posted March 12, 2012 02:09 PM            

My 16 year old son has a new relationship with a 15 year old girl, with the complete blessing of both sets of parents. They share so incredibly much in commonm including high achievement, music, art, technology etc. They even like the same music, food, hobbies, etc.

Both are mixed, with Caucasian mothers and Asian fathers. Both speak Asian and European languages. The two mothers are the ones forcing this "arrangement" and the two fathers are more demure. Her father, who has traditionally been strict, (as in zero unsupervised boy contact and limited social media) seems to be giddy with my son and it seems all achievement based. I fear the day my son stops getting good grades lol.

They both are enamored but they also intensely fierce competitors in everything. She's ahead in violin. He's ahead in piano.

They've been out now for three supervised dates.

I don't know her birth time and its way too weird to ask, but she's Feb. 14, 1997 in Palo Alto, CA (yes, Valentine's Day, and they went out too). My son is Feb. 1, 1996 in Stamford, CT at 1:44 AM. So both have Aquarius Sun signs.

Without knowing Houses and ASC, I came up with the following Synastry aspects. I think the synastry doesn't look bad to me at all.

Sun Conjunction Mercury Orb: 3.47
Sun Conjunction Venus Orb: 2.33
Mars Conjunction Venus Orb:4.30
Jupiter Square Mars Orb: 0.55
Jupiter Square Saturn Orb: 1.23
Uranus Conjunction Jupiter Orb: 4.26
Uranus Conjunction Uranus Orb: 4.40
Uranus Conjunction Neptune Orb: 2.41
Neptune Conjunction Neptune Orb: 2.38
Pluto Trine Saturn Orb: 2.10
Pluto Conjunction Pluto Orb: 2.40

She is:
Sun Aquarius
Moon Gemini
Mercury Aquarius
Venus Aquarius
Mars Libra
Jupiter Aquarius
Saturn Aries
Uranus Aquarius
Neptune Capricorn
Pluto Sagittarius

posted March 12, 2012 04:04 PM            

I often say, "only if you like getting up and looking yourself in the mirror EVERY morning...."

Same signs tend to bring out the best and the worst.

posted March 12, 2012 05:58 PM            

really you SHOULD post both natals and syn biwheels, I don't understand WHY you are Soooooo reticent here??

if you don't know a TOB just use 12noonn or 6am... simples

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Please remember to reduce the orb ratio down to 40% (ONLY for synastry bi wheel) as the max orb between planets is 3'. Composite should be 85% orbs. Please also include, vertex, juno and POF (part of fortune)

when you get this SYNASTRY chart, please also post the *pdf file*, above left of chart look for *view additional tables (PDF)* This will bring up 2pages. Scroll down to last page for the *aspect grid* THIS IS VERY IMPORTANT AS IT SEEMS TO SHOW MORE ASPECTS THAN IS VISIBLE ON THE BI WHEEL…

problem is uploading to photobucket (or imageshack) you have to change this from Abode format into a picture/jpeg format. This is done by getting the relevant page/grid in front of you on screen then, the press ‘prtsc sysrq’ - top row inbetween pause break and F12. This has been copied to clipboard.

Paste into Paint or some other photo software. Crop the picture and save to hard drive, then upload to photobucket, select chart, press IMG and past link into thread.... all done

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posted March 13, 2012 02:16 PM            

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Originally posted by Randall:
Just a suggestion, but why don't you also post this in Personal Readings with the charts for some added insight.

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you know,if members only ever ask general questions, you will only ever get general answers. What is wrong with PR forum? nothing...

Post the charts in PR along with syn biwheel time of your choosing and don't forget to reduce the orb ratio down to 40% and VERY importantly post the syn GRID

posted March 13, 2012 02:36 PM            

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Originally posted by starmoon:
not to be a downer, but isn't 16/15 too young to be worried about synastry? especially between aquas. aqua (in my experiences) is one of the signs that needs a lot of growth and maturity in order to function well in relationships at all, so with time perhaps two aquas can work out , but at such a young age.... probably not

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But it is always good to be prepared...my Aqua girl got pregnant by an Aries lad, both at 16~

The fetus aborted itself~

posted March 13, 2012 03:01 PM            

This line of questioning is only to satisfy my curiousity as a parent, nothing more.

Nobody is marrying anybody, much less making children. They are restricted to the upteenth degree, so none of that stuff is going to happen.

Anyway, to all, forget about this.

posted March 13, 2012 04:28 PM            

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Originally posted by starmoon:
not to be a downer, but isn't 16/15 too young to be worried about synastry? especially between aquas. aqua (in my experiences) is one of the signs that needs a lot of growth and maturity in order to function well in relationships at all, so with time perhaps two aquas can work out , but at such a young age.... probably not

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posted March 13, 2012 04:29 PM            

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