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Topic: How to reason with Pisces?
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hannaramaa
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posted March 29, 2012 01:13 AM
 
My Pisces friend doesn't have any earth in her personal planets I don't think. She's a Cancer ASC, Pisces Sun, Libra Moon, Mercury Pisces, and Venus in Aqua. For the most part she's straightforward but she seems quite gullible for someone who can "read" people. For instance, this Aqua guy I've been raving about... it just clicked with me he isn't interested and was probably being polite because he knew the Pisces was my friend. She refuses to admit this could be it. How do I reason with her? IP: Logged |
tautomer4314
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posted March 29, 2012 01:23 AM
Appeal to her emotions and sensitivities. That usually works very well on someone who has a decent pisces influence. Don't bother with hard logic, it will just hit a wall.------------------
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racole12
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posted March 29, 2012 01:24 AM
How old is she? I have Sun conj Neptune, which sometimes I need things to just hit me in the face, hard before I really get it... IP: Logged |
Betty Boop
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posted March 29, 2012 01:37 AM
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She refuses to admit this could be it
She shouldn't be involved in your love life.. It's one thing to talk to friends about personal things.. and it's another thing for those friends to become actively *involved* in the situation. Whether or not Aqua guy likes you is your business, not hers. I wouldn't have these conversations with her, trying to convince her that actually he doesn't like you "that" way.. or that he is just being friendly etc... Be a bit more indifferent towards Pisces girl.. on this subject. You can tell her - it's all good... He's a guy you thought was cute - but there are many others in the world, and you'll see how things work out - but you'd prefer it if she stayed out of it.
This is what I would do ^ If she has caught on to you being very emotional about the whole thing... so, if she thinks it means a LOT to you.. then because she is a Pisces- she will not want you to be hurt - so she'll try everything in her power to *make* him go out with you. That's why it's important you act more cool and detached about it. IP: Logged |
Rosalind
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posted March 29, 2012 01:42 AM
Unless you are the type of person who likes to be extremely secretive about everything, you cannot. Even though I am Cancer sign, Pisces became my least favourite. And no, I am not talking from the Sun sign point of view, I am talking taking into a consideration the whole chart. Dunno, maybe its about me, I'm Cancer sign with, Mercury, Venus in Leo and planets in 9th and 10th house but Pisces are crap for me now. I cannot stand their behaviour. They lie, they hide A LOT and they behave like they are ashamed about themselves and others. I do have complexes too but please, no one in his right mind would accept to be hidden or cheated or lied. Its unbeareable.IP: Logged |
Betty Boop
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posted March 29, 2012 01:42 AM
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she seems quite gullible for someone who can "read" people.
Yes.. but the question is - is she really gullible.. or is she telling you what you want to hear because she doesn't want you to be hurt? IP: Logged |
hannaramaa
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posted March 29, 2012 01:45 AM
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Originally posted by Betty Boop:
If she has caught on to you being very emotional about the whole thing... so, if she thinks it means a LOT to you.. then because she is a Pisces- she will not want you to be hurt - so she'll try everything in her power to *make* him go out with you. That's why it's important you act more cool and detached about it.
*Face palm* Dear god.. that's exactly what's happened. I mean, she asked me if I wanted her to - I was too shy, I said yes, and ... ugh. At least I've been avoiding him now.
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hannaramaa
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posted March 29, 2012 01:46 AM
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Originally posted by Rosalind:
Unless you are the type of person who likes to be extremely secretive about everything, you cannot. Even though I am Cancer sign, Pisces became my least favourite. And no, I am not talking from the Sun sign point of view, I am talking taking into a consideration the whole chart. Dunno, maybe its about me, I'm Cancer sign with, Mercury, Venus in Leo and planets in 9th and 10th house but Pisces are crap for me now. I cannot stand their behaviour. They lie, they hide A LOT and they behave like they are ashamed about themselves and others. I do have complexes too but please, no one in his right mind would accept to be hidden or cheated or lied. Its unbeareable.
I've had experiences where they hide a lot. It's frustrating for me as an Aries but usually it was hidden because they didn't want me to be hurt. Other than that I've had positive experiences with Pisces.
