posted March 09, 2012 11:53 PM            

This guy has sun, mars, nessus, orcus in his 12th house natally. His 12th house is covered by leo.

According to synastry/house overlays my venus, nessus, and orcus from the 9th house end up in his 12th house. And, his pluto, saturn, moon and earth from his 3rd house end up in my 12th house.

What does this all mean?
I've looked through cafeastro and a few other sites but most give a brief description that seems to always have a positive slant..well kinda.

I see everyone on here as having more practical experience and so can maybe tell me how they felt in a similar circumstance, what it meant to them, how they felt, and possibly the outcome.

What does this dynamic mean? How does it affect both of us individually?

Thank you for your time.

posted March 10, 2012 12:15 AM            

Also it suggest a secret relationship,OR something about it is a secret. Something is hidden from view.

That can be in a good way or a bad way..
One person may be hiding something from the other.

posted March 10, 2012 01:20 PM            

Yeah, it's weird that no one knows about it, it seem like a teenage kinda thing. Lots of hopes no too much entrenched in reality.

posted March 10, 2012 03:42 PM              

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Please remember to reduce the orb ratio down to 40% (ONLY for synastry bi wheel) as the max orb between planets is 3'. Composite should be 85% orbs

when you get this SYNASTRY chart, please also post the *pdf file*, above left of chart look for *view additional tables (PDF)* This will bring up 2pages. Scroll down to last page for the *aspect grid* THIS is very important as it seems to show more aspects than is visible on the bi wheel…

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posted March 10, 2012 04:10 PM              

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Originally posted by Dreaming111:
Capriaquarius: Thanks for the reply. I'm interested in what you have to say about it. What was yours like, if that is you feel comfortable with me asking? If not, I completely undestand. : )

Yeah, it's weird that no one knows about it, it seem like a teenage kinda thing. Lots of hopes no too much entrenched in reality.

Both of us are struggling with our careers, so we don't need the backlash of our families at this time. Also, we're struggling with the whole r/s as well. I don't even know if it's viable to be honest. : /

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In the experience I spoke of, we had mutual Mars in each other's 12th, and my Sun in his 12th. That can be interpreted as "buried actions" or "secretive activities." You know, having sex outside of a committed public relationship. He preferred the term "lovers"(lol euphemism by the delusional/players for "dirty secret," IMO).

Basically, one or both persons are susceptible to delusions and/or feed the other BS in a 12th House relationship. Because when seen from a bird's-eye view or by a third party, it looks pretty sh*tty.

posted March 11, 2012 04:27 AM              

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Originally posted by Dreaming111:
Does my venus in his 12th mean that the love is one sided, mainly that I love him but he couldn't care less?

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posted March 11, 2012 03:12 PM              

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Originally posted by Capriquarius:
[QUOTE]Originally posted by Dreaming111:
[b]Capriaquarius: Thanks for the reply. I'm interested in what you have to say about it. What was yours like, if that is you feel comfortable with me asking? If not, I completely undestand. : )

Yeah, it's weird that no one knows about it, it seem like a teenage kinda thing. Lots of hopes no too much entrenched in reality.

Both of us are struggling with our careers, so we don't need the backlash of our families at this time. Also, we're struggling with the whole r/s as well. I don't even know if it's viable to be honest. : /

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I'm in the same situation as you, career-wise. Hang in there. It's common these days. Times are hard.

In the experience I spoke of, we had mutual Mars in each other's 12th, and my Sun in his 12th. That can be interpreted as "buried actions" or "secretive activities." You know, having sex outside of a committed public relationship. He preferred the term "lovers"(lol euphemism by the delusional/players for "dirty secret," IMO).

Basically, one or both persons are susceptible to delusions and/or feed the other BS in a 12th House relationship. Because when seen from a bird's-eye view or by a third party, it looks pretty sh*tty.

I guess I don't cope so well with 12th House matters because like you I have Saturn in the 12th....where Saturn is points to what you're uneasy with. My NN is in my 12th as well, so that House is definitely a challenge for me. I'm just not comfortable with it yet and do better when my 6th/7th House is activated.[/B]

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posted March 11, 2012 03:13 PM              

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Originally posted by Dreaming111:
Does my venus in his 12th mean that the love is one sided, mainly that I love him but he couldn't care less?

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If you want to research more into synastry try here http://cafeastrology.com/astrology_of_relationships.html http://www.cafeastrology.com/synastry/interchartaspects.html http://www.cafeastrology.com/synastry_house_overlays.html http://www.astrology-numerology.com/synastry-houses.html http://www.astrology-numerology.com/synastryaspects.html http://www.cosmitec-astrological-compatibility-advice.com/astrology-marriage.html http://www.astrologyweekly.com/forum/showthread.php?t=17513 http://www.astrotheme.com/synastry_advice.php http://www.astrology-x-files.com/synastry/ascendant.html http://astrologyfiles.com/free-horoscope-matching/ http://www.skyviewzone.com/lovematch/sunsynastryhouse.htm
Communications in synastry is very important, and this article discussed the elements involved ie: fire, earth air and water http://www.cafeastrology.com/articles/synastrymercury.html

moon/mars in synastry http://sasstrology.com/2009/12/moon-mars-in-synastry-gender-differences-and-aspect-interpretations.html

posted March 12, 2012 08:51 PM            

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posted March 12, 2012 08:54 PM            

Then I started feeling as though I was trying harder than he was.

Right now, I'm confused. lol

Sometimes I feel like he is holding back or that he's scared? But idk if that's wishful thinking. I mean, as opposed to thinking the guy just really doesn't care for you the way you do. lol Also I'm in the midst of this so I honestly cannot see clearly.