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ScorpioSun
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posted March 16, 2012 11:35 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for ScorpioSun     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
My sun is in Scorpio, Mercury in Aries, Mars in Aquarius, and Venus in Scorpio. His sun is in Virgo, Mercury in Libra, Mars in Virgo, and Venus in Scorpio. We hit a rough patch, and we had a hard break up. We didn't do anything wrong in our relationship like cheating or anything like that. We just hit a point where we were fighting a lot, but everything else before then was super sweet. He broke it off, but he kept thing dragged on very long. We kept on having the maybe or maybe not getting back together. He started dating someone in January, and I got really angry and stunned him with my words. Now we're not on speaking terms. I'd still would like to get back together with him. I'd just like to know how...

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Faith
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posted March 16, 2012 11:40 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Faith     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Wow this gave me flashbacks to my messy break from my Virgo boyfriend, long ago.

I'm useless for giving you good astrology advice...but can you show up somewhere that he will see you, looking your best? Maybe flirting with a guy? That worked for me a few times (with the Virgo).

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ail221
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posted March 16, 2012 11:42 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for ail221     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
If he's already in a relationship with another person, I'd stay clear of that he technically already moved on.

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mintgirl123
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posted March 16, 2012 11:46 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for mintgirl123     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
What's this guy's moon?
I have a really similar chart to him, cept my venus is in libra (so is my moon).

I think what you need to do is give him space. He'll come around if he wants to. With Virgos, we don't really break up with sb just like that. It takes ALOT of back and forth weighing, thinking over things. We might give chances and stay cos of attachment, but we don't like drama. And we also don't like things that clearly aren't getting anywhere. With his venus in scorp, he might be alittle more melodramatic and into that kinda thing (more so than me), but generally... Once we cut someone off. It's kinda a done thing.

Unless we really love them, and we want to try again.

Generally when we're truly done, we're DONE. So just let him contact you. Don't try to cooerce him into anything.

^ and yeah. He's in a relationship too. Def not a good idea to get semi involved with that.

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IamLoved
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posted March 17, 2012 12:22 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for IamLoved     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by ScorpioSun:
My sun is in Scorpio, Mercury in Aries,

I didn't know that was possible ^^

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Capriquarius
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posted March 17, 2012 12:28 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Capriquarius     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Sounds like the thing ran its course and he realized it and now it's time for you to do the same. You're just crying over a band-aid that's been torn off really fast but hey the wound's scabbed over and you're ready for some new fun. Don't dwell on the past....a Scorp with Venus in Scorp is a terrible creature to waste

Girls of a certain age range are in much higher demand than dudes of any age. Enjoy your time. Have an awesome weekend without his dime-a-dozen butt.

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aquaguy91
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posted March 17, 2012 12:32 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for aquaguy91     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Capriquarius:
Sounds like the thing ran its course and he realized it and now it's time for you to do the same. You're just crying over a band-aid that's been torn off really fast but hey the wound's scanned over and you're ready for some new fun. Don't dwell on the past....a Scorp with Venus in Scorp is a terrible creature to waste

Girls of a certain age range are in much higher demand than dudes of any age. Enjoy your time. Have an awesome weekend without his dime-a-dozen butt.


haha of a certain age

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lalalinda
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posted March 17, 2012 01:18 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for lalalinda     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hello ScorpioSun! Welcome to LL

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ScorpioSun
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posted March 17, 2012 01:22 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for ScorpioSun     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Sorry, made some mistakes
My chart is
Sun Scorpio
Moon Aries
Mercury Scorpio
Venus Scorpio
Mars aquarius

His chart
Sun Virgo
Moon Aquarius
Mercury Libra
Venus Scorpio
Mars Virgo

It just felt really really odd...because one week he was really pulling me in and saying he still loves me and cares for me...he said he'll always care for me...The next week he's seeing someone else. I know it might just be my Scorpio obsessiveness talking, but it just kinda didn't make sense. I don't know. I know I should move on...I'm just having a super hard time. It's been months and I still can't let go. We were together for 2 years, and we were so love. Maybe it was just an illusion.

