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Dreaming111
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posted March 23, 2012 12:52 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Dreaming111     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
What does that mean?

The person would dislike or be let down by another's physical appearance?

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posted March 23, 2012 01:25 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Sounds about right. Neptune brings fantasies, often followed by disillusionment because this plane can't meet those boundless dreams.

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posted March 23, 2012 04:41 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ami Anne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Is this synastry. Please explain who is whom. Thanks!

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posted March 23, 2012 12:03 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Dreaming111:
What does that mean?

The person would dislike or be let down by another's physical appearance?


from my thread in Basic forum on synastry...

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Ascendant Synastry Aspects
The ascendant is not a planet; it is the first degree of the first house. When one partner’s ascendant makes an aspect to a planet in the other partner’s chart, it does not generate the same energy or tension that a planet-to-planet aspect does. But it is always important. What is more, aspects to the ascendant cannot be separated from the house the aspecting planet is in. For example, a Partner A’s Uranus in a square to Partner B’s ascendant will have a different effect depending on whether it is from around the midheaven or medium coeli (tenth to ninth house) or the immum coeli (fourth house).
Ascendant-Ascendant. Similarity of personalities, vitality and approach to life. Peace and contentment, or strong attraction or rivalry.

Ascendant to Midheaven. Shared goals and career objectives. Rivals or teammates.

Ascendant to Sun. Intellectual and physical compatibility. The sun person energizes the ASC person. Hard aspects strengthen the sun person’s influence in key areas of the ASC person’s life.

Ascendant to Moon. Familiarity and a sense of security. Both partners feel comfortable in each other’s presence. If negative: emotional clashes.

Ascendant-Mercury. Excellent communication. Mercury opens the ASC person to change and new ideas.

Ascendant to Venus. Mutual attraction, love and friendliness. Comfort and luxury. Fond of good times together.

Ascendant to Mars. Strong motivation. Heightened sexual energy. Rivalry and quarrels. The negative aspects cause disruption in the house involved.

Ascendant to Jupiter. Drama, humor and confidence. Blowing things out of proportion or taking foolish risks. Jupiter boosts the ASC person’s faith in him- or herself.

Ascendant to Saturn. A mature, committed partnership. Stability and structure. If negative, Saturn can severely limit ASC’s self-expression. Also restrictions in the house occupied by Saturn in the ASC person’s chart.

Ascendant to Uranus. A dynamic, earth-shaking influence. Uranus knocks ASC off his or her feet, but craves freedom. An exciting but short-lived affair, but look to other aspects.

Ascendant to Neptune. Deception or confusion between the partners. One puts the other on a pedestal. Romance and over-idealism.

Ascendant to Pluto. Compulsive, controlling behavior. Pluto is jealous, domineering and perhaps manipulative.

Midheaven Synastry Aspects
These aspects affect the career, ambition and public life of the person whose midheaven is aspected by the other person’s planet(s). Midheaven inter-aspects are especially important for business relationships. But they are important for all kinds of relationships. If you are a very career-oriented person, consider these aspects to see how your partner can impact your work and goals. Midheaven aspects affect our lives beyond career as well. The MC shows what one aspires to. When your partner aspects your midheaven, it has an effect on your aspirations and sense of direction in life.

Midheaven to Sun. Shared ambitions and career objectives. The sun person supports the MC person in their pursuit of their goals – or opposes it. The sun’s influence in its house position is strengthened.

Midheaven to Moon. Similar aspirations. The moon person is attached to the MC person’s work and public life. May draw attention to the couple or bring their private affairs out into the open.

Midheaven to Mercury. Helpful and active. May encourage frequent change of direction in work and relationships.

Midheaven to Venus. Good for business and public relations. The Venus person can help enhance the MC person’s public image. Can attract good friends.

Midheaven to Mars. Leadership. Mars will encourage the MC person to achieve career goals – or stand in the way.

Midheaven to Jupiter. Ambition. Jupiter helps the MC person realize his or her career goals. May bring positive influences.

Midheaven to Saturn. Dedication to hard work. Saturn makes the partner work hard for everything. Success comes to the MC person through persistence and determination. Saturn gives solid support.

Midheaven to Uranus. A radical change in career objectives. Uranus can open new doors of opportunity that MC never thought of as possible. But Uranus’ erratic behavior can cause problems for MC.

Midheaven to Neptune. Idealism. Neptune may bring uncertainty to MC, causing the latter to question his or her purpose in life. Good for spiritually minded people although there is danger of deception and lack of focus.

Midheaven to Pluto. Shared love of power and control. These two will plan for world conquest. There is danger of trying to manipulate each other and others to get them out of the way. http://www.astrologyfiles.com/free-horoscope-matching/



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posted April 11, 2012 11:46 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Dreaming111     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I was the Ascendant and his neptune was semisquare to my ascendant.

When I first saw who he was I was a tad disappointed as his profile picture looked not much but slightly different. Also he had a gap in his teeth and he was losing hair. I knew of none of these things before...

Eventually though I got over it and cared for him even more since those were his vulnerabilities.

However, Because I'm the ascendant isn't he supposed to be disappointed with me?
I'm confused.

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posted April 11, 2012 10:05 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Nine     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I think it could go both ways.

