posted March 30, 2012 03:02 PM            

I don't know if this is the universe f'ing with my head or if this is just divine intervention, but I keep ending up in the same places as my "crushes". I dislike calling them crushes because I am too damn old to have one (31), and I think the term should be only used by someone still in their 'tweens'. But, I will call them that because I've known them for a while, eventhough we are not friends, just mere aqaintences.

---Anywho, the first guy (who looks like a libra or a Sag..yawza!) works in the same buliding as me but in a different department. Whenever we get around each other, there's always a strange, nervous, electric energy. He always whistles and avoids giving me eye contact. I am uber scared to tell him how I feel because I feel he could be married or taken. But it seems like when I think of him the most, he shows up...weird.

---The other guy works next door to me at a college. He looks like an aquarius or virgo, very studious and well-dressed, with very dreamy eyes. We exchanged glances for a while I was waiting for the bus a few times last summer and I just started to see him again. ACTUALLY...I was having dinner with my sisters and we sat tables away from each other!!! we kept making eye contact, and I wanted to chat with him so bad, I just could'nt gather up enough guts to.

I guess what I'm getting at is...what does all this mean? I am SO ready to meet someone and to have someone in my life, but...I get so damn shy and scared at the thought of approaching one of them!? I have venus in gemini..natally, so this is a shock I have not nabbed one them yet.

posted April 08, 2012 02:02 AM            

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I don't know if this is the universe f'ing with my head or if this is just divine intervention, but I keep ending up in the same places as my "crushes"

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the exact same thing happens to me! and then when im not interested in them anymore and want to forget about them, i actually stop running into them everywhere!

posted April 08, 2012 05:39 AM            

At least that's what I do everytime... may or may not start anything but the process of getting to know each other is electrifying and addictive.

For all you know, they are nervous about getting to know you too. You're helping them instead .

posted April 08, 2012 05:43 AM            

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Originally posted by RunAroundScreaming:
the exact same thing happens to me! and then when im not interested in them anymore and want to forget about them, i actually stop running into them everywhere!

i always thought there had to be an astrological reason behind that

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posted April 08, 2012 02:50 PM            

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Originally posted by lilithpluto:
Exactly. Feels the same here too..

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I was thinking that maybe the logical reason behind that is that you both go to places where you are likely to run into each other, because you're looking for each other. And then when the time to move on comes, both of you stop looking for each other, so since you make yourself less visible by going to less places....you dont see each other around anymore.