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Topic: I hate venus saturn aspects
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Jounia
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posted March 11, 2012 09:39 PM
  
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Originally posted by curiouswoman:
for example today, he sat right next to me and can hear him breath. caught him looking at me with his body turned fully yowards me, but was so scared that he might "offend" me that i decided not to even say hello. but I know he really likes me. i am so freaking annoyed. in fact it is a venus opposition saturn synastry aspect. i keep confusing this with his venus square saturn in his natal.
What sun/moon sign is he? just out of curiosity....
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Cynnared
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posted March 11, 2012 10:25 PM
I have the Saturn square Venus aspect with two relatives of mine. My stepfather and my half sister. I have ZERO association with my stepdad and he could care less. My half sister wanted to keep in touch but now she is way too busy to keep in touch and she gets upset if I try to keep in touch..both are Saturn and I am the Venus person. Their Saturns trigger off my Venus square to neptune and jupiter conj, where their Saturn sits on my chart.They can be cold and push me away all they want, I have decided that I am not going to settle for this kind of treatment and I will move forward with my life focusing on the ones who care about e and want me in their lives! The sister just had a baby and I don't think there is any hope in hell that I will ever get to meet my niece. So I can relate! I, too really hate Venus Saturn aspects! IP: Logged |
curiouswoman
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Registered: Sep 2011
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posted March 11, 2012 10:44 PM
cynnared I am sorry to hear that! that's awful. I think you should try to meet the niece. sometimes children bring on miraculous situations. maybe she will she see what great of an aunt you will be and then learn to losen up a bit.IP: Logged |
ShyVirgo1979
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posted March 11, 2012 11:27 PM
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Originally posted by curiouswoman:
in synatsry. it is a pain in the ass. i am venus. i feel like he keeps pushing me away wtf. thanks hun for uranus
Yes it is! I am venus too and he is saturn. If I get too close he pushes me away. Everytime. and its hurtful too  what can ya do? IP: Logged |
iliketurtles
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Registered: Nov 2010
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posted March 11, 2012 11:34 PM
i had this with someone.his venus square my saturn plus my venus conjunct his saturn and we pushed each other away all the time. we never managed to get it together. it was a frigging nightmare. hard saturn aspects mean an excersise in personal self-worth for me. i often wonder how it would have been had there been a trine or no aspects between our saturns and venuses. IP: Logged |
lilithpluto
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From: pluto
Registered: Dec 2011
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posted March 11, 2012 11:56 PM
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Originally posted by SaggiMC:
have you had to struggle financially? perhaps work hard for little recompense?Did you have an early break with mother? I have this and left home on my 16th birthday. But it's also a divorce aspect to
Struggle financially once in my life... But I'm grateful for that experience evn though I will never want to go through that again. I guess one doesn't know what they dun want until life thrust it into their life; one doesn't know what they want until they have experienced it.  Nope. No early break but our relationship ain't perfect. I love my mom but we dun really click on same wavelength - her idea of solving problems is to b emotional, cry.. the damsel in distress - Damsel in distress strategy works well only if yr man is dependable. Not to mention I never felt love as a child by her... that Children are to her just a financial blanket for the future... IP: Logged |
mercuranian
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From: the 12th house
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted March 12, 2012 12:17 AM
[QUOTE]Originally posted by lilithpluto:Nope. No early break but our relationship ain't perfect. I love my mom but we dun really click on same wavelength - her idea of solving problems is to b emotional, cry.. the damsel in distress - Damsel in
distress strategy works well only if yr man is
dependable. Not to mention I never felt love as a child by her... that Children are to her just a financial blanket for the future...
interesting. i have moon square uranus too, and could have written the above word for word.
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hannaramaa
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posted March 12, 2012 12:27 AM
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Originally posted by amowls**:
I have natal Venus square Uranus and Saturn, both exact and yeah, it's terrible. I go nuts in the beginning stages of relationships. If I feel insecure about the relationship, I get super clingy (or it seems like it to me), realize that I'm being clingy and then disappear. However, this is mostly an internal struggle and often times the person I'm dating has no idea what's going on.
I have this..... and it's worse because I think Venus square Saturn lends (well, CAN lend) an unhealthy dose of paranoia/distrust towards people. So I'm feeling all this and then I'm like "They know what's going on! They're playing games with me!" IP: Logged |
curiouswoman
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Registered: Sep 2011
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posted March 12, 2012 12:38 AM
well he has the venus squa in his natal and him and i share the venu opposition square in synastry. am i activating his paranoia or distrust towards me? I mean how can I help him with his struggle?IP: Logged |
hannaramaa
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posted March 12, 2012 01:58 AM
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Originally posted by curiouswoman:
well he has the venus squa in his natal and him and i share the venu opposition square in synastry. am i activating his paranoia or distrust towards me? I mean how can I help him with his struggle?
Speaking of what would help me... just be soothing. Give him space and time. Lots and lots of time. This aspect makes someone more "Capricornish" I think, and they need to move slow to get comfortable and figure you out. IP: Logged |
psytaurus
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posted March 12, 2012 04:54 AM
I've had with my ex. Saturn (his) opp my Venus. I sort of have this in my natal chart as well, but out of sign and 4*30 orb so I don't know how much it counts.
But in my experience, Venus wanted to please Saturn. She wanted to make him happy and wanted to make all this small gestures to show her love. Of course, Saturn being a stubborn jerk, chided her for acting silly. Naturally, Venus felt hurt and she decided to retreat. Then Saturn panicked because apparently somewhere deep, deep down he cared about Venus and he wanted her back. Things were good for a while anyway.
I also had the feeling that he viewed me in a certain way and they were expectations that I had to live up to( not Neptunian, but more like he saw my potential and he wanted me to work in that direction and I was a bit reluctant to follow his advice). He would shake his head every time I "disobeyed" him, like a disappointed parent. All in all it just took us some time to find our rhythm.IP: Logged |
curiouswoman
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Registered: Sep 2011
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posted March 12, 2012 06:53 PM
I don't mind any advice from him or what not. I just want him to be kind.IP: Logged |
jooles
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posted March 12, 2012 10:42 PM
I have the opposition with an ex. I’m the Saturn, he’s the Venus, but his Saturn trines my Venus also. The opposition can be defeating, because 1 or both can shut each other out, just in different ways. I have to admit, sometimes I just want to tell him to get his act together, but I don’t. He feels a seriousness or heaviness with me, which is laughable because the irony is, I secretly fear I lack the ability to make a commitment. I hate the opposition too because as the Saturn person, it leaves me feeling angry and frustrated. IP: Logged |
SaggiMC
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From: UK
Registered: Jan 2012
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posted March 13, 2012 03:19 PM
Basic astrology forum, Saturn aspects – brief overview http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum12/private-jjLYZw161/HTML/000694.html Saturn is the Lord of Karma and master teacher, but really he's trying to teach us about ourselves. It wants us to be responsible, hard working, dutiful and learn our Lessons properly, so they won't have to keep being repeated. Therefore, is usually suggests things slowing down, delays, limitations and restrictions so we can learn these Lessons.
What Saturn does is 'test' what is of value to you and what is working in your life. It wants structure and hard work. If something isn't working--- it may well end--- so something better can be put in it's place.
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In Astrology 2.0 forum, beginners learning astrology
http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum24/HTML/212463.html in Astrology 2.0 forum, What’s next for learning (intermediate)
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http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum24/HTML/212465.html I love the parable, “If you give a man a fish, you feed him for a day, BUT if you teach him how to fish, you feed him for life.” IP: Logged |
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