posted March 25, 2012 03:04 PM            

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Originally posted by Lonake:
What's his mars doing natally + how is he handling it.
The on edge sounds more like mars in 4th conj moon, not the saturn.
But if he has the conj that could lead to him feeling like a taskmaster when you need understanding/concern.

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posted March 25, 2012 05:05 PM            

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Originally posted by Lonake:
What's his mars doing natally + how is he handling it.
The on edge sounds more like mars in 4th conj moon, not the saturn.
But if he has the conj that could lead to him feeling like a taskmaster when you need understanding/concern.

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posted March 25, 2012 05:52 PM            

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Originally posted by scrappydog:
Wow im going though something simular...Our moons are conjunct in cappy and we also have my nn conj his desc 0*. But he has a natal mars in aries opposition pluto in libra, so my moon is in the middle squaring his mars and pluto. My saturn squares his moon. I agree that this does not make u feel on edge, it is very binding, I tend to have moon saturn aspects with everyone I have very long, serious relationships with, even the square. In fact there are several I can never fully get rid of, lol. The "edge" is comong from mars. Whats his or your pluto doing?? That can definately create an edge, sometimes even a slight fear or threat response.

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How are you working through this with your sweetheart? I'm trying to figure out how to make these hard aspects work for me but it's challenging.

As for pluto, we both have strong plutos. My saturn conjuncts his pluto, which I def feel. I feel often like he doesn't take life seriously enough (particularly doesn't take personal growth seriously enough). I try to make him stick to what he says he's going to do.

I forgot to mention that his neptune and uranus also conjunct my moon. My poor moon conjuncts his mars, saturn, neptune, uranus and his MC. It's too much!

posted March 25, 2012 07:59 PM            

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Originally posted by scrappydog:
Yes it sounds like ur poor moon is really being "battered" by all those conjunctions to his powerful planets. Is the pluto conj saturn the only main pluto interaspect??
With my relationship it is intense and obsesssive and exciting, but he is very domineering towards me and that kinda puts me on edge. But his pluto is closely squaring my moon and my natal sun pluto conj 1* falls in his 8th house and squares his venus. My pluto also trines his mercury and semi squares his sun. My mars opposes his sun 2*. His mars squares my moon. Oh girl its intense...So his mars and pluto has major aspects with my planets and my mars and pluto has major aspects with his. Our cappy moons are also conj in my 8th, damn...but I like it! Then again we are both plutonian natally so idk.

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We have other pluto stuff (my pluto opposite his venus and jupiter; my pluto sextile his saturn, uranus and MC; my pluto trine is chiron; his pluto sextile my moon; his pluto opposite my mercury; his pluto sextile my jupiter) but I don't think the other pluto connections bother me as much as all of his planets hitting my moon.