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Topic: confusing situation
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meaculpa
Newflake Posts: 2
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Registered: Mar 2012
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posted March 17, 2012 03:21 AM
  
hello everybody. i am a leo sun, cancer rising and pisces moon and have been hooked on this libra sun, libra rising, taurus moon since i first saw her, one year ago. the spark seemed mutual from the beginning but i prefered to keep quiet, as we were both committed at the time. circumstances allowed us to cross paths once in a while and i couldn't help but notice that she did not lose her interest either.
two months ago i finally broke up with my partner, a cheating and emotionally abusive(in a passive way) gemini sun, aries rising - and couldn't help but tell her all about it. i have never done this sort of things in my life for i am quite secretive regarding my private life, not only because of my sexual orientation(i am bisexual), but i usually keep things very much to myself. i do not expect nothing in return from her because this connection i feel is anything but earthly, i feel a deep spiritual bonding. though i am profoundly attracted to her physically, i wouldn't dare touching her. after i told her about my ex, she confessed that she feels deeply attracted to me in return but she knows that the thing going between us is impossible for her to achieve.
it must have been hard for her to confess - venus/mars tight conj in the 12th house in virgo eros in the 12th, also moon in the 8th -. so i made the first move - as in being open about my feelings. this must have made things difficult for her since she is in a relationship. i wouldn't have said a word, but i felt that she needed to feel assured. and so she turned her back and left, without a word. i don't think she's into playing mind games. she must have got tired of the ambiguous situation which she must have enjoyed to a point where she needed something more to cling on other than her fantasies.
a couple of days ago she felt like texting me a very sweet thing. i felt confused but replied in the same manner. i don't know what to expect from her side.how should i approach her ? also, this is our davidson chart, since i've heard they're pretty much accurate: Sun Conjunction Venus 1.34
Sun Conjunction Mars 0.93
Sun Trine Neptune 1.02
Sun Sextile Pluto 3.30
Sun Quincunx Vertex 1.27
Sun Conjunction Ascendant 0.47
Venus Conjunction Mars 2.27
Venus Trine Neptune 0.31
Venus Sextile Pluto 1.97
Venus Quincunx Vertex 2.61
Venus Conjunction Ascendant 1.81
Mars Trine Jupiter 3.77
Mars Trine Neptune 1.96
Mars Sextile Pluto 4.24
Mars Quincunx True Node 0.88
Mars Quincunx Vertex 0.34
Mars Conjunction Ascendant 0.46
Neptune Sextile Pluto 2.28
Neptune Square True Node 2.83
Neptune Trine Ascendant 1.50
Lilith Trine True Node 1.42
Lilith Opposition Vertex 1.95
True Node Sextile Vertex 0.54
True Node Quincunx Ascendant 1.34
Vertex Quincunx Ascendant 0.80 IP: Logged |
TrueTaurus
Knowflake Posts: 243
From: California
Registered: Nov 2010
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posted March 17, 2012 03:26 AM
Well I think that you should let things be until she's no longer in a relationship. I don't think you'd feel right if you got between her and her guy. She probably feels appreciative of the fact that you guys have a connection, but she isn't going beyond a text or go overboard with her feelings. Who knows what her feelings are, but it's best not to get into them right now. It's the respectful thing to do.IP: Logged |
meaculpa
Newflake Posts: 2
From:
Registered: Mar 2012
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posted March 17, 2012 03:32 AM
i want to know how to approach her not in a sexual manner or anything like that, but her as a person. we have a great time hanging out, it is her presence that fills me. and it is a mutual aspect..IP: Logged |
SaggiMC
Knowflake Posts: 2637
From: UK
Registered: Jan 2012
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posted March 17, 2012 10:39 AM
data means nothing to me I need to SEE charts, to try PR forum please..In the beginning of Liz Greene's (famous prolific author on astrology), “Astrology for Lover's” book there is a good chapter on What astrology can and can't do.
“Astrology is baffling because it works. What it's not is a way of foretelling the future, or of determining whether that tall dark stranger will turn up next week. To put it briefly the horoscope is a map of the psyche of the individual. it's a kind of blueprint, a seed plan, a model of the energies and drives which make up a person. Because it's calculated precisely for time and place, it's unique, unlike the sun sign column. Even identical twins are born at least four minutes apart, and in four minutes the picture has shifted.” quote:
Astrology can be used to help you in many ways. It can reveal damaging behavioral patterns or forewarn you of upcoming challenges. It can help you pinpoint latent talents you may possess and provide you with specific hints on how to best develop them. Astrology can also point out expansive, rewarding trends that are coming up and assist you in figuring out how to take advantage of them before they fade. Finally, astrology is an excellent means to determine the perfect timing for certain actions. The beauty of astrology is that it will help you to always be in complete control of your life. Astrology is not fortune telling: but it is a recognition that we have free will. We know we are not controlled by the planets, but the planets do create a certain atmospheres of constriction or ease, that keeps us on our toes. Alas, you cannot blame the planets and say, for example, Saturn made me do it! The few times I have said this to an audience, most people laugh it does sound funny. “The planets work to help us help ourselves. By applying pressure, planets help us to overcome inertia. At other times, they help us to see unproductive or even self-destructive behavior that we may have never noticed before but that we can fix. Astrologers believe we must be accountable for our actions and to recognize that we do have choices. The study of astrology will help you sort out all your options and to act at the proper time. http://www.cafeastrology.com/articles/whatastrologycandoforyou.html
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