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ScorpioSun
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posted March 17, 2012 01:23 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for ScorpioSun     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
hello linda

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mintgirl123
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posted March 17, 2012 01:25 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for mintgirl123     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Okay yeah he is pretty similar to me since he has an air moon (though aqua moons are alot more detached).

Just let him come to you. Whatever will happen will happen if it's meant to happen. I can see that he probably thought you were intense lol. I dated a scorpy mars before, a scorpy moon and also a a scorpy rising. All of them were quite full on.

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lilithpluto
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posted March 17, 2012 01:47 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for lilithpluto     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by ScorpioSun:
Sorry, made some mistakes
My chart is
Sun Scorpio
Moon Aries
Mercury Scorpio
Venus Scorpio
Mars aquarius

His chart
Sun Virgo
Moon Aquarius
Mercury Libra
Venus Scorpio
Mars Virgo

It just felt really really odd...because one week he was really pulling me in and saying he still loves me and cares for me...he said he'll always care for me...The next week he's seeing someone else. I know it might just be my Scorpio obsessiveness talking, but it just kinda didn't make sense. I don't know. I know I should move on...I'm just having a super hard time. It's been months and I still can't let go. We were together for 2 years, and we were so love. Maybe it was just an illusion.


He said that cos he doesn't want you to move on but that doesn't mean he hasn't moved on. It's a manipulative tactic to make himself feel good, enjoy the attention, boost his ego. My ex who has a stellium of planets in Scorpio with a stellium of asteroids in Libra said exactly that to me. But when I retorted that I will move on perfectly fine dating the next man that comes along, he got mad, lost his cool n said I'll never find someone like him.

Don't let him play you at that game. Yr ex has a libra mercury, making decision is a long process for him, not to mention he loves to pretend to b diplomatic n fair. ******** I say, drag out all the raw emotions from him, make him fumble n stutter n be honest.

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mintgirl123
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posted March 17, 2012 03:40 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for mintgirl123     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I personally don't think he's manipulating her. I've said the same things in the past and meant it.

I think he's emotionally attached to her, but knows their relationship isn't ever going to work. Still, feelings isn't sth that dies, thus the whole 'he loves her' etc.

I mean he's a virgo sun and mars with scorpy venus! He's not going to get over sb that easily. Virgos are hard to get emotionally, but they fall hard when they do. Just cos he's with sb else, doesn't mean he's over her.
But obv he knows their relationship isn't going to work bc there's too much arguing.

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lilithpluto
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posted March 17, 2012 03:52 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for lilithpluto     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hi mint girl, I never said he doesn't love her...but his choice of words to her isn't appropriate. She has difficulty moving on after he said that he still loves her. Manipulation may be too strong a word but it doesn't hide the fact that she is now thinking, "maybe, perhaphs, what if..."

My suggestion above was to force the truth out of him n move on than sway between "does he love me or does he not?" mode.

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Doreen
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posted March 17, 2012 05:09 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Doreen     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by IamLoved:
I didn't know that was possible ^^

It isn't possible

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The weak can never forgive. Forgiveness is the attribute of the strong - Mahatma Gandhi

You must be the change you want to see in the world - Mahatma Gandhi

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ScorpioSun
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posted March 17, 2012 11:00 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for ScorpioSun     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
It was a confusing and frustrating situation. I ran into him a few times. He shunned me all those times, didn't even look at me in the eyes. I tried to be friendly, but he just wasn't having it. His body language and eye contact were just him trying to avoid any sort of communication with me.

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YoursTrulyAlways
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posted March 17, 2012 11:41 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for YoursTrulyAlways     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Kick his ass to the curb. He's not worth an ounce of your emotions and doesn't deserve your time or consideration.

Toss him like the used tissue he is and move on.

I'm a man btw.

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Melodie
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posted March 17, 2012 03:48 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Melodie     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
They come back when the pressures of life gets to them. If you guys were in love, he may want to seek that comfort again. But I don't think it necessarily equates to the feelings before the break-up.

