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Topic: What you need vs. What you want
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Melodie Newflake Posts: 6 From: USA Registered: Feb 2012
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posted March 06, 2012 05:33 PM
In relationships, do you feel like there's a discrepancy between these two areas? Personally, I need stability, practicality, and freedom. But I want intensity, romance, and possession. Care about my well-being, but don't nag. Make me feel wanted, but don't control. And so on... IP: Logged |
MertSerimer Knowflake Posts: 927 From: where the fun is Registered: Mar 2011
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posted March 06, 2012 05:37 PM
typical moon hard aspects Venus thingMoon is our need, venus is demands. Moon square venus people have problem as what you say including me.
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Capriquarius Knowflake Posts: 1386 From: So. Cal Registered: Dec 2010
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posted March 06, 2012 05:38 PM
Moon vs VenusMaybe if you're lucky, SaggiMC will hook ya up with some Basic Astrology. You can probably blame your parents or your social conditioning for instilling Venusian ideals that run contrary to your innermost nature. I have Moon in Aqua but since my parents both have drama queen Pluto (in Leo! Egads, the generation that got the world into its current economic state with its extravagance...) in the 7th, I have this ideal that romantic relationships should be Venus-in-Scorpio-esque.
So I end up attracting those with Pluto in the 7th or going through tPluto to their nVenus, or other Scorp Venuses who send my Aqua Moon bolting away. P.S. Try not to eat your feelings. It's just carbs n fat, not love. <3 IP: Logged |
athenegoddess Knowflake Posts: 951 From: Registered: Aug 2011
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posted March 06, 2012 05:39 PM
Yeah. I need comfort, emotional compatibility, and stability.But I want someone passionate, sexual, handsome, and adventurous. IP: Logged |
MertSerimer Knowflake Posts: 927 From: where the fun is Registered: Mar 2011
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posted March 06, 2012 05:40 PM
Well only solution for that is blind neptune or acting like it. A blind neptune will easily ignore one of them so you think you have both at the same time. Find a person who have moon / venus hard aspect and also a neptune
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lalalinda Moderator Posts: 2072 From: nevada Registered: Apr 2009
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posted March 06, 2012 05:46 PM
Hello Melodie! Welcome to LL IP: Logged |
Yin Moderator Posts: 2139 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted March 06, 2012 06:10 PM
quote: Originally posted by MertSerimer: typical moon hard aspects Venus thingMoon is our need, venus is demands. Moon square venus people have problem as what you say including me.
MertSerimer, will you elaborate, please? I'm seeing someone with that Moon sq. Venus aspect and would like to learn more about it. IP: Logged |
athenegoddess Knowflake Posts: 951 From: Registered: Aug 2011
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posted March 06, 2012 06:20 PM
I wouldn't say its hard aspects between moon/venus. Maybe just being in incompatible elements.IP: Logged |
Betty Boop Knowflake Posts: 2642 From: Betty Boop Land Registered: Sep 2010
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posted March 06, 2012 06:28 PM
I'm actually the other way around. I only want them when I do need them.. but sometimes even if I need them, I still don't feel like I want them.Maybe it's an NN/SN thing... NN being what you need.. and SN being what you want. For instance, when a man has Taurus Mars (conj my NN) I feel like I do -need- many of his personality traits.. but at the same time I'm completely repulsed and I do not want him. It seems difficult for me, because from my Scorpio SN perspective - Taurus Mars is 'oh so superficial'. In a relationship I only end up with men I both need and want (usually they have one or two placements in easy aspect to my nodes.. in Virgo or Capricorn)... because I run away from the ones I feel like I 'need' but don't want. Maybe this is being a karmic coward IP: Logged |
YoursTrulyAlways Knowflake Posts: 1845 From: Registered: Oct 2011
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posted March 06, 2012 08:05 PM
Need honesty, conviction, faith and a moral compass. Want intelligence, conviction, success, direction, confidence and wealth. Yes, I demand those from women. Beauty doesn't impress me. Give me a good brain any day of the week. IP: Logged |
L0veLess Knowflake Posts: 846 From: Midgard Registered: Feb 2011
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posted March 06, 2012 08:37 PM
I thought that trouble would also be associated with mars/venus aspects. I don't have any bad things between mars/venus or moon/venus but I still feel like i never get what i want and i dont want what i need because it never feels right. I think its a commonish problem that isn't really astrological. It's just the people yu do or don't meet that determine how you feel.IP: Logged |