1. The Asc person sees Neptune, or whatever image Neptune projects of himself.

2. Neptune sees what Neptune wants to see, and projects their own idealized image onto the Asc person.

Sounds like in your case it was scenario #1.

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posted April 11, 2012 10:18 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for ariesdragon     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Midheaven to Mars. Leadership. Mars will encourage the MC person to achieve career goals – or stand in the way.

I experienced this one and it was that the person stood in my way. Why is it either or? Some people experience it positively in their chart and some don't. Again I guess the whole chart needs to be taken into account. Maybe the person's mars was afflicted with hard aspects in their natal.

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posted April 11, 2012 10:58 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Dreaming111     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Nine:
I think it could go both ways.

1. The Asc person sees Neptune, or whatever image Neptune projects of himself.

2. Neptune sees what Neptune wants to see, and projects their own idealized image onto the Asc person.

Sounds like in your case it was scenario #1.


Yet even when I found out, it honestly didn't matter after. I mean, I genuinely loved him and I loved him more for his vulnerabilities. I used to tell him that I would kiss his bald spot. hehe. I would. I guess I wanted to be the girl that he felt safe and secure with. That superficial aspects wouldn't affect anything. Unfortunately, he was very shallow and superficial toward himself and others. Some people are not ready to be loved. Some may never be.

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posted April 11, 2012 11:05 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for ariesdragon     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Dreaming111:
Yet even when I found out, it honestly didn't matter after. I mean, I genuinely loved him and I loved him more for his vulnerabilities. I used to tell him that I would kiss his bald spot. hehe. I would. I guess I wanted to be the girl that he felt safe and secure with. That superficial aspects wouldn't affect anything. Unfortunately, he was very shallow and superficial toward himself and others. Some people are not ready to be loved. Some may never be.

sorry to hear that dreaming awww sounds like an emotionally immature dude. You should have put some saliva on that bald head then wiped it with your sleeve and said "nice and shiny until I'm gone."

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posted April 12, 2012 12:25 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Dreaming111     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by ariesdragon:
sorry to hear that dreaming awww sounds like an emotionally immature dude. You should have put some saliva on that bald head then wiped it with your sleeve and said "nice and shiny until I'm gone."

You know, I just finished crying over him, when I came upon your post. It cracked me up. lol... You seriously made my night. Thank you for adding humor to my clouded and crazy outlook.

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posted April 12, 2012 01:37 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for CosmicKarma360     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Dreaming111:
Yet even when I found out, it honestly didn't matter after. I mean, I genuinely loved him and I loved him more for his vulnerabilities. I used to tell him that I would kiss his bald spot. hehe. I would. I guess I wanted to be the girl that he felt safe and secure with. That superficial aspects wouldn't affect anything. Unfortunately, he was very shallow and superficial toward himself and others. Some people are not ready to be loved. Some may never be.

Oh gosh, I know of a similar situation. He was Neptune, and She was ASC. His Neptune squared her ASC. It didn't work out. In the end, she felt he wasn't over his Ex. The big attraction on his end seemed to be that she reminded him of his Ex. He wanted her to be someone else. Neptune illusion, no doubt.

She also loved him for his vulnerabilities, and wanted to be His One. For whatever reason, he couldn't accept her in that way. He can be pretty immature and shallow. Yeah, it can take some people a long time to grow up.

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posted April 12, 2012 11:29 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Dreaming111     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by CosmicKarma360:
Oh gosh, I know of a similar situation. He was Neptune, and She was ASC. His Neptune squared her ASC. It didn't work out. In the end, she felt he wasn't over his Ex. The big attraction on his end seemed to be that she reminded him of his Ex. He wanted her to be someone else. Neptune illusion, no doubt.

She also loved him for his vulnerabilities, and wanted to be His One. For whatever reason, he couldn't accept her in that way. He can be pretty immature and shallow. Yeah, it can take some people a long time to grow up.


Yeah he used to compare me to his first love. She liked this too. She said this too. Eventually I got really upset and told him that I'M NOT HER!!

Anyway, there were so many issues he had. I can't begin to unpeel the onion.Sadly it was my first time falling for someone so I didn't realize what was going on...until it was too late. It's ok though we all learn and grow from these experiences.

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posted April 12, 2012 02:54 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for ariesdragon     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Dreaming111:
Yeah he used to compare me to his first love. She liked this too. She said this too. Eventually I got really upset and told him that I'M NOT HER!!

Anyway, there were so many issues he had. I can't begin to unpeel the onion.Sadly it was my first time falling for someone so I didn't realize what was going on...until it was too late. It's ok though we all learn and grow from these experiences.


Anytime dreaming and I know exactly what that feels like... http://youtu.be/veoemJ5yCSE
He's just a bald old man with no direction and if his ex is so great he'd be with her.

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posted June 06, 2012 10:15 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Dreaming111     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Thank you aries.
Big hug for you. hehe

I getting better day by day at moving on. Gosh it's hard, but that's how it goes huh?

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posted January 03, 2016 08:50 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for ChildofVenus     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
They Neptune person would be let down by the ascendant persons appearance? I have this aspect with someone he's the Neptune person. The guy hasn't said that he doesn't find me physically attractive.

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posted January 05, 2016 06:30 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Moving to Interpersonal Astrology.

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