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posted March 08, 2012 07:58 AM            

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Someone told me I had a secret admirer, and It was a guy I met 2 years ago...We dont talk at the moment and really not ever once in a blue moon...we didnt hit it off, talking to him was annoying, we argued about everything from the start, he bear hugged me on the first date and kissed me...I tried to like him because of course he was educated, smart, he was handsome, he could p1ss my parents off because he's Jewish(always that appeal..blame uranus)...but nada, zlich, nothing. I mean, the thought of him just completely repulses me to an extent I dont even understand. I was looking at our synastry and composite...
loads of Saturn squares, 5th/7th/4th house connections and even his Mars/ASC in my 5th house, and he didnt even turn me on.

I guess what Im thinking is: Have you ever been replused by someone quickly and later liked them a lot? even loved them? What did the composite/synastry show?

I dont want to go down that route because I love someone else. But I just wonder, how that works exactly. I think personally you know from the start if you like someone, especially if you know you will love someone.

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From: pluto
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posted March 08, 2012 09:46 AM            

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I think it might have to do with one's own natal chart if they are prone to make judgement or love/like a person at first few dates. For example, I am prone to having love at first sight and it has nothing got to do with looks. I just like his unique way of thinking in one case and in another, just the way he walks is attractive - smart, powerful purposeful strides etc. I must probably have that aspect that makes me prone to love at first sight for every single time.

However for my close friends, they never encounter that sorta love at first sight feelings - it is always long friendship turning into something more. So I guess, in their chart, something must be there..

I hope someone can help better..

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posted March 08, 2012 11:28 AM            

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Birdy, it happened more or less with me, my current partner did not do anything for me in the first years that i knew him as a friend, and all of a sudden that changed after 2 years or so, main aspects that plays a role with us are Saturn , hitting on a lot of personal planets, from one to the other on both sides. I was never repulsed by him so to say, but i could not imagine being in love with him and wanted him, and there we are now, it is strange, but sometimes the barriers are broken down, and saturn has them high.

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