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Topic: Do scorpios care once you've gone ?
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lulubunny
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posted March 12, 2012 06:45 PM
  
I'm only talking about scorpio sun or moons.. I have a scorpio moon but I want to hear YOUR thoughts  I have dated a scorpio moon male for about a year but it led to an unfortunate break up. It didn't hurt me as much as it hurt him I think  I did love him but it was strange how our relationship ended.. I lost interest and it sort of continued from that until we would walk down the street and when our eyes met NOTHING. The chemistry had faded no intensity NOTHING he is a normal person to me now and we remain distance friends making light conversation here and there because I see him at work nearly every day. Now here's the problemmo.. I'm moving soon, very far away indeed and I want to say goodbye to him because I think karma is getting me big time! I feel like I truly ended our relationship and it's eating me alive! I don't want to waste his time if he has no feelings for me. I love him. I've always loved him and will forever and I've only just realised it WILL HE CARE ONCE I'VE GONE? : ( IP: Logged |
Faith
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posted March 12, 2012 06:58 PM
I've been thinking about this a lot...why do we care so much whether or not people will remember us, if we'll never know, either way?So an old flame has a vivid dream where he is madly in love with me again. So? I'll never know. And if he has total amnesia and completely forgets how much he loved me..so? I'll never know. I choose to believe that everyone I ever loved thinks of me fondly, once in a while. It's probably true and oddly comforting.
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Moonfish
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posted March 12, 2012 07:00 PM
Scorpios see relationships as All or Nothing. For me once a relationship or friendship ends it isn't hard for me to move on :/
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Nine
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posted March 12, 2012 07:19 PM
Scorpio never forgets  I think he feels for you that same you felt for him and will always remember you. My dad has Scorpio moon and is on friendly terms with most of his exes. He's a kind of pillar everyone reaches for when they're lost or just wants to talk. Tell him how you feel. IF you want to say goodbye, and isn't trying to rekindle old feelings. IP: Logged |
SaggiMC
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posted March 12, 2012 07:36 PM
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Originally posted by Moonfish:
Scorpios see relationships as All or Nothing. For me once a relationship or friendship ends it isn't hard for me to move on :/
Just me.
ALL water signs have a hard time and job letting go of people. Still water do run deep and all If you want any kind of serious answer to your question, you may have to cast a horary chart. But I haven't seen any good horarist astrologers around here. Skyscript and astrologyweekly have good sections though. I don't have any problem letting go with uranus in 7th, in fact I'm probably the one to walk away quickly espec if a relationship is making me ill. that's it life it too short.. IP: Logged |
lulubunny
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posted March 12, 2012 07:41 PM
thanks for the replies, it really is killing me deeply :'( I can't stop thinking about what we used to have I think there's some saying like you don't know what you have until it's gone or something like that.. This truly applies for me as I am leaving. I will probably never see him again for the rest of my life IP: Logged |
Moonfish
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posted March 12, 2012 07:43 PM
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Originally posted by SaggiMC:
ALL water signs have a hard time and job letting go of people. Still water do run deep and allIf you want any kind of serious answer to your question, you may have to cast a horary chart. But I haven't seen any good horarist astrologers around here. Skyscript and astrologyweekly have good sections though. I don't have any problem letting go with uranus in 7th, in fact I'm probably the one to walk away quickly espec if a relationship is making me ill. that's it life it too short..
Like I said, that's just me
I'm not speaking for all water signs, and you shouldn't either.
Having Venus square Uranus in my chart could be the reason why IP: Logged |
tautomer4314
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Registered: Dec 2011
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posted March 12, 2012 07:50 PM
Honestly? I don't have a mean bone in my body. It's very, very hard for me to be mean, and when I am it's the result of something pretty darn justifying. Even then, I feel like I am violating a part of my soul when I am mean.As such, I honestly do care about others once I am gone. Even if I had a hate for them for a very justified reason. In the end, I just want everyone to be happy and good. In the end I care too much. Although, it is very easy for me to move on once the emotional ties are cut. I will always care, but the intensity will go away and I won't put energy into it. (I'm a scorpio moon). ------------------
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ariesdragon
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From: starcity,saskatchewan,canada
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posted March 12, 2012 08:10 PM
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Originally posted by Faith:
I've been thinking about this a lot...why do we care so much whether or not people will remember us, if we'll never know, either way?So an old flame has a vivid dream where he is madly in love with me again. So? I'll never know. And if he has total amnesia and completely forgets how much he loved me..so? I'll never know. I choose to believe that everyone I ever loved thinks of me fondly, once in a while. It's probably true and oddly
comforting.
