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Topic: When you have Pluto in H7!
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Lioness Knowflake Posts: 4366 From: Registered: Mar 2010
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posted March 27, 2012 08:14 PM
When you have Pluto in H7... For me...My relationships are also pluto themed.. But Im for the most part use to it. I dont get into the power struggles so much. But the energy is still there. Maybe more so for the other person than myself. Im usually not possessive or get into obsessive type of relationships.. They may not be all that healthy BUT each one is a learning experience,that changes my views on relationships...But recently I have been having pluto knock me in my azz. MY BF of 20 years accidently texted me talking about me... I got really upset and ended the friendship. I feel used and abused.. I guess you shouldnt do favors for people,cuz in the long run they just turn on you. Now Pisces confess that he wants to control me, and for me to do what he says. Euhhh He said just when I think your FINALLY listening to me, you run off and do the opposite IDK.. Its like he wants to prove he's manly.. But I dont see him as feminine at all... He also said he gets mad when I talk to other men, and that I "belong" to him and no other man, needs to be talking to his "stuff" All of this just bites Well I dont know what to say..
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ariesdragon Moderator Posts: 1937 From: Jupiter Registered: Jan 2012
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posted March 27, 2012 08:23 PM
awww hugs sorry to hear about ur backstabber so called friend. IP: Logged |
Lioness Knowflake Posts: 4366 From: Registered: Mar 2010
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posted March 27, 2012 10:56 PM
Thanks. Im having a really hard time with things right now.. I just dont know where or who to turn to.. Everything is just upside down... Im feeling done with everyone in my life..
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popcorn Knowflake Posts: 2656 From: Registered: Aug 2009
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posted March 27, 2012 11:05 PM
(((((He also said he gets mad when I talk to other men, and that I "belong" to him and no other man, needs to be talking to his "stuff"))))Hahahaha..Thats fun ..lol play the same .... IP: Logged |
popcorn Knowflake Posts: 2656 From: Registered: Aug 2009
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posted March 27, 2012 11:08 PM
and he will run IP: Logged |
Lioness Knowflake Posts: 4366 From: Registered: Mar 2010
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posted March 27, 2012 11:22 PM
quote: Originally posted by popcorn: and he will run
Not sure what you mean? But I talked it out with him.. Im the only female mgr in the building, I HAVE to talk to other men... He's really jealous of one guy specific.. IDK why.. The dudes not my type AT ALL. He just say's I dont want no one messing with my stuff... lol... I guess he's feeling the Pluto.. IP: Logged |
mercuranian Knowflake Posts: 436 From: the 12th house Registered: Apr 2009
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posted March 27, 2012 11:33 PM
i think popcorn means tell him he's not allowed to speak with other women because he's your propertyIP: Logged |
popcorn Knowflake Posts: 2656 From: Registered: Aug 2009
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posted March 28, 2012 12:44 AM
quote: Originally posted by mercuranian: i think popcorn means tell him he's not allowed to speak with other women because he's your property
. exactly what I mean. That works. I know because I did so once a time when I met a ...completely strange control man ..lol.. He was out of my life quick IP: Logged |
Lonake Moderator Posts: 6787 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted March 28, 2012 04:57 AM
quote: Originally posted by Lioness: Now Pisces confess that he wants to control me, and for me to do what he says. Euhhh
That's always guaranteed to get a girl hot lol. Some things men say smh when they want to hold on to women. I just don't understand.IP: Logged |
YoursTrulyAlways Knowflake Posts: 2172 From: Registered: Oct 2011
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posted March 28, 2012 05:23 AM
Well, I have my Pluto in 7th House as well in Virgo. My Leo wife definitely sees me as her exclusive property and there is significant control from her end. She likes to feel manly. To be clear, she pre-approves all women I'm allowed to talk to. But in the end, I yield and it all works well. IP: Logged |
Lioness Knowflake Posts: 4366 From: Registered: Mar 2010
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posted March 28, 2012 07:41 PM
quote: Originally posted by Lonake: [QUOTE]Originally posted by Lioness: [b]Now Pisces confess that he wants to control me, and for me to do what he says. Euhhh
That's always guaranteed to get a girl hot lol. Some things men say smh when they want to hold on to women. I just don't understand.[/B][/QUOTE]Maybe it sounds crazy, Maybe its pluto in H7. But Im use to it. He wants to control me.. But he doesnt. He knows he cant.. I talk to him, and mellow him out,and it seems to work... He's not telling me not to talk to them.. Just that it bothers him... But I gave him the reassurance that he was seeking,so he left it alone. IP: Logged |