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Topic: Men with Mars in cancer
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Dreaming111
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posted March 30, 2012 05:56 PM
  
The guy I was interested in had Mars in cancer in his 12th house. 29 cancer 51'59". It was almost in the 11th house, so take the 12th house in cancer with a grain of salt. Also, one could interpret it as being mars in leo in the 12th house too. Mars was also:
square his moon
semisquare his mercury
trine jupiter
square saturn
trine uranus
square pluto
sextile chiron
quincunx AC What do you make of this? For me it played out that he was very very manipulative but would have this outward appearance of being innocent and simple. He was kinda hard to pin as being a fraud or liar. Anyway, what are your own experiences with mars in cancer or leo in 11th or 12th house? IP: Logged |
Doux Rêve
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posted March 30, 2012 06:01 PM
Okay so I think this is really a matter of aspects more than a matter of sign.Yes, Cancer can be manipulative, so Mars there can manifest that way, but the squares to the Moon, Saturn and Pluto are more important.
Such an afflicted Mars, even with a trine from Jupiter, will probably find it hard to manifest in a positive way. Edit: AND it being in the 12th only makes it worse, so I can totally see that he was manipulative, makes perfect sense.
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Dreaming111
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posted March 30, 2012 06:14 PM
Yeah, that makes sense to me. The 12th house and the mars in cancer would make it difficult for him to express himself. He had a hard time getting angry when he did he seemed to not be used to or refined with anger. You know as the rest of us learn from our silly mistakes during angry moments. I feel like he hasn't allowed himself ot have many. I makes a fool of himself actually. lol
And when he does get angry he tries to run away or act like a complete lunatic, not the angry scary kind but the laughable stupid kind. lol 
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Doux Rêve
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posted March 30, 2012 06:25 PM
Anger can be (and very often is) hard to express for many people. While I understand that it's not easy, it doesn't justify bad behaviour.. So if this guy was disrespectful and now you got rid of him, all the better.IP: Logged |
inthemisosoup
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posted March 30, 2012 06:34 PM
My first love had Mars in Cancer and he was a sweet heart. Very little bad bones in his body. He just hated conflict and it got a little annoying from time to time. I have Pisces mars, so I understand avoiding conflict but my Mars is also in the first and has more assertive energies than the usual Mars in Pisces. He would just avoid, avoid, avoid, and end up hurting people along the way (for example, when he broke up with me he did it through e-mail . . . c'mon now), or he was angry but it was hard to tell or understand why because he was so passive-aggressive. But I overall like this placement as I don't like overly aggressive men, but I *do* like them to have some balls. He was kind and creative and sensitive (a musician) which I loved. His Mars was conjunct Mercury, square Jupiter, and trine Moon. I don't know what house as this was long before I discovered astrology.My current crush has this placement, too (can't get away from them, I guess). But his has a scary square to Pluto . . . IP: Logged |
Dreaming111
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posted March 30, 2012 08:58 PM
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Originally posted by inthemisosoup:
My first love had Mars in Cancer and he was a sweet heart. Very little bad bones in his body. He just hated conflict and it got a little annoying from time to time. I have Pisces mars, so I understand avoiding conflict but my Mars is also in the first and has more assertive energies than the usual Mars in Pisces. He would just avoid, avoid, avoid, and end up hurting people along the way (for example, when he broke up with me he did it through e-mail . . . c'mon now), or he was angry but it was hard to tell or understand why because he was so passive-aggressive. But I overall like this placement as I don't like overly aggressive men, but I *do* like them to have some balls. He was kind and creative and sensitive (a musician) which I loved. His Mars was conjunct Mercury, square Jupiter, and trine Moon. I don't know what house as this was long before I discovered astrology.My current crush has this placement, too (can't get away from them, I guess). But his has a scary square to Pluto . . .
Yes!! Passive aggressive. You're right they avoid things that they shouldn't to avoid hurting people but in fact their avoidance of crucial issues ends up hurting people even more. I think they just don't get it or are ....weak? Maybe they don't have enough courage or maybe they don't want the responsibility of the consequences. In any case, the guy I was talking to was very passive aggressive, avoidant, and very aloof. I would say in total he was very selfish. Yup. I picked a real pearl huh? He didn't tell me that he wanted out or had grown tired until I kept at him and made him blow up. I find that these people tell more truths during their moments of anger than otherwise. He always ended up telling me the truth or at least what I was suspecting during those moments. I hope I never meet this kind of man again. Whew was it a nightmare.... IP: Logged |
inthemisosoup
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posted March 31, 2012 10:31 AM
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Originally posted by Dreaming111:
Yes!! Passive aggressive. You're right they avoid things that they shouldn't to avoid hurting people but in fact their avoidance of crucial issues ends up hurting people even more. I think they just don't get it or are ....weak? Maybe they don't have enough courage or maybe they don't want the responsibility of the consequences. In any case, the guy I was talking to was very passive aggressive, avoidant, and very aloof. I would say in total he was very selfish. Yup. I picked a real pearl huh? He didn't tell me that he wanted out or had grown tired until I kept at him and made him blow up. I find that these people tell more truths during their moments of anger than otherwise. He always ended up telling me the truth or at least what I was suspecting during those moments. I hope I never meet this kind of man again. Whew was it a nightmare....
Well I wouldn't totally write off this placement as it will manifest differently in different people/aspects/placements. My own experience has been overall positive. I only have known 2 men with that placement like I said, and one of them I don't really know enough about to judge. I never had a problem with my ex telling me the truth. He was always very honest with me when it counted. But if he thought he was going to hurt me or someone he would just avoid the issue and pretend it wasn't bothering him . . . only to blow up about it later. He does/did play with lies when they helped him avoid bigger conflicts, though. As far as I know, he never did that with me. But who really knows. On the positive, like I said, they tend to be really sweet, caring people who will do practically anything for those they love. IP: Logged | |
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