posted March 24, 2012 05:09 PM            

This might be a dumb question, but what in a chart symbolizes someone who is..perhaps romantically (and to a lesser extent socially) "expendable" for lack of a better word or description? Someone, who for some reason, just always has their time wasted by others for long periods (weeks, months) with no real life lesson at the end. I mean, maybe it is better exemplified in a synastry or something. But maybe something in the natal points towards your time jut being..sucked, so to speak. I feel like if I had back half the time others have sucked up or used up, I probably could have gotten a phd or something!

Just prone to having my time wasted.

posted March 24, 2012 06:34 PM            

It may be Echo. This was my first thought.

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posted March 24, 2012 08:20 PM            

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Originally posted by carl:
I guess I should say that if I spend long periods of time with someone and then they suddenly leave and in reflection, realize I didn't get anything valuable out of it, I get sooo annoyed. Like, what a waste of time!

This might be a dumb question, but what in a chart symbolizes someone who is..perhaps romantically (and to a lesser extent socially) "expendable" for lack of a better word or description? Someone, who for some reason, just always has their time wasted by others for long periods (weeks, months) with no real life lesson at the end. I mean, maybe it is better exemplified in a synastry or something. But maybe something in the natal points towards your time jut being..sucked, so to speak. I feel like if I had back half the time others have sucked up or used up, I probably could have gotten a phd or something!

Just prone to having my time wasted.

I hope this somehow makes sense. I am not sure the words above describe what I had in mind but can not quite explain it.

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posted March 24, 2012 08:22 PM            

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Originally posted by carl:
I guess I should say that if I spend long periods of time with someone and then they suddenly leave and in reflection, realize I didn't get anything valuable out of it, I get sooo annoyed. Like, what a waste of time!

This might be a dumb question, but what in a chart symbolizes someone who is..perhaps romantically (and to a lesser extent socially) "expendable" for lack of a better word or description? Someone, who for some reason, just always has their time wasted by others for long periods (weeks, months) with no real life lesson at the end. I mean, maybe it is better exemplified in a synastry or something. But maybe something in the natal points towards your time jut being..sucked, so to speak. I feel like if I had back half the time others have sucked up or used up, I probably could have gotten a phd or something!

Just prone to having my time wasted.

I hope this somehow makes sense. I am not sure the words above describe what I had in mind but can not quite explain it.

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posted March 24, 2012 08:24 PM            

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Originally posted by carl:
sun conjucts saturn
mars sextiles saturn
Asc sextile saturn and
MC conjuct saturn
IC opposite saturn

echo in scorpio (H9) conjuct sun, sextile jupiter
hekkate (H6) in cancer and opp. asc, trine sun trine saturn
kaali (H1) in aquarius and square sun, sextile uranus, square echo

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posted March 24, 2012 08:35 PM            

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Originally posted by carl:
sun conjucts saturn 4°04
mars sextiles saturn 4°44
Asc sextile saturn and 4°18
MC conjuct saturn 1°10
IC opposite saturn 1°10

echo in scorpio (H9) conjuct sun 3°04, sextile jupiter 1°83
hekkate (H6) in cancer and opp. asc 3°05, trine sun 3°17 trine saturn 0°87, trine MC 0°23
kaali (H1) in aquarius and square sun 0°75, sextile uranus 1°48, square echo 2°21

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posted March 24, 2012 08:39 PM            

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Originally posted by aquaguy91:
you sound like me! do you have an afflicted venus? mine squares mars,the moon,uranus,and pluto and asteroid swindle exact,and exactly quincunxes chiron. i can totally relate to what you said,most of the girls i been involved with act all lovey dovey with me one day and than completely dissapear the next without explanation and after i have wasted,a day a week or a month or 6 months,they just act as if i was trash to them,and all i can think is "Geeze,and women call men players! " thats why i have given up hope in relationships, i get nothing out of them except heartaches and headaches.

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Not just girls but just friends too. I've had two solid relationships that did not end up in what I feel is, wasted time. well, one of them I feel that way a little, but I learned a lot at least

Venus (sag, H11) just trines (@ 0°47) moon for me.

posted March 24, 2012 08:39 PM            

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Originally posted by aquaguy91:
you sound like me! do you have an afflicted venus? mine squares mars,the moon,uranus,and pluto and asteroid swindle exact,and exactly quincunxes chiron. i can totally relate to what you said,most of the girls i been involved with act all lovey dovey with me one day and than completely dissapear the next without explanation and after i have wasted,a day a week or a month or 6 months,they just act as if i was trash to them,and all i can think is "Geeze,and women call men players! " thats why i have given up hope in relationships, i get nothing out of them except heartaches and headaches.