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posted March 18, 2012 07:24 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for SaggiMC     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Astrology can explain lots of things, your likes, dislikes penchants, but unfortunately it cannot make anything happen, that's upto YOU. You are the captain of your ship not astrology

In the beginning of Liz Greene's (famous prolific author on astrology), “Astrology for Lover's” book there is a good chapter on What astrology can and can't do.
“Astrology is baffling because it works. What it's not is a way of foretelling the future, or of determining whether that tall dark stranger will turn up next week. To put it briefly the horoscope is a map of the psyche of the individual. it's a kind of blueprint, a seed plan, a model of the energies and drives which make up a person. Because it's calculated precisely for time and place, it's unique, unlike the sun sign column. Even identical twins are born at least four minutes apart, and in four minutes the picture has shifted.”

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Astrology can be used to help you in many ways. It can reveal damaging behavioral patterns or forewarn you of upcoming challenges. It can help you pinpoint latent talents you may possess and provide you with specific hints on how to best develop them. Astrology can also point out expansive, rewarding trends that are coming up and assist you in figuring out how to take advantage of them before they fade. Finally, astrology is an excellent means to determine the perfect timing for certain actions.

The beauty of astrology is that it will help you to always be in complete control of your life. Astrology is not fortune telling: but it is a recognition that we have free will. We know we are not controlled by the planets, but the planets do create a certain atmospheres of constriction or ease, that keeps us on our toes. Alas, you cannot blame the planets and say, for example, Saturn made me do it! The few times I have said this to an audience, most people laugh it does sound funny.

“The planets work to help us help ourselves. By applying pressure, planets help us to overcome inertia. At other times, they help us to see unproductive or even self-destructive behavior that we may have never noticed before but that we can fix. Astrologers believe we must be accountable for our actions and to recognize that we do have choices. The study of astrology will help you sort out all your options and to act at the proper time. http://www.cafeastrology.com/articles/whatastrologycandoforyou.html


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posted March 18, 2012 11:04 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for SaggiMC     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Melodie:
They come back when the pressures of life gets to them. If you guys were in love, he may want to seek that comfort again. But I don't think it necessarily equates to the feelings before the break-up.

this is the problem with water signs and scorpio in particular,they all have a hard time and job 'letting go' of people. Sad but true. It's true what they say, you don't know someone til you live with them.
My uranus n 7th wouldn't hang around having arguments that made both of us ill with arguing it would just walk away and start anew.

best of luck.

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posted March 18, 2012 11:47 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Capriquarius     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by aquaguy91:
haha of a certain age

No haha about it, it's the truth. 18~ late 20's...mostly Pluto in Scorpio nowadays

Guys of all ages, including the married ones looking to spread their oh-so-precious seed on the side, gravitate to this range.

So you can blame your dating woes on the other guys, trying to get more than their fair share, and most likely out of their league.

Capricorn hath spoken on the supply and demand of the mating market.

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YoursTrulyAlways
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posted March 18, 2012 12:38 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for YoursTrulyAlways     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
This other Capricorn opines on the intricacies of supply and demand. Flash the Benjamins and the end result is an unceasing supply of pissant flies swarming around to fulfill an insatiable demand for excrement of any vintage, whether from burritos, kung pao chicken or lasagna.

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Capriquarius
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posted March 18, 2012 01:06 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Capriquarius     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by YoursTrulyAlways:
This other Capricorn opines on the intricacies of supply and demand. Flash the Benjamins and the end result is an unceasing supply of pissant flies swarming around to fulfill an insatiable demand for excrement of any vintage, whether from burritos, kung pao chicken or lasagna.

That's what I'm saying. Guys are in lesser demand overall, that's why y'all need to flash the Benjamins to sweeten the deal. Gotta have an edge, y'know?

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YoursTrulyAlways
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posted March 18, 2012 01:22 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for YoursTrulyAlways     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
No thanks. That's why I either be with my wife, or just be by myself. I have a bargain basement opinion of Benjamin seekers.

I hang around Benjamin generators that are unimpressed by Benjamin flashers.

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Capriquarius
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posted March 18, 2012 01:25 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Capriquarius     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I'm sure they care very much for another married man's opinion.

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