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Topic: synastry that can indicate deception or trying to "use" someone?
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scrappydog Knowflake Posts: 812 From: Texas Registered: May 2009
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posted March 18, 2012 09:36 PM
What would you see in the interaspects??IP: Logged |
scrappydog Knowflake Posts: 812 From: Texas Registered: May 2009
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posted March 18, 2012 09:40 PM
What about an inherant sense of distrust on the part of one person? I heard this could be caused by their planet/s falling in your 12 house? His mars-jupiter-chiron in aries falls in my 12th?? This person has not "done" anything, I just cant seem to trust them and am very suspicious of their motives...IP: Logged |
ShyVirgo1979 Knowflake Posts: 195 From: Registered: May 2011
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posted March 18, 2012 09:44 PM
Hmm....off the top of my head, venus sq neptune. Altho sometimes with that aspect its not always intentional just depends. But I'm not an expert. I have that in my natal and then if I date anyone close to my age they have the same neptune placement so my venus is sq to everyone unless they r really young or really old lol IP: Logged |
scrappydog Knowflake Posts: 812 From: Texas Registered: May 2009
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posted March 18, 2012 09:44 PM
One of my best girlfriends has her sun/merc/venus in aries that falls in my 12th too and I feel the same about her, distrustfull and like she is always trying to "use" me for something. I always feel a bit put out by these people, they seem to try to get whatever they can out of me as I am very giving, but I hate to be a sucker!IP: Logged |
ShyVirgo1979 Knowflake Posts: 195 From: Registered: May 2011
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posted March 18, 2012 09:47 PM
Do u have scorpio in ur chart by any chance? Not saying u do bc I only have uranus in scorpio and I do that as well. And sometimes its not even based on facts its just a feeling I get. I have trust issues IP: Logged |
scrappydog Knowflake Posts: 812 From: Texas Registered: May 2009
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posted March 18, 2012 09:48 PM
Shy, yes I have venus square neptune natally and I always get used. This relationship in particular he is 5 yrs older so its a tight square, my venus to his neptune. But I dated a much older man once and it was MY neptune squaring his venus and I used him for nothing, while he used me "slightly" so weird how they can flip flop.IP: Logged |
Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 29403 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010
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posted March 18, 2012 09:51 PM
Cupido cupido cupido lol------------------ Passion, Lust, Desire. Check out my journal http://www.mychristianpsychic.com/
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scrappydog Knowflake Posts: 812 From: Texas Registered: May 2009
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posted March 18, 2012 09:51 PM
I have mercury and uranus in scorp conj desc in scorp and sun conj pluto 0*. Scorpio is my 2nd srongest planet after venus. Im a female btw, I tend to attract a lot of horrible betrayal in realtionships, so i am suspicious by nature.IP: Logged |
scrappydog Knowflake Posts: 812 From: Texas Registered: May 2009
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posted March 18, 2012 09:52 PM
Ami, cupido???
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Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 29403 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010
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posted March 18, 2012 10:00 PM
LOL an asteroid. It is the look of love with nothing below it. If a man has it on his ASC_---watch out.------------------ Passion, Lust, Desire. Check out my journal http://www.mychristianpsychic.com/
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ShyVirgo1979 Knowflake Posts: 195 From: Registered: May 2011
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posted March 18, 2012 10:03 PM
Ami didn't u do a thread in the asteroid section about these 2 asteroids...umm if I rem right they r called swindle and lie? Or was that someone else I'm thinking of? Lol. Would those b a possible synastry aspect for her to look into? IP: Logged |
ShyVirgo1979 Knowflake Posts: 195 From: Registered: May 2011
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posted March 18, 2012 10:05 PM
quote: Originally posted by Ami Anne: LOL an asteroid. It is the look of love with nothing below it. If a man has it on his ASC_---watch out.
Ugh that one is a pain! LOL the guy's pic I sent u has that. Smh! Hahaha IP: Logged |
Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 29403 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010
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posted March 18, 2012 10:05 PM
quote: Originally posted by ShyVirgo1979: Ami didn't u do a thread in the asteroid section about these 2 asteroids...umm if I rem right they r called swindle and lie? Or was that someone else I'm thinking of? Lol. Would those b a possible synastry aspect for her to look into?
yep ----Swindle and lie could come in also. Don't enter any relationship without consulting your astrologer I do mean it though lol
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Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 29403 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010
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posted March 18, 2012 10:06 PM
quote: Originally posted by ShyVirgo1979: Ugh that one is a pain! LOL the guy's pic I sent u has that. Smh! Hahaha
yea --I got that vibe from him lol ------------------ Passion, Lust, Desire. Check out my journal http://www.mychristianpsychic.com/
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Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 29403 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010
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posted March 18, 2012 10:07 PM
quote: Originally posted by scrappydog: I have mercury and uranus in scorp conj desc in scorp and sun conj pluto 0*. Scorpio is my 2nd srongest planet after venus. Im a female btw, I tend to attract a lot of horrible betrayal in realtionships, so i am suspicious by nature.
