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Geminisquared
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posted March 31, 2012 01:38 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Geminisquared     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
because I'm not

So when I met this girl I just knew immediately she had a crush on me its not what she did, she was actually normal, but I usually get these vibes from people. I think I pay careful attention to body language, or maybe intuition idk. If I'm not interested, I don't like leading people on , but I find out she has a boyfriend. So we became friends.

While they were dating she was complementing me too much, I just assumed she was being nice. I like to give compliments too.
Well as soon as they broke up, she would text me inappropriate things and later would tell me she was drunk and lonely and she did not want to ruin our friendship and she was being silly. So I make it a point that we are only friends. I'm not sure what her motives are, she talks about her ex all the time, which is a no no if you're interested in someone. Our college went to field trip we sat together and at first it was really normal just talking and then she started tickling me and her then became a started rubbing my leg. I had to tell her to stop 500 hundred times she was behaving like a freaking guy, I just thought she was just being flirty, so I put a binder between us. So yeah it was awkward, but we finally arrived met up with some other friends and had a normal day.

When we left she was tickling me again and I told her to stop, we were talking and telling jokes so I just assumed she was just messing with me, because she thinks it "bugs me" -_- So I went to sleep, I woke up blah blah blah Guess whats happening. Okay whatever..... So before I went back to my dorm she kissed me and I was like what are you doing, and she got really offended and walked away. I'm not against casual sex but I think she wants something serious. I have a feeling she is just having a hard time going through her break up but when talking to her she seemed really nonchalant about it. I don't know why she would use a friend as a rebound... I would just let things take its course but Its annoying because were in the same circle of friends and I'm looking for a drama free semester. I don't know why shes making this painfully awkward.

Heres our synastry chart http://i.imgur.com/nm2LG.gif

I'm actually laughing at venus conjunct mars. Guess who is the mars?

Venus conjunct mars in synastry is pretty powerful. A similar situation happened to with with a good friend I was the mars thou the attraction was there but because we were like siblings it was really hard for us to come to terms with it.

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amowls**
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posted March 31, 2012 12:16 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for amowls**     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
She doesn't TRULY want anything serious, she's just looking for a rebound. Rebounding to a friend is the easiest because you already have an emotional attachment and you can be her stand-in boyfriend while she heals. It sounds ****** and selfish, but that's what goes through people's minds when they're freshly single. They're lonely and sad and just want someone to be there for them. I don't think she wants to date you seriously.

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