posted March 23, 2012 12:04 PM            

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Originally posted by curiouswoman:
meaning please

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posted March 23, 2012 06:23 PM            

Positive: It can be a really spiritual, deep union with both people feeling very in tune with one another. If a romantic relationship, it can be highly romantic and feel like you met your soulmate.

posted March 23, 2012 06:36 PM            

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It can be a very one sided relationship

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That's interesting. My Neptune at 5 Capricorn is exactly conjunct a guy's Sun at 5' Capricorn. I am just not interested in this guy. I don't even know why, but there is nothing about him that attracts me.
On the other hand I did feel like he was interested in me and often stares at me... but he is very reluctant to actually talk to me or get closer.

To be honest - I don't really feel like talking to him either. Whenever I say something I feel like he is criticising me mentally so that isn't much incentive for me to have a conversation
His Mercury at 12 Capricorn is exactly square my Sun at 12 Aries.
I felt the same way with a person who has their Mercury at 12 Cancer.

Maybe these transpersonal-planet aspects - just don't get to a stage where they play out - if the two people don't have enough positive aspects between their personal planets.. and in particular Mercury.
I find that without Mercury aspects - you just can't talk to each other - & How can you even start a friendship, let alone a rel - if you can't talk?
Mercury is very important!

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prefer to see them as some inflated notion you have of them.

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hmmm I can kind of see this... but our inflated notions of each other were very negative.. and now - a year after we first met - as time went on.. things became neutral, rather than negative. But it does not feel positive.

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I remembered something else typing this. There is a poster on LL who doesn't post much anymore who is also a Capricorn with his Sun on my Neptune. When he first joined I had a strange reaction to him (he was a bit mean to me as well) and I did imagine some things about him – negative things - that were untrue. I think he also projected some negative things onto me due to past negative-experiences with people who had a similar astro-makeup.
As time went on our LL-relationship became positive rather than neutral. I don't really speak to him now since he doesn't engage much.. but I definitely have positive feelings towards him - nothing negative… and I wouldn’t call it neutral either because I actually –like- his personality.
This was still not romantic in vibe... although I guess online its rarely romantic, so maybe it doesn't count so much.

I don't know of anyone else I shared this aspect with.

PS. I should add... his ^^ Mercury is in Sagittarius.. and not square my Sun. So that makes a difference.

posted March 23, 2012 06:52 PM            

Although, I know a handful of couples who don't speak the same language. Having Mercury in Sagittarius as chart ruler, I will never understand how they communicate about practical matters or connect with each other when they can't freely communicate on the verbal level.

posted March 23, 2012 06:56 PM            

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Originally posted by Betty Boop:
hmmm I can kind of see this... but our inflated notions of each other were very negative.. and now - a year after we first met - as time went on.. things became neutral, rather than negative. But it does not feel positive.

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I remembered something else typing this. There is a poster on LL who doesn't post much anymore who is also a Capricorn with his Sun on my Neptune. When he first joined I had a strange reaction to him (he was a bit mean to me as well) and I did imagine some things about him – negative things - that were untrue. I think he also projected some negative things onto me due to past negative-experiences with people who had a similar astro-makeup.
As time went on our LL-relationship became positive rather than neutral. I don't really speak to him now since he doesn't engage much.. but I definitely have positive feelings towards him - nothing negative… and I wouldn’t call it neutral either because I actually –like- his personality.
This was still not romantic in vibe... although I guess online its rarely romantic, so maybe it doesn't count so much.

I don't know of anyone else I shared this aspect with.

:edit: BUT I should add... his ^^ Mercury is in Sagittarius.. and not square my Sun. So that makes a difference.

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He probably has a crush on you.

Mercury square sun is a tough one. It's exactly how you described it. I had this with someone I was close to and we BOTH felt that way (I was the mercury). So he may feel that way too and feel reluctant to talk to you.

Neptune in hard aspect to a personal planet can cause any kind of projections, a lot of times it's inflated as good, but sometimes it goes the other way and you imagine the other person as inherently bad, whether they are or not. Neptune can cause people to be deluded and it can play out as the person on a pedestal or the person is no good. It's the natural ruler of the 12th house of secret enemies and undoing as well as deep connections and unconditional love and spirituality. It can cut both ways.