationships--friends etc.

That is my experience anyway



I agree

Uranus/Venus-Mars = great flings/hookups, so don't get attached[/B][/QUOTE]


Totally lol

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amowls**
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posted March 07, 2012 12:04 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for amowls**     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Squares =/= weak synastry. Weak synastry is when tere aren't a lot of aspects at all between you two.

And Sun trine Venus in progressions is a relationship indicator.

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posted March 07, 2012 03:12 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for starmoon     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
i had a 4 year relationship with a man and we didn't have any good aspects. the only thing we had was a one-way venus-pluto conjunction at 3 degrees. the rest of the synastry was all squares - no trines or conjunctions and only a few sextiles but with outer planets. our midpoints did nothing for each other either. i was interested in astrology at the time we were dating but not synastry - too bad, as i would have probably stayed away from him and spared myself the drama

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posted March 07, 2012 06:33 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for scrappydog     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
If the synastry is seriously lacking I usually dont feel any kind of attraction/connection to begin with, so Im going with no to your answer. BUT I have had several bad relationships with so called "good" synastry.

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posted March 08, 2012 12:12 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lioness     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Here is the synastry with me and my ex husband..
Cant really say it was GREAT! but we cared, and I know he loved me... We were together for 13 years...
I would have never left him, but the universe had another plan..

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posted March 09, 2012 04:26 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ceridwen     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by amowls**:
Squares =/= weak synastry. Weak synastry is when tere aren't a lot of aspects at all between you two.

And Sun trine Venus in progressions is a relationship indicator.


I second that!

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Nine
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posted March 09, 2012 07:29 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Nine     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Ceridwen:
I second that!

I Third that.

Far from having "unimpressive synastry" this matchup have the BIG TWO (Sun/Venus) as far as relationships/love/romance goes.

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