What conjuncts the DSC you LOOK for in a partner. Do you look for wild and crazy yet smart
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Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 29403 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010
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posted March 18, 2012 10:08 PM
quote: Originally posted by scrappydog: Shy, yes I have venus square neptune natally and I always get used. This relationship in particular he is 5 yrs older so its a tight square, my venus to his neptune. But I dated a much older man once and it was MY neptune squaring his venus and I used him for nothing, while he used me "slightly" so weird how they can flip flop.
Wow interesting Scrappy. Thank you for sharing this. It has helped me a LOT.
------------------ Passion, Lust, Desire. Check out my journal http://www.mychristianpsychic.com/
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Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 29403 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010
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posted March 18, 2012 10:11 PM
My venus was opposed to someone's Neptune. I was so crazy about him and no one could tell me differently lol------------------ Passion, Lust, Desire. Check out my journal http://www.mychristianpsychic.com/
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ShyVirgo1979 Knowflake Posts: 195 From: Registered: May 2011
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posted March 18, 2012 10:23 PM
quote: Originally posted by Ami Anne: yea --I got that vibe from him lol
Really?? LOL that's funny to me. That doesn't surprise me at all! On one hand id love to go slap him upside his head but on the other hand I know he has lessons to learn like the rest of us *sigh* sorry off topic. Shutting up now.
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Delilah Knowflake Posts: 487 From: U.K. Registered: Sep 2010
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posted March 18, 2012 10:40 PM
Neptune in harsh aspect to anything. My Sun and Moon squared someone's Neptune and I never trusted a word he said. In the end, it hit me that he was only using me for what he thought he would be able to get out of me. He also led me on to believe that he had feelings for me, but didn't actually give a rat's a$$. IP: Logged |
scrappydog Knowflake Posts: 812 From: Texas Registered: May 2009
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posted March 18, 2012 11:41 PM
Ami, yes i look for plutonian(scorp desc/sun conj pluto)But mercury conj uranus conj scorp desc, they have to be wild, bad, exciting men. I like rebellous, iconoclasts who live outside of society and have lots of tattoos. Funny I am a female of the same order, im plutonian and my tatts and rejection of any tradition(uranus in 7th square my moon)reflect this. I have to have a "crazy" man or I just cant relate, lol. Shocking my mother has been a life long habit(moon-uranus). Uranus is also losely conj mars in sag in 7th too. This increases my attraction of these wild, unbridled men. BUT venus in 5th square neptune in 8th can get me "played" no matter how loving I am. And I am very, very emotional, But my neptune can lie to me...IP: Logged |
Lonake Moderator Posts: 6651 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted March 19, 2012 12:41 AM
venus sq pluto personal planets in the 2ndIP: Logged |
lilithpluto Knowflake Posts: 704 From: pluto Registered: Dec 2011
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posted March 19, 2012 10:24 AM
quote: Originally posted by Lonake: venus sq pluto personal planets in the 2nd
That's interesting!! why will personal planets in the 2nd house indicate that? Will you explain cos I'm learning... IP: Logged |
scrappydog Knowflake Posts: 812 From: Texas Registered: May 2009
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posted March 19, 2012 02:29 PM
I agree about the 2nd house, its your money and posessions, my x had his sum moon conj in gemini in my 2nd house and he saw me a $$$ from the very begining and used me badly. IP: Logged |
SaggiMC Knowflake Posts: 2974 From: UK Registered: Jan 2012
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posted March 19, 2012 03:41 PM
quote: Originally posted by scrappydog: What about an inherant sense of distrust on the part of one person? I heard this could be caused by their planet/s falling in your 12 house? His mars-jupiter-chiron in aries falls in my 12th?? This person has not "done" anything, I just cant seem to trust them and am very suspicious of their motives...
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SaggiMC Knowflake Posts: 2974 From: UK Registered: Jan 2012
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posted March 19, 2012 03:43 PM
quote: Originally posted by ShyVirgo1979: Ami didn't u do a thread in the asteroid section about these 2 asteroids...umm if I rem right they r called swindle and lie? Or was that someone else I'm thinking of? Lol. Would those b a possible synastry aspect for her to look into?
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