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Betty Boop
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posted March 29, 2012 01:58 AM
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*Face palm* Dear god.. that's exactly what's happened. I mean, she asked me if I wanted her to - I was too shy, I said yes, and ... ugh. At least I've been avoiding him now.
It's ok. Don't freak out. You just have to put an end to this, because it seems messy.
So, draw a line on what you have said to her so far and starting tomorrow - you are *over* him- or at least "not that into him". It doesn't matter if it seems schizophrenic to you to act this way from one day to the next ^ - the important thing is that you treat the subject of “him” with complete indifference. If she brings him up you can change the subject to something else OR - to a different guy. And just tell her - you're not that interested anymore. It will all blow over quickly - A couple of weeks at most.
But you have to keep it up ... because Pisces girl won't instantly believe that you are over him. So, whenever she brings him up - don't take the bait and start discussing him! IP: Logged |
hannaramaa
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posted March 29, 2012 02:02 AM
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Originally posted by Betty Boop:
It's ok. Don't freak out.You just have to put an end to this, because it seems messy.
So, draw a line on what you have said to her so far and starting tomorrow - you are *over* him- or at least "not that into him". It doesn't matter if it seems schizophrenic to you to act this way from one day to the next ^ - the important thing is that you treat the subject of “him” with complete indifference. If she brings him up you can change the subject to something else OR - to a different guy. And just tell her - you're not that interested anymore. It will all blow over quickly - A couple of weeks at most.
But you have to keep it up ... because Pisces girl won't instantly believe that you are over him. So, whenever she brings him up - don't take the bait and start discussing him!
Lol you've been there done that, huh? And yes it is messy and that's why I was backing out even before I got a clue. I'm not freaking out about her, more like what in god's green earth does he think of me - no, you know what, doesn't matter. Doesn't matter because he isn't apart of my life. It's really hard not to freak out lol. I have to see him at work all the time. IP: Logged |
Betty Boop
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posted March 29, 2012 02:18 AM
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Lol you've been there done that, huh?
LOL I went through something similar! My bff was trying to get me back together with my ex, because she thought I was still in love with him. She gave him the wrong idea, and he tried to contact me being all nice.. basically saying that he is sorry that things didn't work out and that he doesn't want me to be upset bla bla... (pity party!) And I was just like - HUH? Because I didn't understand why he was so concerned, thinking I'm upset and what not... when I was happy overall. I mean it's never nice when things end, but I didn't want to get back with him. So he told me he'd spoken to my bff, and that she was worried about me.
I was literally LIKE -- W.T.F!!!  (not out loud.. just in my head) But yeah... the only thing you can do is avoid the whole subject until it blows over.. and avoid talking to her about this. IP: Logged |
TrueTaurus
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posted March 29, 2012 02:52 AM
Maybe you could say something like, 'if he really cared about you, he'd do such and such," or imagine if you were a guy, if you cared about someone, you'd say/do this..."
I don't know, but I have a Cancer Rising and in general a lot of water. IP: Logged |
MataMoros
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posted March 29, 2012 04:19 AM
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TrueTaurus
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posted March 29, 2012 05:13 AM
Perhaps you're a Pisces. IP: Logged |
MataMoros
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posted March 29, 2012 05:15 AM
I am a triple Leo. Yeah. I run **** . IP: Logged |
aquaguy91
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posted March 29, 2012 05:17 AM
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Originally posted by MataMoros:
I am a triple Leo. Yeah. I run **** .
thats obvious,you are trying so hard to get attention but you are failing royally XD IP: Logged |
Rosalind
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posted March 29, 2012 05:21 AM
I didnt know Leos are jerks.IP: Logged |
WhiteBirds
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posted July 18, 2021 05:47 AM
It can not . The madwoman who kidnapped me was Pisces. There was no way to make her understand that I was not her daughter, and that I should return to my country with my family. She was in the world of her deli Delusional that I was his daughter. Holding me against my will. And there was absolutely nothing to do or say that could make her change her mind. It is impossible to reason with them.
The best advice is to run away. If I want water I go into the depths of Scorpio, or the tenderness and innocence of Cancer.
Pisces, being the last sign, can be the biggest sons of ******* . With that of "everything is an illusion"IP: Logged |
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