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Not just girls but just friends too. I've had two solid relationships that did not end up in what I feel is, wasted time. well, one of them I feel that way a little, but I learned a lot at least

Venus (sag, H11) just trines (@ 0°47) moon for me.

posted March 24, 2012 08:47 PM            

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Originally posted by carl:
Not just girls but just friends too. I've had two solid relationships that did not end up in what I feel is, wasted time. well, one of them I feel that way a little, but I learned a lot at least

Venus (sag, H11) just trines (@ 0°47) moon for me.

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posted March 24, 2012 08:52 PM            

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Originally posted by Betty Boop:
lmao Ami

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posted March 24, 2012 09:56 PM            

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Someone, who for some reason, just always has their time wasted by others for long periods (weeks, months) with no real life lesson at the end.

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A person with strong Capricorn would feel this way. I say this knowing you have Capricorn prominent.

posted March 24, 2012 10:19 PM            

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Originally posted by aquaguy91:
you sound like me! do you have an afflicted venus? mine squares mars,the moon,uranus,and pluto and asteroid swindle exact,and exactly quincunxes chiron. i can totally relate to what you said,most of the girls i been involved with act all lovey dovey with me one day and than completely dissapear the next without explanation and after i have wasted,a day a week or a month or 6 months,they just act as if i was trash to them,and all i can think is "Geeze,and women call men players! " thats why i have given up hope in relationships, i get nothing out of them except heartaches and headaches.

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posted March 24, 2012 10:24 PM            

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Originally posted by Libreo:
[QUOTE]Originally posted by aquaguy91:
[b] you sound like me! do you have an afflicted venus? mine squares mars,the moon,uranus,and pluto and asteroid swindle exact,and exactly quincunxes chiron. i can totally relate to what you said,most of the girls i been involved with act all lovey dovey with me one day and than completely dissapear the next without explanation and after i have wasted,a day a week or a month or 6 months,they just act as if i was trash to them,and all i can think is "Geeze,and women call men players! " thats why i have given up hope in relationships, i get nothing out of them except heartaches and headaches.

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posted March 24, 2012 11:36 PM            

If I may ask, how to you feel about traveling? What's been your experience?

How do you feel about driving, transportation, etc.?

It could just be Timing. You're trying to juggle and compartmentalize a lot of things which could be left to a Higher Power. The Devil's in the details, so let a Higher Power deal with the details while you work on feeling comfortable with Timing. You might have a better chance of appreciating a good moment now and then.

You'll know when your timing is correct when you experience a lot of synchronicities, and they don't have to be noticed or experienced by anyone but you. A big part of synchronicity is understanding that it's not something you alone control.

Also, society has put an enormous amount of pressure on everyone to be in a "relationship". Some people who look like they don't need anyone can actually be the most needy. Maybe they don't know how to express their needs. Try not to be over-confident in fulfilling what you think their needs are.

Slow your pace just a tad. It may feel uncomfortable at first, it may even make you feel vulnerable at first.

The subliminal messages that reach you is also a matter of what you filter in, or filter out. Not everyone's purpose here is to be in one of those "relationships". Your purpose may be more Spritual, requiring a transcendence of certain assumptions we seem to want so badly to live by.

In addition to the questions above, do you consider yourself to be unconventional? You sound as if you may be super ambitious, do you think you are?

posted March 24, 2012 11:50 PM            

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Originally posted by carl:
I guess I should say that if I spend long periods of time with someone and then they suddenly leave and in reflection, realize I didn't get anything valuable out of it, I get sooo annoyed. Like, what a waste of time!

This might be a dumb question, but what in a chart symbolizes someone who is..perhaps romantically (and to a lesser extent socially) "expendable" for lack of a better word or description? Someone, who for some reason, just always has their time wasted by others for long periods (weeks, months) with no real life lesson at the end. I mean, maybe it is better exemplified in a synastry or something. But maybe something in the natal points towards your time jut being..sucked, so to speak. I feel like if I had back half the time others have sucked up or used up, I probably could have gotten a phd or something!

Just prone to having my time wasted.

I hope this somehow makes sense. I am not sure the words above describe what I had in mind but can not quite explain it.

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Maybe You aren't noticing the purpose that they serve in life. There is never any random relationships or events, they are there and you have to find out why you brought them there or why they came to you.

And please don't use the words, "I am so Sick". Don't bring the downfall upon yourself. Try to get better.