That was almost like a poem lol
We ALL think about this & it is oddly comforting
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ariesdragon
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From: starcity,saskatchewan,canada
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posted March 12, 2012 08:13 PM
If you have his number all u gotta do is call and you'll get your answer. Just step out of your fear
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Lioness
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posted March 12, 2012 09:05 PM
I think if your gut instinct is saying this is something that you should do, then I think you should..
You have that feeling for a reason... Call him as a friend, tell him as you would tell any friend that you are moving away and you wanted to just say good bye, and wish him the best. IP: Logged |
aquaguy91
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Registered: Jan 2012
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posted March 12, 2012 09:20 PM
i think fixed signs generally have trouble forgetting, i am an aqua with taurus moon, and i have leo and scorpio who friends who have the same problem. it takes a major major betrayal for me to be done with someone, but i never forget the person.IP: Logged |
maira
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posted March 12, 2012 09:50 PM
quote:
Originally posted by Moonfish:
Scorpios see relationships as All or Nothing. For me once a relationship or friendship ends it isn't hard for me to move on :/
Just me.
This is the case for me too, I'm Pluto influenced. However, if I have been hurt and didn't get over it, the other person would never know anyway. In your case, only you can know if what you are feeling comes from a place of true compassion (he got hurt, or more hurt than you did and you feel really bad about it) or from ego (you want to be unforgettable, even if that means he will suffer lots more or you want his forgiveness in order to protect yourself from negative karma). IP: Logged |
Dreaming111
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posted March 12, 2012 09:56 PM
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Originally posted by tautomer4314:
Honestly? I don't have a mean bone in my body. It's very, very hard for me to be mean, and when I am it's the result of something pretty darn justifying. Even then, I feel like I am violating a part of my soul when I am mean.As such, I honestly do care about others once I am gone. Even if I had a hate for them for a very justified reason. In the end, I just want everyone to be happy and good. In the end I care too much. Although, it is very easy for me to move on once the emotional ties are cut. I will always care, but the intensity will go away and I won't put energy into it. (I'm a scorpio moon).
I'm scorpio moon too. I can't let go. I fee like someone who clamps down hard on someone. Even if they wronged me I always hope they cared for me, even maybe feel badly about the breakup lol...I'm also a cancer sun. I agree with all you have said. I feel that way exactly. The only time I cut people off completely is if I see no good in them, then I can cut them off with no second thoughts. I have done that. Yet, if a person shows remorse or the willingness to better themselves I will not completely cut them out. IP: Logged |
Moonfish
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posted March 12, 2012 10:31 PM
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Originally posted by maira:
This is the case for me too, I'm Pluto influenced. However, if I have been hurt and didn't get over it, the other person would never know anyway.In your case, only you can know if what you are feeling comes from a place of true compassion (he got hurt, or more hurt than you did and you feel really bad about it) or from ego (you want to be unforgettable, even if that means he will suffer lots more or you want his forgiveness in order to protect yourself from negative karma).
I can forgive :] usually it's a mutual understanding when it comes to going seperate ways IP: Logged |
FireWire
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posted March 12, 2012 11:22 PM
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Originally posted by Faith:
I choose to believe that everyone I ever loved thinks of me fondly, once in a while. It's probably true and oddly comforting.
This made me laugh...I had such an amusing visual in my head. And I mean, if you treated people nicely and respectful and made an impact on their life, you can pretty much assume they think fondly of you [when you come up]. IP: Logged |
TrueTaurus
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posted March 12, 2012 11:35 PM
It's true that a Scorpio never forgets.
I wouldn't ever get back with my ex again, but I still cherish the loving moments we had. In a way I still love him, and I tend to remember all guys I've been into like their birthdays too.
I think if he has a Scorpio Moon especially, he will appreciate your opening up about your feelings. We're all tough on the outside but we feel things deeply. If he was hurt he probably still cares. Scorpio Mooner. IP: Logged |
hannaramaa
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posted March 13, 2012 12:04 AM
Yes they'll care for a long time if you were a loyal person to them the majority of your relationship together. Now, I say "care." this is very different than to continue loving someone, which a Scorpio won't do. They do everything intensely and are very loyal (unless you screw them over by being less than noble or being underhanded unnecessarily) even after you've gone. So this guy you mentioned, as long as you were honest and straight up with him about ending the romantic relationship - yes he'll care after you've gone, but that doesn't mean it'll stop him from living his life. He won't care about anyone else the same way he cared about you because you are... the only you. Know what I mean? They know how to organize and control their feelings.IP: Logged |
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