posted March 28, 2012 05:41 PM            

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Originally posted by fairaqua:
I know when I had crushes I would always watch them or sneek peeks. If they caught me looking Id act like I wasnt even looking at them.

When you catch him looking at you immediatly smile and say "Hi! How are you?"
Gradually build up talking to him..
I wouldnt corner him in a lot of small talk because it might freak him out. Unless you can genuinely speak on a subject hes interested in (say you caught his favorite footballs team game, and under stand the game) Id keep idle chatter down to a minimum at first.
If hes interested Ill bet hell stumbles over a few awkward subjects for yall to relate on.
...but maybe that is just how I roll

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posted March 28, 2012 05:47 PM            

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Originally posted by fairaqua:
I know when I had crushes I would always watch them or sneek peeks. If they caught me looking Id act like I wasnt even looking at them.

When you catch him looking at you immediatly smile and say "Hi! How are you?"
Gradually build up talking to him..
I wouldnt corner him in a lot of small talk because it might freak him out. Unless you can genuinely speak on a subject hes interested in (say you caught his favorite footballs team game, and under stand the game) Id keep idle chatter down to a minimum at first.
If hes interested Ill bet hell stumbles over a few awkward subjects for yall to relate on.
...but maybe that is just how I roll

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posted March 28, 2012 05:50 PM            

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Originally posted by violet7887:
Thanks fairaqua. Yes if i ever see him again i'll def try the "Hi, how are you?" bit but thats exactly it, I know nothing about him, lol I wouldnt know what to say after that. All the times i've waved hi to him before or stopped him to ask a question about something, he just asnwers it and walks off...which really has me thinking... if it was meant to work out it would on its own..if he actually wanted to talk he would make an effort.

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Exactly my thoughts. None of this "He's SHY" BS

posted March 28, 2012 06:00 PM            

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Originally posted by hannaramaa:
Exactly my thoughts. None of this "He's SHY" BS

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posted March 28, 2012 06:00 PM            

But anyways
I know Im way more comfortable and open to talking to a person I have no interest in..
So, I think hes somewhat interested

posted March 28, 2012 06:06 PM            

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Originally posted by fairaqua:
Its going to take more than a few times..
Usually I think people are just being nice and polite. Change up the way you ask him
"Got anything exciting going on this weekend?" if you find youre standing next to him for a minute.
If you find something in there you can relate to, "Oh fun! I love going to _______ Baseball games! Last time I went So and So hit a grand slam. The stands were going wild!", there is your chance.
If its going to lead to "Oh, the weather should be nice for that..." I would say just leave it. I find myself in a panic on the inside when people start doing that weird idle chat.

But anyways
I know Im way more comfortable and open to talking to a person I have no interest in..
So, I think hes somewhat interested

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posted March 28, 2012 06:23 PM            

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Originally posted by fairaqua:
Its going to take more than a few times..
Usually I think people are just being nice and polite. Change up the way you ask him
"Got anything exciting going on this weekend?" if you find youre standing next to him for a minute.
If you find something in there you can relate to, "Oh fun! I love going to _______ Baseball games! Last time I went So and So hit a grand slam. The stands were going wild!", there is your chance.
If its going to lead to "Oh, the weather should be nice for that..." I would say just leave it. I find myself in a panic on the inside when people start doing that weird idle chat.

But anyways
I know Im way more comfortable and open to talking to a person I have no interest in..
So, I think hes somewhat interested

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posted March 28, 2012 06:25 PM            

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Originally posted by aquaguy91:
i agree, i wonder why it is so hard to talk to people we are interested in? im terrified to approach a girl im attracted to,but i can charm the pants off a girl i have no interest in,it sucks lol

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lol i feel your pain..

posted March 28, 2012 11:14 PM            

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Originally posted by bluegreyeyes:
Aqua Sun/Venus
Pisces Mars

I'm always told I've got a mysterious air, or an aloofness. A not so nice person once called me "cold and unapproachable".

My manager tells me after a year and a half of working together that he has no idea who I am outside of work, he said he wouldn't know if I go to church or ride motorcycles. Sadly, I talk to him the most out of all my coworkers so if he can't read me than I'm doomed, LOL.

I've learned to use it to my advantage in certain situations but when it comes to forming real relationships (romantic/friendships) it can be an obstacle. Even if I really like someone, they can NEVER tell, it's discouraging b/c I feel all vulnerable and "heart on my sleeve" while the other person is clueless. Ugh.

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posted March 29, 2012 01:15 AM            

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Originally posted by starmoon:
my bf of one year has this combo and i'd still describe him as cold and unapproachable. this combo does come off as aloof and like someone who is better than others. very hard to read, especially romantically - i find myself confused about how he feels and he displays affection in very bizarre and unconventional ways and at odd times.

