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Topic: The Ideal Partner
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Starry~* Knowflake Posts: 344 From: New York, USA Registered: Nov 2011
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posted March 09, 2012 03:57 PM
Hey guys!I was wondering which aspects do you guys consider as important when determinining what type of partners would be suitable for you? Here's my Natal: What kind of elements/placements should I look for in a partner? For example, should I acknowledge the fact that I have my moon in libra, so therefore I should find someone with a moon that's compatible with libras? (Actually I am not too sure who Libras are more compatable with, I feel like we get along with everyone)
OR should I go with my strong stellium with venus/pluto/merc all in scorpio and find someone with scorpio placements?? Also, I noticed I have some placements in my 2nd house, I've read that placements there would make someone materialistic. I have to admit, I am, after all, you can't have love if you're constantly starving on the streets, right? I know I want someone who has a good placement in career and someone who has the money, does my saturn and my uranus in 2nd show this?? I mean, I want a guy who can buy me something nice, like a Chopard watch or drive me around in a nice Royce. Of course, things like that don't come for free, but it's nice to have those things. IP: Logged |
YoursTrulyAlways Knowflake Posts: 2174 From: Registered: Oct 2011
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posted March 09, 2012 03:59 PM
Chopards are too modest and way too common. You should go for Patek Philippes, or at least Breguet lolRolls Royces are passe. How about a Gulfstream 550 jet? You ever considered moving to Dubai or Abu Dhabi? The guy better have the most generous aspects there are. I have no idea what those are.
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Doreen Knowflake Posts: 334 From: Registered: Jun 2009
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posted March 09, 2012 04:08 PM
quote: Originally posted by Starry~*: Hey guys!I was wondering which aspects do you guys consider as important when determinining what type of partners would be suitable for you? Here's my Natal (with transits): What kind of elements/placements should I look for in a partner? For example, should I acknowledge the fact that I have my moon in libra, so therefore I should find someone with a moon that's compatible with libras? (Actually I am not too sure who Libras are more compatable with, I feel like we get along with everyone) OR should I go with my strong stellium with venus/pluto/merc all in scorpio and find someone with scorpio placements?? Also, I noticed I have some placements in my 2nd house, I've read that placements there would make someone materialistic. I have to admit, I am, after all, you can't have love if you're constantly starving on the streets, right? I know I want someone who has a good placement in career and someone who has the money, does my saturn and my uranus in 2nd show this?? I mean, I want a guy who can buy me something nice, like a Chopard watch or drive me around in a nice Royce. Of course, things like that don't come for free, but it's nice to have those things.
Your chart isn't showing up sweetie IP: Logged |
Moonfish Moderator Posts: 1813 From: Registered: Jul 2011
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posted March 09, 2012 04:11 PM
(can't see your chart) It depends what your looking for. To me the ones that stand out most are..Moon-Venus = Loving, Caring, Warm-hearted feelings Moon/Venus-Mars/Pluto = Sexual, attractive, possessive, and Obsessive Venus/Mars-Jupiter/Uranus = Fun, playful adventureous, and Lucky Sun/Moon/Venus/Mars/Jupiter-Saturn = Adds stability to a relationship, Long term. However, what works for one couple doesn't work for everyone IP: Logged |
YoursTrulyAlways Knowflake Posts: 2174 From: Registered: Oct 2011
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posted March 09, 2012 04:36 PM
I think she wants the Richard Gere character in "Pretty Woman" lol Edward Lewis is fictional IP: Logged |
Starry~* Knowflake Posts: 344 From: New York, USA Registered: Nov 2011
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posted March 09, 2012 04:36 PM
Ahh, sorry guys! I have to wait until I get home to re-upload my natal chart.Here are my aspects: Sun Moon Mars in Libra (12th house) I have a venus/pluto/mercury TIGHT stellium in the first house, all in scorpio.
I'm a scorpio rising. My 7th house is in Taurus. Does this mean I should look for a Taurean sun guy? I've noticed that I get along very well with Sag people..but as for committed relationships, it's a bit iffy. My longest relationship of 4 years was with a Sag sun guy, but he had Moon in Taurus and a Cap Venus. But that Didn't last because he was missing the career and financial aspects (He wanted to marry me) **EDIT** I think I fixed the image now, up on top. IP: Logged |
ariesdragon Moderator Posts: 2025 From: Jupiter Registered: Jan 2012
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posted March 09, 2012 05:05 PM
quote: Originally posted by YoursTrulyAlways: I think she wants the Richard Gere character in "Pretty Woman" lol Edward Lewis is fictional
Lol he was the man! Hahaha IP: Logged |
s4nd Knowflake Posts: 482 From: Registered: Feb 2012
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posted March 09, 2012 08:48 PM
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posted March 10, 2012 04:34 AM
It seems like members here are 'obsessed' with partners and relationships and not with self growth and life lessons. I'm not surprised you got few 'mickey taking' responses... It's very tiresome seeing the same thing over and over and over around here...Basic astrology forum, How to approach Synastry http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum12/private-jjLYZw161/HTML/000667.html To enter this forum you need an extra password – (astrology) ------------------ I love the parable, “If you give a man a fish, you feed him for a day, BUT if you teach him how to fish, you feed him for life.” IP: Logged |
T Knowflake Posts: 5020 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted March 10, 2012 04:48 AM
People who've done some serious research on online astro boards know that the LL astro boards are more for beginners - all of them (the different forums). Serious astrologers rarely post here and the ones who used to post here, moved on a long time ago.It's not a dig, it just is what it is. Everyone needs to start somewhere. This is a good place for people to do that. But you will get more superficial questions here. Questions that asked on other astro boards would get someone banned. It's more relaxed here. IP: Logged |
Ceridwen Moderator Posts: 2525 From: Registered: Jul 2011
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posted March 10, 2012 07:01 AM
Starry,the primary things to check: for partnership/ relationship involving possible commitment: ------------------------------- sign on DESC planets in 7th house ruler of DESC in sign and house aspects to ruler of DESC, ESPECIALLY conjunction (I only consider very tight conjunction, opposition, square and sometimes trine as meaningful here)
romantic-erotic chemistry/ that sparkly "in love feeling": ------------------- sign on the cusp of 5th house planets in 5th house ruler of 5th house in sign and house aspects to ruler of 5th house (like above)
transformative deep relationships, sexual intimacy, "merging" ------------------------- (the intensity here can sometimes get too much for people)
sign on 8th house cusp planets in 8th house ruler of 8th house in sign and house aspects to 8th house ruler. housesystem: Placidus or topocentric also check how these placements interact with your personal planets and points Sun, Moon, Venus, Mars, ASC, ruler of ASC.
If your personal planets are not compatible with your 7th house sign, you might either not like whom you are attracted to, or experience this rather as antagonism than real attraction. In this case the ruler of 7th house might be prevail in your attraction pattern (and vice versa). I am NEVER attracted to my 7th house (Gemini), as I have a stellium in Sagittarius including my 7th house ruler, so I am more inclined to the Sag-portion than Gemini (though they NEED to have strong Mercury aspects, just not Gemini).
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YoursTrulyAlways Knowflake Posts: 2174 From: Registered: Oct 2011
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posted March 10, 2012 07:26 AM
Look people. She's focused on characteristics typically not discussed among the women in this forum. The women here look for warm, loving affection and amorous adventure. She is saying that, yes, she wants all that. However, she is focused on a guy who has an excellent career that can afford to pamper her with the best material gifts. What is wrong with that? Its her preference. A bit idealistic... At least she is being fully honest. Nobody likes being broke. She wants the finer things in life. It makes her happy. This candor is refreshing and I admire it. IP: Logged | |