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posted March 29, 2012 08:49 AM            

As for the "tough" facade, I am tough but I'm also sensitive. People can be both. I have a Sag Mars, after all. Toughness doesn't mean you lack compassion or the ability to cry.

posted March 29, 2012 11:25 AM            

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Originally posted by amowls**:
I'm an Aqua with Venus and MC in Pisces and I think I'm pretty straight forward and I don't bullsh*t around (except when it comes to my love life). I hate inauthenticity (which is why I dislike Lady Gaga and Lana del Rey).

As for the "tough" facade, I am tough but I'm also sensitive. People can be both. I have a Sag Mars, after all. Toughness doesn't mean you lack compassion or the ability to cry.

Now, as far as dating goes, I never reveal my feelings first. I'll flirt (I'm a huge flirt) but I'll never initiate. I let them come to me. My problem is however I can't gauge how serious I should be taking a dude. Like the ones I really like are always the ones that don't want a relationship. *sigh* I think it's my Sag DSC with Jupiter in Aries. Always attracted to the ones who won't settle down.

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amowls, you're so right - just b/c someone is tough doesn't mean they lack emotion. I think that's a huge misconception w/aquas. Just because I'm not crying at my desk or professing my love to everyone around me, it's like I don't FEEL those things. Rather, it's that I don't SHOW those feelings.

Never reveal feelings first... I have a trouble revealing them at all. It's like as soon as I feel any spark I bug out and get all cold & quiet. If I have no clue there's interest, I'm fine. What a mess, lol.

posted March 29, 2012 11:53 AM            

Ears burning here~the Aquarian-colored Pisces, me~

Pisces sun, tight stellium of Mars, Mercury and Jupiter in Aqua, all closely opposing Uranus (and making 3 very tight fixed tsquares to my Taurus Moon) and also squaring my Scorp asc.

Hard to get to know/read, absolutely, but I am far from fake, no illusions here, I am tough and hard, been through hell in my life and embrace all 50 years of it!

posted March 29, 2012 11:57 AM            

Air and Water.

What does one get when they mix air and water??? Fog, dense, impenetrable fog.

Neil Young's "Like a Hurricane" is us Water/Air mixes...

posted March 29, 2012 12:55 PM            

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Originally posted by RegardesPlatero:
I knew a Pisces who had very strong Aquarian influence.

Very detached. Hard to tell if she cared about people and, if so, how much. Went through a lot of rough stuff early in life--seems to happen a lot with Pisces and Scorpio people. Hard to read because of detachment. Interesting and fun to be around, but never really felt closeness or connection. Hard to know what she was thinking or feeling. Just seemed very non-emotional.

What ultimately led to me not talking to her anymore (as I said on another thread, a lot of my former friends are Pisces) is that I went through a REALLY rough situation, and she really wasn't there for me at all (neither were a lot of so-called friends, so I no longer speak to any of them and have had nothing to do with them for several years; they showed me their true colors and that's the end of that).

Fun to hang out with this person, but not someone who was reliable or someone that you could count on. Good for good times, and that was it. Fascinating, but not really friend material, at least not at that time. I have no idea if she's changed or not.

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This happened to me with a former Piscean best friend as well. She had a tough life, crisis-laden, but when things improved for her she abandoned the friends who'd been there for her during the hard times.

posted March 29, 2012 01:41 PM            

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Originally posted by Aquacheeka:

This happened to me with a former Piscean best friend as well. She had a tough life, crisis-laden, but when things improved for her she abandoned the friends who'd been there for her during the hard times.

I don't know her other placements but it made me wary of befriending "dualistic" signs, put it that way.

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Still in all, I adore my chart, it has been a rough road, but I have overcome and will overcome again and agin.

And the people in my life (it is hard for me to use the word "friend" ) are here cause I like them and they like me.

posted March 29, 2012 05:21 PM            

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Originally posted by hannaramaa:
Aw she reminds me of my Pisces friend who has Cancer ASC, Libra Moon, Aqua Venus. Definitely good at wrapping people around her finger and drawing others to her. I hope she isn't delusional like some other Pisces I've met have been, but there's some loopholes in the gossip she tells me. She's a sweetheart though. Her voice and facial features make her look 12 but she's 25! Hilarity.

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posted April 07, 2012 04:24 AM            

We were away together for work, during the week, he said he and his girlfriend were on a break, relationship not going well etc Usual story. He and I hung out and that was it, but he was trying to create intimacy on some level.

I was all ill all week and he text me everyday to see how I was, then called me yesterday when he was still in bed. I asked outright how his girlfriend situation was,he said it was all fine! He was going to stay with her until he got a better job elsewhere then break up. GOSH!

Is this usual aqua/pisces vibration? I felt him to be not clear and I am not sure where I fit in?

I am Saggie/leo moon and so prefer honesty at all times. I felt like he was not totally honest with me.